Comments by "wtfserpico" (@wtfserpico) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. At least the girl at 5:00 is looking at church...although my guess is she didn't start looking at church until she hit 30, rather than back when she was 19 and should have been.
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  2.  @ronfrederickcuico730  The bible tells me that we live in a world of sin, first and foremost. Living a Christ-like life is one of the most difficult things a person can possibly do. The world is most certainly NOT good.
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  3. ​ @justinlevy274  Fair point. She changed you in her mind when you refused to bend to her will. Again, starting to date you was the right choice, and the end of the relationship was either the right choice because you were "suddenly" a different person, or she was victimized....in her mind, so it was the right choice. Tale as old as time.
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  4.  @broadestsmiler  Preach brother Evan!
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  5.  @NarwahlGaming  You got this bro! Even though the process of cleaning kind of sucks, the satisfaction of having a clean place is just unbeatable.
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  6. This one goes out to my brothers who are in a relationship but still can't kick the p*rn. You need to discipline yourself. First: Find something reasonably difficult to do like 20+ pushups and do that every time you think about it and are in a position where you would actually watch it. Second: Every time an something external to your relationship makes you think about s*x force yourself to think about your girl in that moment. These things will help you overcome the desire to indulge in activities that will harm your mental health while simultaneously improving your physical health and ensuring that you stay attracted to and focused on your girl. It matters in the long run because looks do fade over time, and her body is going to change, especially after childbirth, and it's important that you maintain a connection with her and that she knows it.
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  7.  @spinmaster0  I've never heard of dowries being paid to the woman. I've only ever heard of the woman's family paying the dowry.
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  8. Dudes aren't coming here for tips to get laid, dudes come here for tips on how to improve themselves and find a high value woman to stick with. The problem isn't that it's hard to get laid, the problem is that it's way too easy.
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  9. And yet he survived and found a woman who treats him better than his first wife ever did. My man leveled up.
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  10. If she is married I hope her husband saw and noticed as well.
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  11.  @shadymodnation5781  Sad.
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  12.  @MrJavomon  LOL! Bro, you aren't going to walk up to some random girl and say this. Read what I wrote. This is a conversation ender, not some negging technique or some desperate reverse psychology thing.
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  13. Keep it up brother!
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  14.  @christopherconard2831  Sorry you had to deal with that brother, but hopefully not having to deal with her anymore is somewhat of a silver lining.
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  15. Keep on fighting the good fight brother!
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  16.  @ronfrederickcuico730  You chose to simply focus on one part of my statement while ignoring the other part. Good is trying to live a Christ-like life. The state of the world and the crux of human nature is sin. The devil exists and works constantly to prevent us from living a "good" life. If it were the other way around then the world wouldn't be the way it is. If you live only for this world you will only find sin. The world is not good. The world is temptation, selfishness, greed etc. Good is the perspective you find when you follow God and learn the difference between God's love and temporary, worldly, happiness.
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  17.  @BWater-yq3jx  Sounds about perfect to me brother. If she can't pass the "Is she worth inviting over because my place is SO clean?" test then she isn't worth inviting over at all.
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  18. Because she has to earn it. It's always more rewarding and satisfying when you have to earn something.
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  19. "There's gotta be a smarter way" You'll notice that guy talked about car and student loan debt as if they were inevitabilities. That kind of mindset is what keeps you in debt. It doesn't matter how hard nor how smart you work if you shoot yourself in the foot by buying things you can't afford. Interest rates are your enemy.
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  20. Who are you warning him against?
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  21. I read it more as a test to see just how quickly she'd jump to the conclusion that someone must be coming over. That tells you right there that she's going out to get attention from other men and her "girls" are just an excuse.
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  22.  @_Vengeance_  I wasn't saying that you should necessarily demand a prenup. I was saying how to respond if and when a woman tries to shame you for not wanting to get married.
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  23. Keep pushing brother!
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  24.  @CyberPunkBadGuy  I said Christ-like, although I think you are conflating you version of "Christian" over top of what I said. I have yet to come across anything that I believe to be Christ-like to be bad for people and society, and I have yet to come across anything that I believe to be sin to be good for people and society. I do think it's telling that you instantly jump to a personal attack over something that should, for non-believers, simply be a difference in personal philosophies.
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  25. Smashing A wife and pursuing and smashing your friend's wife are worlds apart. I wouldn't do the former myself but I won't hate on you for it, but only absolute shitbags do the latter.
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  26.  @TheBestPill-no2xp  Neat.
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  27. My man and his cow have the same cut.
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  28. 100% true. My kids are both in school, but both old enough to not need help from my wife constantly. She was a stay at home mom for over 10 years. There isn't enough to do around the house to keep her busy so she took a part time job so that she wouldn't just sit around bored and be tempted to shop online all day. She gets out of the house, we get a little bit of extra money and everyone is happier for it.
