Comments by "wtfserpico" (@wtfserpico) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. The number of women who have left friends of mine because the marriage was "boring" and then freaked out a year on when my friends end up with more money, younger and hotter women, and in way better shape is almost 1 for 1, and every single time they act like that woman in the video, crying and acting like children. Reality hits them hard, and it's glorious every time.
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  2. I have worked for the same company since 2005. The only cases of sexual harassment I've EVER seen were 100% a woman attempting to flirt or come on to a man, getting rejected, and then taking it to HR out of spite to get back at the man for rejecting them. I work in healthcare. Nurses are the worst offenders. Edit: In response to those women researchers who don't make up for the loss of collaboration...it's because they don't like working with other women. Men in the workforce collaborate AND compete with other men. Women in the workforce ONLY compete, they do not collaborate, with other women.
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  3. Notice even the girl who had started dating girls and switched back to men didn't take accountability for her decisions to do so. She deflects with "I was conditioned to..." Accountability avoidance over 9000
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  4. That "literally shaking" clips makes me laugh every time. I hope more psychos like her take up that kind of behavior so that my single bros can stay MILES away from them and don't get trapped having to deal with their insanity.
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  5. Body count is a direct indicator of how easily other men have access to her. If they have easy access before you are together they will have easy access while you are together and forevermore.
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  6. I bet that first woman was actually surprised by the chlamydia diagnosis both times. I bet she'll be surprised when she gets it a third time too. She totally strikes me as the epitome of "Why does this kind of stuff keep happening to me?" type, all while continuing to be the sole cause of all of her own problems while also refusing to change any of her bad behaviors.
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  7. I love the women who think they should still dress like they did when they were single. The best counter to that is "I didn't pay for any of your bills or lifestyle before I met you, so don't expect me to pay now."
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  8. To my brothers out there who never want to get married; if a woman tries to shame you for making that choice simply ask her how she'd feel about being asked to sign a prenup.
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  9. That Christmas decor shopping clip is classic female narcissism and it's a prime example of two people who are married but are not friends. This is a key indicator that she does not respect him, and it's up to him to take that respect back. In that situation tell her "Let's watch the game together and then we can go shopping together." If she still gets mad then watch the game and let her be mad. If she watches the game with you and then you go shopping make sure you put in some effort and don't just act like you are being dragged across broken glass.
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  10. I love how the one girl says she had already been married to a "marriageable man" and then says how he was a narcissist and it didn't work out etc so they got divorced. This is a KEY aspect of the female psyche gentlemen, so pay attention. Women are willing to contort the past in any way they can so that they can convince themselves that they have never made a bad decision, therefore they can't be held accountable. There is no way that guy didn't have those negative personality traits when they got married, but she's convinced herself that he BECAME a narcissist after the fact in order to justify both marrying him to begin with and then to justify why she left. "You aren't the man I married!" They will do this to convince themselves that both marrying him and divorcing him were both the right choice. He was PERFECT before we got married! He was the WORST while we were married so I had to leave! Look around at all of the couples you've ever met that you knew before, during and often after marriage. Which person did the changing in the majority of those situations, or, how often did the woman convince herself that she should marry a total doucher in order to justify the "look at ME" aspect of the wedding itself?
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  11. Personal accountability, especially as it concerns women, left our culture with shame. This is all a direct result of that.
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  12. Spot on about the hard work thing. Relationships certainly require effort, but that effort pays off. The problem with many modern women is that they view everything as transactional, so if you aren't doing X they aren't going to provide Y.
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  13. I fully agree about keeping your place nice and clean, but don't do it for women. Do it for yourself, and make it one of your expectations. If you do let a girl stay over make sure she respects your space and things as much as you do or she's not worth having over again.
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  14. You set yourself apart. You were the one choice that wasn't handed to her on a platter, therefore you were the one 'alpha' choice.
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  15. My favorite thing are the single moms who immediately and with extreme prejudice throw you in the trash if you are a single dad.
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  16. Being around nurses is a target rich environment, and for the most part they DO NOT CARE about your relationship status. I've been happily married for 22 years, and in healthcare for 18 of those years and I have been propositioned by nurses so often it quit being flattering and started just being annoying and bothersome, especially because very few of them take a polite "no" for an answer.
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  17. You notice how the "dinks" always focus on the most vapid and surface level things like appetizers and snacks from Costco? I get to have all of those things and a life full of love from my kids that no amount of narcissistic bragging on line could ever compare to.
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  18. Exactly this. They conflated chivalry with chauvinism and demanded and end to it, and men complied. Enjoy the fruits of your labor ladies.
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  19. I have 3 friends who were married with kids to horrible women. The women left the kids with my friends after the divorce to go live their 304 phase. Thankfully all 3 of my buddies were strong enough to say "NO!" when their ex-wives tried to come crawling back. Now all 3 are raising their kids as single fathers and in all 3 cases the kids are so much better off with the mom out of the picture. Society tells us that it's always the father who leaves, or is forced out, but there are brave brothers out there fighting the good fight and doing the right thing, and I salute them all.
