Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. Just one reason, a big one for sure.
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  2. @kalebhoward792  dam man, that sounds rough. Just be sure you don't carry shame others put on you, that crap will follow you for life if you don't face it. But good on you for getting out of there, that couldn't have been easy. Imo, once you're a parent, you lose all excuses, you do your duty as a parent and do it with love. It would be nice if every parent felt that way and while deserve is a strong word, kids are pure, it's the adult world that pollutes the minds of children and imbues them with problems.
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  3. If she ain't down for Jesus chicken you gotta return her to her dad.
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  4.  @boondocks8002  ahh yeah that makes sense.
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  5. Correct.
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  6. ​ @jacktheomnithere2127  "I'm NoT fAt I'm JusT bIg BoNeD!"
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  7. Was absolute cringe. About half my family are RNs and had to work with those clowns.
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  8. 1:09 Women keeping other women miserable. You date a dude who has no standards you get what you deserve. All men who have put it work, learn some level of self respect and protect what they have worked for. Some unfortunately havent suffered enough before learning this lesson in the hardest way. 2:08 this is why I never buy new cars, I fell for that once, never again will I go into debt like that. I can though work on just about any car minus electric cars. 3:00 if a woman cant respect you, she will NEVER love you. 4:30 This issue will continue in the current western atmosphere as long as the current culture exists. If only simps realized how much of their lives they are burning to ash.
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  9. Took my wife to a restaurant this last weekend, good food, on the 30th floor so we had a nice view of all the drug addicts, dealers, homeless and 304s thinking that was a cool counter culture crowd to be around. Yay for liberal cities... I'd rather go camping or fire up the smoker and grill and make a nice date/family night.
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  10. Hell yeah man!!!
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  11. Al Capone was called babyface. Youthful virility is a good thing.
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  12. What's most annoying about those, is that the dude doesn't immediately walk away. Those types of women will always exist, but men's response to these types is what's most annoying.
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  13. Living that indulgent life ehh!!! Decadent! 😂
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  14. I hate American politics because I understand them. But yeah there's a visible difference. I don't even like Trump, he definitely doesn't represent my desires ect, but I'm voting for him.
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  15. You really gonna pay half her college debt and half her car note? Cause that's what they mean when they say 50/50 lol. Considering what most of them happily spend, she will spend more than you, add both up and split it equally (50/50) and you're getting shafted.
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  16.  @LoLaSn  well if he's around her that much, vetting her by getting to know her family and friends, he would've known. If you don't do this, you're marrying a woman you know nothing about. Only unwise men and simps do that. So either one he jumped into marriage which is such a horrible idea, or two he was aware, in either case, as C.S. Lewis once said "life is a brutal teacher, but you learn, my God do you learn." Sad part is, he will waste his vest years learning that cruel lesson the hard way. As I see it, if I go to pet a grizzly bear because I don't understand their nature, who is at fault for the impending mauling? Me, or the creature acting out it's nature. And if I do so and get mauled, do I blame the bear? Or do I blame my own stupidity? I think that depends on if you want to relinquish your life to mere fate and take on the role of NPC, or if you want to rise above and have some control over your life. This lesson I learned from a cheating ex and I hope all men learn quicker than I did, but, ultimately, I have no one to blame but myself.
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  17. 18:05 thing is, so many people treat God as if He exists to serve humans, which is hilarious, I mean that level of arrogance is WILD!
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  18.  @redfo3009  yeah, safe and effective seems to be the mantra of snake oil salesmen.
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  19. ​@_munkykok_ nowhere near as many as there use to be.
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  20. ​ @nicolem889 exposing your choice of men I see lol.
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  21. @matthewsukkau382  yup, during his 15yrs off and on employment he was also a stay at home dad, raised her kids so she could continue her career. So naturally because he was dumb enough to sacrifice for her, she thinks she better than him because all they think about is money, not the kids, not the man, not the fact that he married her at 38 when no one else would and likely after she had already drug some other sorry soul through the court system. I can't verify if the kids were his or not but I'm thinking they are not otherwise he would've had to pay child support or would've gotten custody and that would've absolutely been in at least one article.
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  22. I view relationships a lot like children. So long as their needs are met (your own in regards to the dating world) then it should be fine. Imo your needs would be a growing savings account, ownership or progress made towards ownership of a house, basically just basic wise financial decisions. Beyond that if a woman is concerned with how much I make she's for the streets. Unless you're trying to be a Rockefeller (good luck, they'd off you if you ever got close) then stop trying to flex with their money, it's laughable. That being said, it's my personal opinion that a man should be seeking to be and do the best he can in every aspect of life, not for women, not for others, but for the pursuit of virtue alone. If it's for anyone, it should be for his children and or to lift others up and enable others to live more virtuous lives, not more gluttonous or materialistic lives.
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  23. Not to mention they discover new "traumas" from their past. People who go through therapy end up worse people with broken throught processes.
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  24. She's mad that it is official that she was only ever a side piece.
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  25. Lesson learned, never ask.
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  26. Chick at 7:35 Doesn't seem to understand that she's not just competing with other women, shes also competing with the absence of women. For instance, lets call her Tammy; Tammy here is a drain on my peace by about -2pts, but Amanda is a drain on my peace by about -3pts, however, simply having no woman means I have my peace in full measure. I can build the house, I can furnish the house, I can decorate the house, organize the house and make myself any kind of food, wash my cloths ect cause ya know, Im a stronk Nd independence mann an I dunt need nuh whaymen! People seem to have become so emotionally codependent that they forget the only reason to be in a relationship with someone is because you genuinely enjoy them and love them, not because your mommy or daddy issues wont let you sleep alone at night without going crazy.
