Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. @JR-kv6ez  no, if you do your research you'll find he held multiple jobs during that 15yr period and was a stay at home dad while she was a career woman who made substantially more than him, enough to the point that in the liberal state of NJ she had to pay him alimony. She was nearly 40 when they got married when the average marriage that ends in divorce lasts 8yrs which means she could've been married and divorced at least once already and in the photos from the day of their wedding both were already gray. There were literally no assumptions at all in that run on sentence.
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  2. @JR-kv6ez  that's quite literally exactly what you're doing minus what little video there is of the woman and you're taking that as gospel.
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  3. ​ @GIboy1990  and those who don't? The 47% is actually accurate.
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  4. Move up to the mountains for sure, but also train your sons to see objective reality and to be modern warlords.
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  5. Many people seem to think that if there wasn't a law stating that they had the right to do a thing, that this means they were automatically prohibited from that thing.
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  6. I don't care to know, but I would assume most of my exs are single still. If not, I feel bad for the dude dumb enough to be with them.
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  7. If it's spoken it is law.
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  8. What exactly did she do that she wouldn't do if she was single? If dude provides that house, then she had better keep it immaculate or go be equal elsewhere.
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  9. ​ @paulinelmnl  so what age difference would it be reasonable to make a crime worthy of the death sentence?
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  10. @h.u.l.k.7072  that's as far as I know, and I don't know how solid that is, I had this boss years back (woman) who took her husband to court over it and he had to spend a night in jail and then basically shag her within a week and also start marriage counseling. That being said, it was a woman who took the man to court, I doubt modern judges would rule the same if it were a man. But yeah sex is important in a relationship, I know there will be "dry times" here and there throughout a long marriage depending, but there really shouldn't be. Plus statistically speaking, couples who have sex 5+ times a week on average make significantly more money than those who have sex 3 or less times per week. And lastly, a joke a 90 something year old man told me one time, he said every once in a while he'll stay up later than usual, sit in his chair in the living room reading or something, and when his wife (who was standing there when he told the joke) fell asleep he'd go get a glass of water, go to the room and toss the water on her. She would of course wake up cussing and ask him what the hell he was doing, he'd reply that he was bringing her a glass of water for her headache to which she would reply that she didn't have a headache and he would say; OK, well now that's out of the way. It's funnier in person and from a old man, made my day, that couple was fantastic, out and about regularly and had a great relationship, always smiling.
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  11. Men are more likely to be attacked. We just aren't paranoid which is a personal problem.
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  12. It's almost like boundaries were there for our own good.
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  13. 5:13 Lol someone drop a $20 bill in front of her on a windy day.
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  14. She shouldn't be entering a relationship with someone she doesn't trust or respect. This eliminates the problem.
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  15. Based.
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  16. If you knew at the time it would've been funny to say "yeah and Samantha is way better in bed than you!" And watch her suddenly hesitate to leave, then tell her to.
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  17. I'm assuming your mom was divorced?...
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  18. Even he entertained her to much. He should've told her point blank "you play games, I don't want you, I don't want you to fight to keep me, you lost your opportunity and showed your level of maturity and it's lacking. Bye."
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  19. You fly the flag upside down to signal distress if I'm not mistaken. Edit, according to federal law it is illegal to fly a US flag upside down except to signal dire distress.
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  20. Or pay for her own ride. If you're ungrateful then use them lamborfeeties!
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  21. ​@fllf3078 nah man, we all understand thats life. Most of my friends were married before me, hell I was the one who hooked one of them up and was their best man. In the end when we hangout we pick up as if no time has passed, catch up if anything significant has happened and live.
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  22.  @hisss  appreciate it man, it's been almost 2yrs now, not something you ever get over I think. My oldest brother died also long before I was born and it definitely left a mark on my parents but there's that to relate to I guess though that dosent help. But it's some of the stuff that's said in those poems that does especially the last one, that one and If. You've just gotta keep going when life goes wrong, don't let it kill or negatively change your spirit. Personally I am Christian, but it's not really a comfort or consolation because I'm greedy and wanted to be her dad in this life and watch her grow up. But for the time that we are given here, we fight to retain and create a pure spirit of strength and virtue.
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  23. And clueless as to what true beauty is, your grandmother saw more beauty than any of these and it came from her, yet her mind was still with the one she loved. That whole situation is true beauty.
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  24. Chick at 0:54 wants a "real" man! 😂
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  25.  @sirmingusdewiv8325  sure, he was fat lol. Still dosent change youthful virility being a good thing and you shouldn't need to be directed to the examples of that. Beyond that, talking about being manly while bringing up appearances is ironic and I'm not sure if you realized that when you said it, or thought people wouldn't pick up on it. Why not bring up his taste in fashion while you're at it? That's masculine right?
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  26. This happens when someone pushes morals but don't teach them, what they are and why they are important.
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  27. Guys are the primary target of attacks yet most aren't paranoid. It's a personal problem they want to make everyone else's because they don't see a issue with walking down a dark ally that they hear yelling, glass bottles rolling and zombie like vocalizations coming from. I've seen a lot of vvomen in situations where a man absolutely would've been attacked yet everyone left them alone. What it really is, is entitlement, to be able to do whatever they want without consequences, they want the world to bow at their feet and are so concerned and fearful about it all that they will lay their hands on men, even cops and think it's just fine and he shouldn't defend himself.
