Comments by "" (@nikkiidomagala) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. My man and I are known as the boring couple. We have even been asked how do we have fun because we don't drink. They say boring... I say drama free! Besides it's pretty exciting when we are out on our walks looking for rocks and find abunch of jade and quartz! We collect rocks and tumble them. It's also super exciting to see the rocks true beauty after they're tumbled. Some people find drinking fun while others find rock collecting fun!
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  2. If you divorce a good man or a good woman... You're a horribly terrible person who deserves to be with another terrible person that will make you regret leaving your good spouse.
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  3. When my man calls his mom/parents I quiet everything in the house down, tell him to say hi for me and give him space so he can enjoy talking to his parents. When we go on vacation and visit them I clean their home while they're at work so they can hang out and relax with us after work. Then his mom and me bond while making dinner and I clean up. If your spouse can't respect your parents it's time for them to go.
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  4. My grandpa and I used to laugh at the pronoun stuff and make jokes about it together. My favorite was when we joked about how if people can change their genders we might as well say that I'm a cat and he's a dog because of how ridiculous those people sounded. I miss him but at least he didn't get to see our joke turn into reality😔. He would have been so disappointed in this world.
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  5. I started taking care of an apartment for my landlord and it's only a few minutes away from where my man works. He will stop by quickly to give me a kiss on his test drives, he's a very hardworking mechanic. He said it makes his hard days easier seeing the joy and excitement on my face when he surprises me with a quick visit. Last week I was raking rocks out of the yard, looked over and saw my man.. Well I pretty much screamed my man and ran to him for a kiss😅🥰. Completely made my day. I couldn't stop smiling afterwards.
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  6. My man has cancelled going out because of being to tired from a hard day at work, he is a very hard working man. I completely understand and don't get mad at all. I smile and tell him to lay down. Then I make a nice dinner to do a date night at home. I still get a date night and he gets to relax and reset. A win for both.
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  7. She should be in jail for theft... Poor husband...😔
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  8. 15:00 this is 100% true. My man is one of the biggest reasons I became the woman I am today. He makes me want to be and do better just by him being himself.
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  9. I don't wish homelessness on anyone at all but throughout my childhood I was homeless a few times and even ended up in the woman's shelter with my mom during Christmas due to her bad choices... I think these experiences are a huge reason why I am so extremely appreciative for what I have now and for how my life has turned out. This is also why I appreciate my amazing man so much too because I got first hand experience of actual bad men and why choosing a good man is so important. All the chaos as a kid made me crave stability as an adult. Not having to worry about being homeless is truly a gift that a lot of people don't even notice they have.
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  10. I don't think the mom went to far but I think she waited too long to intervene. How a child turns out has a lot to do with how the parents raise them. My child wouldn't even get to the point of putting metal into their face. And if they randomly came home with piercings they would have to remove them and deal with the consequences. I would also figure out why they felt the need to get face piercings and explain how those type of choices can actually have bad affects on their futures and lives. This situation also shows why you need to be super involved in your childrens lives and give them the support, stability and love they need so they don't go looking for it in these evil communities.
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  11. I'm the "nerd of the house" as my man says. He has never really been into games or "nerd stuff" but I am. One of the ways he shows me that he loves me is by supporting my hobbies. He even takes me to fancon and doesn't mind me putting my "nerd stuff" around the house. This is how someone shows love and support. Not being mad at the person for having a hobby they dont understand.
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  12. One of the most meaningful and saddest compliments I have gotten from my man is that he has only experienced unconditional love from me. My love for him will live longer than I will because one of the main things I believe people will mention about me is how much I love my man and cherished him because that's one of the things I am known most for. Just like my Nana (great grandma) you can't mention her name without talking about how much she loved my papa and how much she loved taking care of him. I am inspired to be like her and I am blessed that I got to experience learning from her when I was a young child.
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  13. 2:06 this is so true. When my man and I got together 8 years ago we didn't have much. And there were times that were harder than others. So when I would make food during those harder times I would always put most of the food on his plate while saying what I had was more than enough for me or that I wasn't that hungry. Thinking about this has also made me smile at how far my man and I have come and the life we have built together.🥰
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  14. I think one of the reasons my man and I have lasted so long, 8 years, 2 months, 3 days🥰, is because we have never competed. Against each other or against others for each other. We have never had a reason too. We do more for one another then most couples do but its not because we are competing. Its because of the love we have for each other. Since our first date we have been glued together and others romantically have been invisible to us.
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  15. 1:06 this is very true, I'm a pretty shy woman and I've mainly been a stay at home for almost 8 years and when I got a little board I took on a cleaning job where I clean around no body and I love it. My man and I spent our Saturday binging nature documentaries and those are the best Saturdays to me. Just relaxing with my man. But I do think people should avoid mean people. They tend to bring a lot of unnecessary drama. I may be an introvert but I still know how to be polite and kind to the people I encounter.
