Comments by "jorge luis barrios mur" (@jorgebarriosmur) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. What were this ladies doing exactly the last 15-20 years? That could, perhaps, have something to do with their situation
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  2. 18:38 Lady. If you want to live in your parents house, you better adhere to their rules. Otherwise, hit the road. Once you turn 18, it`s as simple as that. Sorry, life is not fair.....
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  3. Ideally, they need their mother, father, the four grandparents, and as many uncles, aunts and cousins possible. Denying a kid a family, as extended as possible, "just because", should be considered abuse and endeangering of a minor......
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  4. As a man, the only woman you can allow yourself to be emotional with is YOUR MOTHER. If you are emotional in any other crcunstance (even with your sisters, your wife or your daughters) be asured that it will backfire sooner or later.........
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  5. Neither did the bears!
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  6. Exactly! This is not something that has happened to her out of the blue. She has been working very hard and steady towards this scenario, with almost every decision she took the past ten years..... So, congratulations, lady, mission sucesfully achieved......
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  7. As a man, the only unconditional love, huges, kisses and emotional support you will get, comes from your mother......the rest, has to be earned...... We learn this from our fathers, and it finally dawns even to the most obnoxious of us, when we become adults. SOME of us can`t deal wich such a barren and apocaliptic landscape, and that`s one of the reasons men are 75% of all "s*lf-d*l*t*rs". For the rest of us, we either finally manage to bond with a wife that fills this void (and a wife has to be earned, too), or we get used to it, and it becomes just a normal Tuesday....... This "mature man" is just learning this harsh lesson, and regardless of much he has transitioned, he lacks the necesary emotional, genetic, physical, educational and mental background to deal succesfully with it......... I fear, this will not end well.......
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  8. 7:19 Your marriage is already over. Just your husband hasn`t been informed yet......
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  9. So, she is going to pay only the interests and never reduce her debt? What could go possibly wrong?
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  10. If I were only a half o man my grandfather was, I would be already a great man. They were simply the best generation. May they rest in peace.
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  11. This poor kid is almost doomed from the start. It`s hard to say it, because he surely loves her regardless of all, but the best he could do, is wait till he is 18, and then cut all ties with her, and begin another life elswhere....... Your acts can afect your beloved ones! Who would have thought that, hu?
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  12. Nah, I think on a more basic level, she felt under the protection of a strong man, who signaled with his words and his actions, that he was able and willing to take care of her safety and needs. This eppealed to some instincts deeply burried in her "ape-brain" Beeing strong and independent when your walk down a dark and solitaire alley must not be easy, compared to do it with a man on your side, willing to do whatever it takes to get your safe to the other end (although this feeling MAY be an ilusion, it is a comforting one)
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  13. Nope
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  14. Now they know how an average man in his 20s feels........except that the man in his 20s is at the start of his life, and has time and space to improve, while a woman in her 40s has almost no more options........
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  15. Don`t be ashamed if you are doing a honest and hard work. I have had all kinds of jobs, and I am proud of every one of them.
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  16. You need a father-figure in your life. Your mother is not going to throw you into the deep part of the pool, so that you actually loose your fear to swim where you can`t stand. I was actually never in danger, he was one meter away from me, ready to take action if something went wrong, but at the time (5 yo) i didn`t notice. From them on I LOVED to swim in that part of the pool....... That`s a kind of love not many mothers can bring to the table.........
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  17.  @jannowak2352  The Lambo just needs "space", and by the way, stop bothering about how many people got to manage the Lambos transmision in the past. It`s not important, and it`s not of your buissness.........
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  18. Was it Churchill the one who said : "If you commit treason once, you are a traitor forever" ? This is, more or less, the same......
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  19. My final straw? Definitivally my crazy ex-fiancee.......
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  20. Sorry for your loss. Sadly, there are less and less people with your standarts...... I think this is not going to end well, and that the only good thing about this mess, is that I`m bit going be around when things start to go really, really bad........ All I`m asking for is two or three decades more avoiding the abyss........