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  29.  @PeopleRTheProblem  Yeah. Okay guy. If you think the culture in the US re: accountability and shame is the same as was 10, 15, 20+ years ago I have a bridge to sell you in Brooklyn.
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  30.  @PeopleRTheProblem  Certainly not when your head is stuck in the sand.
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  31. Glad your eyes are open now brother Griffin. Never forget. Never let yourself be lulled into complacency again. Evil is real and this is what it looks like.
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  32.  @GrasshopperKelly  I didn't say it was never a transaction, I said many women view it as "transactional". By that I mean they basically force men to pay for their love on an item by item basis. In more crude terms it's just fancy, complicated prostitution. Want sex? OK, buy me this expensive thing. Want time with the lads? OK, but you have to pay for this and spend time on that first. etc etc Also, "only ever putting him second to her children" is also something I disagree with. A married couple should put each other first, kids second. If they do this it wont seem like the kids come second because the rest just falls in to place.
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  33. Pace yourself bro! It'll be good to get back, but make sure you take care of yourself and ease back into it so that you can get back into your routine and stay there.
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  34. Edit: I'm all for helping out people who are your friends. Maybe I'm reading too much into it but it sounds to me like women who aren't necessarily his friend heard of his "problem solving" and come tap him on the shoulder when they need something from him and then disappear into the ether afterwards.
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  35.  @thebatman8956  Fair enough. If it's working out for the two of you then "you do you" so to speak lol.
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  36. Marriage material....depends on the age and generation. If you are factoring all marriage-able women (including single moms etc) in the US it's probably significantly sub 1%.
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  37.  @MrJavomon  To troll and watch their heads explode.
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  38. Focus on yourself. Get in better shape. Make more money. You now have perspective on what kind of woman to avoid, so move forward with the confidence you've built doing while focusing on yourself.
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  39. Headed out to "girls' night" dressed like that and THAT suspicious. My man, you should be packing her bag and rushing her out the door for good.
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  40. Caution and insecurity are often mistaken for being the same thing. I don't lock my doors at night because I'm insecure.
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  41. This is true for young women. As they approach and smash through the wall this starts to reverse in order over time with a larger and larger focus being on money and ability to support.
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  42. If she gives you an ultimatum and the "or" is "we're done" or "this relationship is over" then you are already done and the relationship is already over. If you cave you are a sucker who she'll never respect. Walk away. Quality women don't do this.
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  43. Speaks volumes that the counselor/therapist at around the 6 min mark needed that brought to her attention...
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  44. Girl at 6:42 is spot on. Fellas, if you are with a woman and she wants to vent to you about her day ask her "Are we doing sympathy or solutions?" and then proceed accordingly. It makes things so much easier and opens the door to effective communication in all aspects of your life. Once you both start to set expectations ahead of time all of the silent treatment, emotionality and "what I said vs what I meant" goes out the window. Women communicate like women and when they assume men communicate the same way. You essentially have to train them to communicate effectively and simply say what they mean. If your girl won't do it then she's almost certainly better as an ex.
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  45. That bearded lady is so full of crap. Think of the months to years of growth it must have taken to get her beard that length, not to mention how well she obviously shapes the rest of it including her mustache. If she didn't want the beard she wouldn't have the beard. The bottom line is that she likes the attention the beard brings her (you can tell by what she pretends other people say about her) and is just looking for more attention, this time in the form of sympathy. I have zero sympathy.
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  46.  @dhayes907  LOOOOOOOOL
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  47. About "those type of women"...Young men have been conditioned to think that easy is a synonym for attractive. This is an inevitable result of the push toward the destruction of the nuclear family and the family unit as a whole. Ultimately the goal is to keep women as single moms and keep them dependent upon the system while also forcing men to pay for children they can barely interact with so that they will be hamstrung by the financial burden coupled with the lack of actual love an affection in their lives. They strip away your paycheck and replace it with only loneliness as a way to keep you beaten down and stuck inside the system. The government becomes the 'father' while simultaneously stripping away "something to fight for" from the men. It's a long play that is working exactly as intended in the west.
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  48. Grass fed, grass finished beef is one of the biggest scams to take advantage of gullible idiots and get them to pay far more for far less.
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  49. I always wonder why my man plank puts up with her annoying ass.
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  50. You'll notice that the "gender is a construct" people always try to transition kids if they don't rigidly follow the traditional definition of gender, saying that those norms are both "artificial" but also using them as a foundation of their entire argument. Although if they used any kind of logic or rationale we wouldn't have to talk about it to begin with, so here we are.
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