Comments by "jorge luis barrios mur" (@jorgebarriosmur) on "GriffinMind"
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As a man, the only unconditional love, huges, kisses and emotional support you will get, comes from your mother......the rest, has to be earned......
We learn this from our fathers, and it finally dawns even to the most obnoxious of us, when we become adults. SOME of us can`t deal wich such a barren and apocaliptic landscape, and that`s one of the reasons men are 75% of all "s*lf-d*l*t*rs".
For the rest of us, we either finally manage to bond with a wife that fills this void (and a wife has to be earned, too), or we get used to it, and it becomes just a normal Tuesday.......
This "mature man" is just learning this harsh lesson, and regardless of much he has transitioned, he lacks the necesary emotional, genetic, physical, educational and mental background to deal succesfully with it......... I fear, this will not end well.......
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All the clothes I have on right now may be worth (when they were new) 200 or 250 bucks. And that`s only beacuse we have here a bad weather front, it is very cold, and I am wearing A LOT of clothes.
Also I need to customize my shoes (one of my legs is 2 cm shorter than the other), and it is somehow expensive to get it done properly.
My clothes may not be fashion, but they are resistent, and could perfectly serve me in a zombie-apocalypse (wich is something I always consider in any purchase I make......).
Also, I will keep on wearing them, till they fall apart, and then buy the most similar thing (or exactly the same) I can find, (probably in some years). If it isn`t broken, why fix it?
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52 yo here. Have my house my car and no debts. I don`t do a single hour of overtime. I they want the job done, they should hire more people. Period.
Who ends up making overtime? The dudes with children, a mortage, or an alimony to pay! I don`t blame them, they have responsabilities, but I have designed my life porpousely to NOT be trapped in such a situation......
In some years I will buy a piece of land in the middle of nowehre, put a house/cabin on it and try to be as autosuficient as possible. After some years more, I will just reduce my work hours and work basically a part time job (we have universal healthcare, and the amount of hours I work don`t have any influence in my health-plan)......till my retirement......
Perhaps no the greatest achievements, but it was the best I could do with the cards I was given.......
And now excuse me, Warhammer 40k Rouge-Trader has just come out today, and I want to give it a try! 😉
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@_GOD_HAND_ 1% is composed exactly of 1% of the poeple. Your solution means letting the other 99% behind. YOU, have a 99% of chance to NEVER be in the upper 1%.
There will always be people who don`t make the cut, but just sentence 60% of young men to not have relationship is insane, and will not end well......
If average, hard working men, are not able to get their righfull piece of cake (house, partner, kids, happiness, future), they will simply check out (or worse)
If the barbarians ever knock at your door, THIS gentelman, is not going to step up to defend you. You will count yourself lucky if he (and his comrads) don`t join the barbarians out of spite......because, you know, in the new world after the invasion, HE could be, perhaps, in new the upper 1% for once.......
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Just don`t get things you can`t afford, unless it is absolutely necesary.
If I lived in the US, I wouldn`t take a credit, unless it was to cover the medical expenses of one of my beloved ones....
Luckily, living in Europe, I don`t need to.
Debt is slavery..... you are not longer your own master.....
If you NEED something, work your butt off, save your money, and go for the basic version.... (car, house, whatever). There will be time for improvement later ........
Not having to impress the ladies in order to land them, also helps.......a lot
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So, we all are trying to ban v*ginal ablation of children worlwide (because it is child-mutilation), yet you allow THIS stuff?
I didn`t now things were THAT BAD in the US.
Given that, things that happen in the US, tend to come to Europe some time later (in some cases almost inmdiately, in others, perhaps a decade later), I am not optimistic about the future.......
Underage children should only be subject to medically necesary treatments......A child masectomy should be only considered in case of brest-cancer.......Elective procedures, can wait till they turn 18.......WTF, dude....... ANY parents proposing this, should be deprived of their parental rights ASAP.
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That`s not true. Your can expect A LOT.....
Mostly (but not exclusively), headeaches, problems, discusions, gaslighting, mindgames, screaming, court-dates, legal alegations and public humilation.....oh, sorry,,,,you meant something GOOD? Yeah, then I agree with you.......
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I have never been in Canada, but it seems like a big country with lot of empty spaces......can`t you just settle in the middle of nowhere and tell the rest of the world to go kick rocks?
In the pandemic some places of my country, very isolated (mountain regions with bad roads and awfull public transport conections, the kind of place that gets easely cut off the world as soon as there is any weather other than a perfect one), inhabited mostly by elderly people, simply strenghened their isolation by going no-contact with outsiders (easy to do when there is only one small and barelly drivable road to go in and out of that place), and basically did a normall life in their villages , with their neighbours, while the people in the big cities, or well conected villages, had to adhere strictly to the quarantine.........