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  21. If somebody tried to take food from my plate in my younger days, they were risking their fingers......nowadays I share my food........... but only with my dogs. Humans are stil a no-no.......
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  22.  @JayClearman411  Last time a lady tried to friendzone me, she actually ended up crying! And the only thing I said to her was that I already had all the friends I wanted.......This was many years ago, and I still don`t know why she was so triggered, given that she had LITERALLY told me one minute ago that she didn`t want to date me....... I mean, my stance about the friendzone was widely known, so she couldn`t have been THAT surprised....... she was very good-looking, so it may have been the first time she didn`t got her way........... Anyway, I think I dodged a bullet there........
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  23. All the clothes I have on right now may be worth (when they were new) 200 or 250 bucks. And that`s only beacuse we have here a bad weather front, it is very cold, and I am wearing A LOT of clothes. Also I need to customize my shoes (one of my legs is 2 cm shorter than the other), and it is somehow expensive to get it done properly. My clothes may not be fashion, but they are resistent, and could perfectly serve me in a zombie-apocalypse (wich is something I always consider in any purchase I make......). Also, I will keep on wearing them, till they fall apart, and then buy the most similar thing (or exactly the same) I can find, (probably in some years). If it isn`t broken, why fix it?
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  24. 8:50 Divorce? This lady signed a contract under fraudulent pretenses. It should be declared null and void, and he should be able to sue her. Sadly, this is not how things work nowadays.......
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  25. I don`t have even credit cards. Paid them of decades ago and cancelled them. I only spend money I have ,although living in a country with a universal health-care system, and public education from kindergarten up to university, helps a lot....... Debts-enslaves you.......
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  26. You can`t expect a relationship to fix your emotional and mental problems. If she got into her relationships wich such a luggage it`s no wonder they ended badly. Also, I bet her "friendzone" was full of men that would have treated her better
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  27. And may the seven gods have mercy of your soul if you aren`t virgin at the begining of EVERY marriage!
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  28. 6:52 Leave your things behind and run for the hills.......You can always buy more things......your freedom, peace of mind, AND your security (both phisical, and from forged allegations) is, literally, invaluable......
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  29. Good to know there are still many good people out there. I wish you both the best.
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  30. Just the T-shirt that he wears........when such a man speaks, you sh*t up and listen......
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  31. Gentelmen, if you are ever down, think that, somewhere, a poor sucker is dating your "EX" (yeah! THAT ex), and he thinks he has landed a good one...........Your day cannot be THAT bad......... (saw this once in a video, and it has stuck with me since then)
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  32. There si simply no porpouse arguing with a police officer. They are going to do their job as best as they can, to their knowledge. HOWEVER, if they are mistaken (wich happens from time to time), the moment to argue is IN FRONT OF A JUDGE, and the person arguing should not be you, BUT YOUR LAWYER. The fact that she clinged to a suposed legal tecnicality wich such desperation, makes me wonder if she wasn`t trying to take the child away to a place where the father couldn`t enforce his rights ) perhaps even outside of the country). THAT`S CALLED KIDNAPPING.........
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  33. They are probably more aware of it than a lot of modern men....
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  34. Except, there os no God.
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  35.  @rogerb181  Exacly my thought! If you have a stalker you go to the POLICE...... the thing is, while making a dubious statement to a dating app may have no consequences, making one to the police is, technically, a crime, and while a lot of ladys make "less than acurate" statments in courts or to the police, and get away with it, why take the risk for some validation in the web, if it is not absolutely necesary?