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  20. Exactly. Use these videos to provide perspective. Use them as a red flag guide.
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  21. This is dangerous advice. A lot of states have cohabitation laws that can bite you just as hard as a state recognized divorce. Be mindful and protect yourself by knowing your state cohab laws.
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  22. Hell yes. We're with you.
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  23.  @thebiggestpanda1  The same thing happened to me growing up and that's exactly what I did. I did exactly enough to not get in trouble. Messed me up for years, and it wasn't until I got out of my abusive parents' house that I finally was able to form a solid work ethic again, but it took years.
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  24. I love how that guilty woman called having THREE KIDS with someone else "a mistake". A MISTAKE! That's not a mistake, that's evil.
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  25. That solo girl cracks me up. She obviously wants to meet dudes, but went strictly to crowded places that girls drag their barely-willing boyfriends to. She needs to think about where single dudes hang out in a setting where they'd be likely to strike up a conversation. I can also almost guarantee that she just stood around waiting for someone else to make the first move. She gets half points for making an effort, but I'm not entirely sad that she got a full dose of reality.
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  26. Don't let the volume of attention that other girls get negatively effect your self worth. If you are only 18 you have plenty of time. Young men tend to overly emphasize looks and don't understand how important personality is. Don't rush physical intimacy, whatever you do. I'll give you the same advice I give to young men; focus on yourself first and make yourself into a person you are proud of. If you find a man who will support you in that growth, great, but someone else won't make you happy if you are unhappy with yourself. Edit: Kindness and traditional femininity are exceedingly rare in young women, so if you focus on those areas you'll already have a huge head start for finding a quality man.
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  27. If she takes her ring off in anger it never meant anything to begin with.
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  28. This is just perspective. The ones who are trustworthy stand out because they don't exhibit any of these behaviors.
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  29. Generally if you approach you are already not worth the effort because you are too easy. Not giving them simp-energy sets you miles apart from their typical, every day interaction with most men.
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  30. She also neglected to think about the fact that her friend is worth the 'bare minimum' while she herself is not.
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  31. I would bet $100 that the "4 things I wont do for my husband" woman's kids aren't even with the guy she is married to. Notice she says "my kids" multiple times, not "our kids". Why any man would put up with that is beyond me.
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  32. 100% this. If someone has to tell you that you had trauma you have had the opposite. You've been coddled.
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  33. Keep pushing brother. You got this!
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  34. The Venn Diagram between "my body my choice" and women who use their bodies like dumpsters is almost a perfect circle. Weird coincidence isn't it....not.
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  35. So, solving the problems of women who come to you for help without reciprocating in any way is "peace without measure", and you go out of your way to help women with their problems even when you don't find them attracitve? What the hell are you talking about?
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  36. It really is handy when they go out of their way to paint their red flags on their skin and face though.
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  37. Get ran through...settle for a nice guy....nice guy builds her self esteem back up...leave nice guy...get ran through...rinse, repeat.
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  38. The last girl to break up with me before I met my wife did pretty much the same thing to me. She told me I was too good for her. I didn't argue and she got mad. She ended up getting pregnant 2 weeks after we broke up by a jobless loser. I've never been happier to have been dumped.
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  39. Exactly. I think my man missed the mark on this one. If you cheat then you are a liar. Men who are liars aren't real men.
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  40. Not to mention the obvious wig.
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  41. It never ends. Even when you reach manhood surround yourself with experienced men you can trust, rely on and learn from. They will always be there for you, and will help you be a better version of yourself.
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  42.  @Zenn3k  Fair enough. Keep pushing and growing brother.
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  43. As soon as she's married she no longer has her own earnings, and anything she has before hand will likely get split right down the middle during the divorce you are already anticipating she'll have, or it'll open her up to get sued. Maybe teach her to pick the right man rather than preparing her to settle temporarily for the wrong man.
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  44.  @pary327  More weird than getting bent out of shape about it and trying to shame people about their faith in YT comments? You may want to look into that whole "fixing yourself" advice.
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  45. It's probably shock value. I doubt my man has ever had a woman approach him like that before.
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  46. In a healthy long-term relationship you don't have separate friend groups, especially with members of the opposite sex.
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  47. Never, ever let a woman hit you like that girl at the 8:39 mark.
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  48. Stop being afraid of being cancelled. They only have that power over you if you give it to them.
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  49. I'm not friends with narcissists no matter what form they take. The best thing about these woke npc's is that it's MUCH easier to spot them than your standard, run of the mill narcissist, so they are way easier to avoid.
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  50. Keep at it! Our kids are in ever more desperate need of positive masculine role models.
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