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6:20 Today I heard a joke. You know why Jesus Christ was a spaniard? He was 33 years old, with no job, and lived with his mother!
I am 51 years old, and life with my mother. My step-father died after 20 years of them beeing together. My brother and me lived 3.000 km away from her, and couldn´t convince her to come to live with one of us, so, me, beeing the one with no wife and children, quitted my job, got a new one in her vecinity, and moved back to stay with my 74 year old mother with health-issues.
AND I AM F......... PROUD OF IT. Anyone who thinks I am a looser can stick his opnion in his......you know! When a woman even looks in my direction, the first thing I say is " I am 51 years old, and live with my mother".......works better than "I have a girlfriend"
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@YourHineyness Socialism , intended as the socialism displayed in Europe, where there is Space for private iniciative, but there is a significant state intervention, and the big firms and rich people (and the middle class of course) are taxed enough in order to establish and mantain a welfare-system (including universall healthcare) for the ones who, for whatever reason, didn`t make the cut.
Also I like it when strategic areas (food, water, education, defense, energy) are kept under gouvermental supervision, or directly owned and managed by the state, and not let in the hands of private iniciative.....
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Just yesterday I was included in group that "did not enough to further a safe and comfortable enviroment for women" in a particullar hobby-space I use to attend.
I pointed out, that I reserved my friendly beghaviour FOR THE PEOPLE I KNOW AND TRUST wich happens to be a group of around 10 men, that I know since kindergarten (I`m now 53 yo), AND SIMPLY IGNORE (politely) THE REST, regardless of their gender.
Furhter I pointed out, that it was ironic, that they had noticed how I simply ingnored the ten woman participating in our hobby, but not the (around) 30 men, I give EXACTLY THE SAME TREATMENT......... and who aparently do not feel particullary concerned by me minding my own buissness......
By the way, the "acusation" (it was more a complaint) WAS MADE BY MAN........
Can`t I even choose my friends now , with wich I want to hang out and spend my time? Am I going to have a "cuota" of female friends and messure the time I spend beeing friendly with every gender in order to make sure that I give them the same attention?
WTF!
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9:32 I must admit I have a problem with all this people that resort to science to proof the existence of only two genders.
And not because they are wrong, because they aren`t, but because when it comes to OTHER TOPICS (like climate change, c*vid, evolution, *bortion, or other controversial topics) THE VERY SAME POPLE that resort to science in the case of the "gender-issue", suddenly have a problem with science, and resort to "other sources", disregarding science as a mere opinion........
No, ladies and gentelmen, you can`t resort to science to sustain your claims about how many genders there are, and then ignore it when we speak about evolution or climate change.......not if you wnat to have some credibility.......
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Don`t get married. Also, freeze your boys, and get a vasectomy. It may be less romantic, but so you avoid accidents and beeing babytrapped without your consent (you can still consent to the wrong woman, but that`s on you). Do NOT cohabitate. Do NOT date single mothers, that could decieve you into becoming a paternal figure for her children, or even PRETEND that you have become one, when it is not the case.
Finally, check the statutes about common law marriages in your country, and cut ties with any partner BEFORE this limit is reached.
And if you think it`s to much of a hassle, just for a litlle in-and-out do what I did when I turned 31 and get on monk-mode.......
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@UberZambrotta8 Yep. You don`t see yourself living with someone at the age of 27, and I can respect that (mostly because I took the same decision 23 years ago).
BUT, if you suddenly decide in 11 eleven years that you want children and a decent husband, fail to do so (because, you know, father time does not forgive), AND THEN proceed to whine and blame everyone but you and your choices.......THEN, you would be like the lady in this video.
I hope this is not the case, and you have a litlle bit of accountability and coherence if this happens, but let`s be honest, most people don`t.
And that`s esentially what we are talking about...... the lack of awarness of todays women when it comes to their desiarability and fertility window ......again, I hope, that this will be not the case of you and your aquietances, but if it is, feel free to rewatch this video in 11 years.........
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@crossfitruston3632 My friends and I know eachother since elementary-school. We have a specific pact NOT to invite eachother to our weddings........made after the first of the group married, and we had to go throug the awfull expirience of beeing the grooms best men (a nightmare!)
Over time, there have been some issues about this with fiances, girlfriends, partners and families, but we have made it always very clear, that if we had to go to the wedding, we would 100% go to the bachelor party (actually another event we would rather like to avoid), and, that our opinion was, that if the wedding actually happened after a bachelor party with us, we would consider the party a failure (saying this with a straight face and without laughing helps a lot!)
After that statement, we are usually excused.........indeed, we are usually encouraged not to atend...........
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Sometimes it makes sense to wear masks. I am extremly arlegic to certain plants, and wearing a mask prevents me from breathing pollen in spring......