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  36. 52 yo here. Have my house my car and no debts. I don`t do a single hour of overtime. I they want the job done, they should hire more people. Period. Who ends up making overtime? The dudes with children, a mortage, or an alimony to pay! I don`t blame them, they have responsabilities, but I have designed my life porpousely to NOT be trapped in such a situation...... In some years I will buy a piece of land in the middle of nowehre, put a house/cabin on it and try to be as autosuficient as possible. After some years more, I will just reduce my work hours and work basically a part time job (we have universal healthcare, and the amount of hours I work don`t have any influence in my health-plan)......till my retirement...... Perhaps no the greatest achievements, but it was the best I could do with the cards I was given....... And now excuse me, Warhammer 40k Rouge-Trader has just come out today, and I want to give it a try! 😉
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  37. PUBLIC SERVICE ANOUCEMENT : Make sure you NOT drinking anything at 7:40 . You have been warned
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  38. If you ask, and she refuses to answer, just dump her.......
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  39. 18:45 Statistic is the part of maths that tells us that if you eat two chickens, and I none, WE BOTH have consumed a chicken........
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  40.  @_GOD_HAND_  1% is composed exactly of 1% of the poeple. Your solution means letting the other 99% behind. YOU, have a 99% of chance to NEVER be in the upper 1%. There will always be people who don`t make the cut, but just sentence 60% of young men to not have relationship is insane, and will not end well...... If average, hard working men, are not able to get their righfull piece of cake (house, partner, kids, happiness, future), they will simply check out (or worse) If the barbarians ever knock at your door, THIS gentelman, is not going to step up to defend you. You will count yourself lucky if he (and his comrads) don`t join the barbarians out of spite......because, you know, in the new world after the invasion, HE could be, perhaps, in new the upper 1% for once.......
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  41. We all have a breaking point. When I was younger, I had to take care of my Grandmother who had a stroke that left the right part of her body paralized. When she died after five years, I was sad, but also relieved. I honestly don`t know how much longer I could have hold out before breaking down (indeed, I had to seek mental help after that episode). Some people can hold longer, and other break at the first sight of problems, but eventually, if we take enough hits, we all break down. Even you. Trust me.
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  42. There have been years when even I forgot it was my birthday, and didn´t realize it after some days later.......
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  43. Just don`t get things you can`t afford, unless it is absolutely necesary. If I lived in the US, I wouldn`t take a credit, unless it was to cover the medical expenses of one of my beloved ones.... Luckily, living in Europe, I don`t need to. Debt is slavery..... you are not longer your own master..... If you NEED something, work your butt off, save your money, and go for the basic version.... (car, house, whatever). There will be time for improvement later ........ Not having to impress the ladies in order to land them, also helps.......a lot
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  44. Hey! At least least she outed herself BEFORE the wedding......bet she won`t make the same mistake again. I feel for the poor sucker who is going to fall in her trap.......
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  45. 3:40 Ah yeah! I had once a girl reject me and 5 seconds later she began to cry because we could have been "so good friends" if I hadn`t shot my shoot........Yeah, in that times I went always exclusively for the crazy ones......... Funny times....... I`m glad that they are over for me.......
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  46. You can`t go out there convincing the people that your ship just hit an iceberg and is going to sink, if they simply don`t want to hear it, becasue they are convinced to be on an "unsinkable ship". Take care of your own sh*t, and let everyone face the consequences of their livechoices. Trying to save people from THEMSELVES will bring you nothing but headeaches. Trust me.
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  47. I hope that`s true. I mean, I am the living proof that Karma doesn`t exist, but it`s nice to know that SOMETIMES people get what they deserve..........
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  48. 6:04 Given the times we live, in, I feel tempted to congratulate this lady for ONLY having 20 bodies...... I mean, it still disqualifies her as a suituable partner for any man who has his sh*t together, but compared to what is out there it is impresively low. She almost made it. Just 15-18 bodys less, and she would have a significant advantage when it comes to secure a high value man....
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  49. When that two lovely ladies said "it`s easier to make money now" I laughed so hard that my dogs got scared!
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  50.  @JonathanVachon777  Beeing POLITE to a person is not the same as RESPECTING them. I am usually polite to stranger. But my respect, has to be earned. Have a nice day :)
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