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  28. I read this and what immediately popped into my head was "fight! Fight! Fight!" 😂
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  29. Proximity and biology are real and you cannot beat them no matter how alpha you think you are.
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  30. Just break down crying over something little in front of them, lay it on thick AF, then give it 3 weeks.
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  31. @ingetout  so getting married at nearly 40 isn't old and she couldn't have been divorced by then even though the average length of a marriage before divorce is 8yrs... Yes, getting married at 38 is old, and in their photos both were already gray. As of 2022 the average employee will stay with a employer for 4.3yrs and you're more likely to see pay increases by changing jobs than by staying with one employer. Additionally according to the AP he was a stay at home dad while the woman was the career holder. You cannot spin him as being some kind of deadbeat loser without holding a double standard and who takes up interviews with media just to go on about morality and how they've been wronged. It was absolutely a attempt at sympathy farming and incredible that he ever even got alimony to begin with which shows that she was making substantially more than him bare minimum. NJ is a liberal state, the chances he would win alimony there are more slim than many other states so I'm not buying her pity party and the red flags are all there.
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  32. ​@ejtaylor73 and it's for this reason that I say you have no right to privacy in a marriage. I know my wife's password and she knows mine, we use each other's phones often and neither of us have social media. If it's always transparent it can never be a point of contention.
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  33. It use to be punishable by deletion, should be again.
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  34. Are you telling me you can process your thoughts without saying them out loud?! Omg how?!?! 😂
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  35. Having worked in a old folks home I can guarantee it. If prisoners were treated that way they would all go completely crazy and guards wouldn't be able to do a thing.
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  36. 5:49 I have to disagree with you here man. Women are a bonus, but Alexander the Great, Atilla the Hun, Genghis Khan ect did what they did for glory, to build, to conquer, to make a great name either for themselves, or their posterity. A father absolutely takes care of and invests in his family, but even culturally in the west and historically Christian nations this is how you were supposed to live not for them, but for God. "Anyone who loves their father or mother, son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me." Matthew 10:37 The point of being benevolent is not primarily for the sake of those who are under your care, but as a responsibility to God and your relationship with Him.
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  37. No dude, women want that teasing and play, if you aren't doing something like that here and there, she's gonna cheat on you.
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  38. 8:41 women mate guard hard, if she likes you, you'll know, if you aren't sure, well, now you know.
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  39. Trade school for the win!
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  40. Good, you shouldn't, no more than you care for men, they aren't special, they are just people, maybe some day you meet one who is a good match, then they really won't matter.
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  41. It's global to a varying degree, it's not cultural, it's human impulse and a lack of self discipline.
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  42. Kudos king. Discipline starts small, always push yourself and do it for yourself to be the man you want to be.
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  43. 6:07 wine that is 1yr old, looks the same as wine that is 10yrs old, it's not about looks, it's about how smooth it is, it's about the subtle undertones, it's all the flavors blending together more smoothly. So yes, men do age like wine.
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  44. I've got a scar from where my ex broke a liquor bottle over the back of my head, but I'm not showing it. If she's that deep into a state of psychosis then I'm not gonna pull her out when she doesn't want to, not my problem.
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  45. They tell on themselves, they have the intelligence and maturity of a 1yr old lol.
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  46. But truth be told, if you really want her to want it more, 1: never bring it up and on occasion withold it. Tease her. And 2: make sure she's getting enough sunlight, if that's not a option vitamin D3 with K2 can help a little if those are low. Also ice baths. And remove stimulants like sugar, add in other stuff like garlic, oysters, and foods rich in omega 3 fatty acids. In my opinion, sex hormones are one of the better metrics of over all health, birth control generally negatively fucks with these things even if it's been a long time since she's used them. And make sure she gets the blood flowing regularly, dosent need to be a lot, but at least 150 minutes per week, so go to a park and play soccer with her or go hiking regularly. Also saunas do boost HGH if you stay in them long enough at a hot enough temp, if memory serves me right 185-200°F, 30 minutes in, 10 out, 30 in again, 4hr break and repeat once every two weeks. This increases HGH by 1600%.
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  47. Women aren't good for conversation most of the time anyway, it's extremely rare. Same could be said for men as well, but it's honestly not as big of a loss as some think, just more time and peace for you to focus on your grind brother. Keep your head up and don't fall for the psyop of always needing female attention. Getting respect from one man is worth more than the love of 1000 women.
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  48. 20:00 so dude buys himself a car, which he pays for himself while she doesn't work, and he's the bad guy.... Dude is better off single and I guarantee he's happier.
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  49. @ratillecebrasquedubitantiu4451  I mean sure there's gonna be variation in one's bone structure, for instance my cousin once said I have birthing hips after he tried to punch me in the kidney and hit my hip bone 🤣. But the excuse they give of being big boned is the opposite of what obesity does.
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  50. @1TightMinute  I had this happen years back, really not long enough ago. Two co worker's separately decided to tell their other coworkers they were dating me, a mutual friend told the other and I was called into the directors office for my supposed actions which were disrupting the workplace. I didn't know I had a girlfriend at the time much less two. So it's completely possible that not only did he not know they were dating, but that he himself may be a figment of her imagination or at least a target of it. Even when a loyal simp leaves gets a girlfriend they get upset, it's not but a hop of the imagination for her to claim they were actually dating and he's cheating in order for her ego to justify no longer wanting him. But she will only want him more.
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