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  27. Tell him to take it out in the gym and to learn his lesson. If she's not investing, she's just preparing to leave, make her invest and if she won't she belongs to the streets.
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  28. @wizrom3046  depends on his intentions. If he wants long term then treating her like crap is not gonna last, she'll hit her late 20s and the feel good BS feminists spew will sound accurate. If you have to yell or reinforce your message in any similar such way, she wasn't listening. But if you hold to your boundaries there is no need to yell, either she gets it, or she gets the boot. But if you start with your boundaries and don't compromise them all while speaking calmly AND requiring that she be invested in the relationship as well, then you have a recipe for long term success. Treating them like crap works short term, but won't long term. You've gotta treat them like a child and lead them like one.
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  29.  @tajdvl-advocate6113  then why is she teaching to men?
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  30.  @aaronrodgers9202  absolutely wouldn't doubt it!
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  31. It's just meant to reinforce it more and make it more popular. In 2040 maybe we can look back and mock this strong and independent "hip" trend.
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  32. Work is stressful? Does this mean you expect me to retire you in order for you to be a decent human? Yeah absolutely not! 304 can be single.
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  33. 1st wave feminism was a starting point by the Frankfurt school line of thinking and landed us here just like it did the Weimar republic. Same cycle different nation.
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  34. Nah, society is still adjusting to the industrial revolution.
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  35. 0:47 so basically everything she did, she would have to do if she was single anyway... This is what happens when you're to afraid to stand up for yourself, they claim that making their own bed was some benevolent thing done for you as if they would never make their own bed and its some heavy burden...
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  36. I'm gonna try to make this short but remember this. A study was done at a preschool, kids who liked coloring were given rewards for doing so, after the rewards were removed the kids stopped even though they use to do it for the joy of it. Eventually they went back to it but what this showed is by rewarding a behavior the kids attention shifted to the reward and they lost the joy of doing what they use to. Moral is, focus on the effort, learn to love the effort, the lifestyle, the rewards will come, just always focus on the effort as being all the reward you need, it'll propel you and push you beyond your current limitations. Also if you haven't, go listen or read the poems The man in the Arena: Teddy Roosevelt If: Rudyard Kipling Proof Of Worth by Edgar Albert Guest That last one I stumbled across the day my daughter died and I can't listen to it because of that, but these are some of the greatest bits of advice on masculinity here in these poems.
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  37.  @RedYDG  it's dangerous though, a while back I had a hell of a epiphany, to summarize, I was the same when I was young and my parents not seeing it didn't intervene when I felt pressured to be nice even though it wasn't what I wanted, my parents not stepping in droves a wedge between me and them that lasted until more recently, which ultimately led me down a path of bad decision making. I have to be very careful to make sure I don't put him in similar situations and teach him the tools he needs to deal with any hardship he may encounter from that such as speaking up for himself, so far he does very well at that and at 5 can have a full conversation quite grounded in reality. As of now I'm working on teaching him to be independent and disciplined and showing him how self discipline gets him good things and how hard work is opportunity not to steer away from, he's doing very good for his age, I'm excited to see the man he will grown to be, but I'm gonna enjoy the process and try to make it as enjoyable for him as well.
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  38. Called a "humblebrag", not humble at all and most likely a lie.
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  39. ​ @ingetout  no, he didn't have a career, he worked multiple jobs during that time, she was the career woman, they married when they were old so a second marriage at least for her, not sure about him. She never asked for money but just didn't want to pay alimony, it was the media trying to incite hate against a old man who was basically retired.
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  40. "Nobody is more inferior than those who insist on being equal." Friedrich Nietzsche
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  41. When those chicks said that the dudes put in no effort, its probably the case that he wanted to take them somewhere they wanted and let them decide because you pick somewhere and they dont like it, they cant make their minds up. That being said i intentionally dont go out of my way, if she dosent like me for who I am then why would i try to win her affection with gib-mes?
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  42. Her boyfriend and his friends would do the quest, women are boring.
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  43. ​ @manfredschmalbach9023 pretty sure Solaris moon is a chick based on a name like that. As if a woman has a clue what being a man is or should be lol.
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  44. Just wait till they learn that they are competing with our motorcycles. 😂 "Good luck!"
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  45. Matthew 10:37 Absolutely based!
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  46. Her:"it's not you it's me." Me:"well aren't we captain obvious!"
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  47. I know one woman who's man (ex navy seal) broke his back, was never the same, Dr's hopped him up on so many meds and basically were just making money off him, she stuck by him and is by him still. They went the more holistic route and got off a lot of the meds and he's feeling a lot better.
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  48. The only way I think a woman can turn out halfway decent is if she had a good father who raises her to control her tendencies from the very start, and then she gets married to a guy who keeps her in check as well, otherwise a little pain causes a lot of coping for women and when they cope they mess up at rapidly accelerating rates. For a woman to keep herself in a healthy emotional place by the time she turns 20 would be a miracle, probably not possible unless you live in the middle of nowhere and never have contact with the outside world.
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  49. I've got a 1947 edition of Life magazine which is about 1/4 cigarette adds.
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  50. ​ @robertmaybeth3434  because he enabled that woman to pursue her career and focused his life on that working dead end jobs for 15yrs after marrying the old lady and was rewarded for it while she left him because he made less than her.
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