Also, do to my work, I have contact with TONS of people on a dayly basis, and when I have to visit an elderely home, or places where people with healthproblems live (also work related), I wear a mask to protect THEM (because this kind of people have enough problems, without me worsening their situation).
Another advantage of the mask is, that while working with public, I have not to smile when I am really not in the mood, because, nobody is going to se my mouth anyway....... sounds petty, I know,........
So yeah IF I WANT TO WEAR A MASK, JUST SHUT THE F*CK UP, LET ME DO MY THING, AND FOCUS ON YOUR OWN F*CKING SH*T (no offense ment)
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Funny thing, our grandparents and their parents, were much like this pakistani guy......(althoug they were cristians instead of muslims). But this down to earth, respectfull but blunt attitude, is how my grandparents used to be....... they thought telling you how things were, instead of caring for your emotions, was actually doing you a favour ........
My grandma told my once that a girl I brought home was like a pear, with a slim face, but with fat *ss and legs. Another time she stated that another had not the best hips to give birth, and she was no good for me.......and she didn`t wait to speak to me in private, if you know what I mean.......when I asked her why she was so harsh, she told me it was their mothers job to care for their feelings, not hers........
When she was young, marriages were still arranged by families in my country and for her, marriage was about family and buissness, not about romance and love......... I miss the old lady........
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Beeing a male or female has NOTHING TO DO with your genitalia (you can alter or remove them, and this will still not change your gender)
Cromosome XX= Man
Cromosome XY=Woman
THERE ARE some (very rare) cases with both combinations (Chimera-syndrom it`s called I think, when you have cells from two diferent zygotes that fused in the uterus), and we should give THAT PEOPLE a pass, because, genetically they are male and female at the same time, and THEY should be allowed to identify as the one of their choice (or neither, or both)........otherwise, not........
If you are a man that wants TO BEHAVE like a woman, that`s your buisness, and you will have to face the consequences of your choices, but you are still a man. And the other way, the same...... as for the rest of the things people identify, that are preferences, way of lives, or identities, BUT not genders........
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Genitals don`t define a man, You can have an accident and loose yours, and you would be still a man.
The same way, the capacity of bearng children doesn`t make you a woman. What about the infertile ones? Are they not women? And the ones over 45? Do they magically transform in butterflies, and cease to be women because they no longer can have children?
There are THREE genders,
male (a person with XY-genes),
females (a person with XX-genes),
and rare cases of hermafroditism, were persons show traces of both genes at the same time ( cientists theorize that it could happen do to an egg beeing fertilized by TWO spermatozooms at the same time, so that the embrio develops cells with BOTH combinations of genes (some XX, and other¡ XY) who merge in a single human beeing).
If a man, or a woman, wants to adopt the living style and apereance of the other gender (or something completly new), I have no problem with it, but it won`t change their genetic code. They will be still men and woman......regardless of what they do or think.
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1:59 He is Also a convicted felon and a cheater.......just saying........
It`s funny that in your country a convicted felon can`t own a gun (that pardon to Hunter Biden is just moraly wrong and should be reversed!) but he can become the comander in chief of your armed forces!
Is your nuclear button considered a weapon? Because if it is, he shouldn`t be allowed to push it!
This said, YOUR country, YOUR buisness, YOUR consequences........
Just stop interfering in others people buisness, if you are so kind, and be aware, that for EVERY tariff you rise, you will be subjected to an equivalent one, at least in the EU......my country is already considering ditching the purchase of your F-35 (wich are aparently not as good as they could be), and buying french "Rafaelle", and I think we are not the only ones........
Good luck!
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I was like this guy in my teens and early 20s. Then I seeked prefesional mental health, improved myself and began dating (although, all the ladies I engaged with were crazy, and not the funny type of crazy). Finally I met a girl I proposed to (despite never wanting to marry, but I thought I had landed a good one, wanted to keep her in my life, and guessed that at 30 yo, it was time to settle down).
With the wedding already agreed, she crushed me so hard, that I simply walked away from her and from dating, got a job in another continent, and never looked back. That was 23 years ago. 23 peacefull and happy years.........
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There are more involuntarely celibates than ever, and thanks to the social media, they can find each other, bond, fuel and feedback their rage and frustration.
What were once some isolated individuals, easy to ignore, has become a worldwide subculture of extremly frustrated young men, a barrel full of fuel, waiting only for a spark to ignite
In their torment and suffering, they are raising some valid questions, and if we, the society, don`t provide some valid answers, SOMEBODY will. And we won`t like the outcome. Trust me........
They shouldn`t be mocked and tossed away, but get therapy or even psiqiatric treatment, to improve themselves, adapt and overcome their situation, or accept it and live in peace........
Or perhaps, re-introduction of mandatory military service for young men could also be a help for them.........although it could destroy some of them, for most men back in the "good old times" it marked their transition from childhood into a "traditional" manhood, and was truly a life-changing expirience......
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