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  16. As a daughter who grew up watching both parents being violent and knowing others that were in the same situation I really do hope she grows up with enough self awareness to know that her mothers actions are wrong and to not follow in her mothers foot steps. I have watched most of the people I grew up with that had parents like this end up just like their parents or worse. It breaks my heart to see children put through toxic stuff like this.😞
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  17.  @m16dude967  we definitely aren't around them unless necessary. We tend to mainly just stick to ourselves.
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  18.  @EricKocher  so true! I think most people confuse drama with excitement and passion while not realizing that you can have a lot of excitement and passion without drama. Thank you so much for your kind words!
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  19. 17:26 if he was truly the love of her life she wouldn't have ever even thought about her ex in a intimate way. Then to say it probably wont happen again😑. That girl wouldn't know love even if it was right infront of her.
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  20. I love snow shoveling with my man, he goes first and gets the majority of it and I go behind him to clean up the rest. We get everything done super fast! I also enjoy shoveling so I will shovel the snow for my man to come home to a clear driveway and walkway. It takes me 40 minutes to an hour and a half depending on how much it snows and if he does it a lone it takes him 25-50 minutes🤣🤣🥰. But he is also superman strong🥰.
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  21.  @aetank_yyteawu3436  your comment is absolutely amazing. Next time anyone comments on us being boring I'm just going to read them this!
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  22. I am a huge Star Wars fan, even put a huge Darth Vader canvas above my mans and I bed but I stopped watching when they started to absolutely destroy it. George Lucas is absolutely disappointed at what Star Wars has been turned into.
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  23. My mom is almost 60 and she has a photo of her and I as her profile photo on her dating profile. She gets a lot of matches but then doesn't understand why they stop talking to her when they realize they are talking to her and not me...
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  24. Exactly what I was thinking.. How a woman dresses shows how much she respects herself and if she doesn't respect herself she's not going to respect her man. Listen to the words but watch the actions, people can be master manipulators. She's not going to the library at night in that outfit.
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  25. Something I'm actually proud of is that I have never and will never step foot into a club. I don't drink and I don't find them appealing in any way. Clubs honestly sound dangerous and nasty... What sounds fun about having to be cautious while watching people grope each other on the dance floor. No thank you. Something I find extremely appealing is the fact that my man also doesn't like clubbing.
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  26. I do this all the time to my man. Especially when I can tell he is having a hard day. I also send him random text to say how proud I am of him, how amazing he is and to thank him for what he does. I wish this for every hard working man. He has said that I make him want to be a better man. And he makes me want to be a better woman.
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  27.  @favoritebro59  that is absolutely awesome!🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's perfect how her feelings of boredom turned into feelings of regret.
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  28. I don't understand why people are complaining about where the thumbnail is in the video. I click on the video to watch the full video because I enjoy the content and try to learn how to be a better woman for my man. It kind of shows how easily people get frustrated with small things now and how people want things instantly. I mean i would understand if he had a thumbnail and didn't put it in the video but as long as it's in the video I don't see the annoyance of it.
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  29. After watching my mom choose actual "bad men" throughout my childhood I appreciate the small things my man does. His sweaty socks are on the floor because he worked a hard day... Omg yes please. Leaving the cupboards open... I've been closing cupboards since my 16 year old cat has been a kitten and learned how to open them. It's not even an annoyance. We both also put the toilet seat and lid down because of the cats. But if someone comes over and forgets to put the lid down I don't get upset over such a dumb issue. I close the lid and move on. I've never understood why women get so mad over it. It's an inconvenience? Well putting the seat down is an inconvenience for men. Also in my opinion anyone with common sense should look before they sit so the whole falling in excuse is just silly. I follow what the Christan woman you mentioned rules are accept #3. I have no resentment towards helping my man or doing things for him. I look for those moments because they make me happy.
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  30. There are 2 things that would make me nervous about trading phones with my man... Him seeing all the terrible funny face photos I send my mom. Some of the photos are just so ugly that I would be soo embarrassed if he saw them🤣😅. I also don't know how he would feel about all the photos I have taken of him over the past 8 years. He isn't the biggest fan of cameras so the best way to get a photo of him is to take it without him knowing. He knows I do this and I've shown him some of the photos and he thinks it's cute but he doesn't know that I have hundreds of these photos that only I have seen😅. He is just soo absolutely handsome and he is always doing something really neat or building stuff so I try to quickly capture the moment so when we are old I can surprise him with these and walk down memory lane with him🥰. I also have a scrapbook of all the notes we have given each other over the years that I will give to him when we are older.
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  31.  @MDE_never_dies  thank you!
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  32.  @spikey5281  believe me there's nothing wrong with you for not wanting to drink and that's actually a huge green flag to show mental stability. Obviously something was wrong with them for them to feel the need to drink. I see a lot of people say that drinking is fun or they do it to calm down and maybe it starts like that but by the end of the night they are always depressed/overly emotional or starting drama. It also tastes absolutely terrible to be honest 🤣.
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  33. I love doing yard and garden work. While being outside I have learned how ab*sive some of the women in my neighborhood are to their men. I have confronted these women about how I don't appreciate hearing them ab*sing their men. They usually snap and say they don't ab*se them. I always respond with you don't have to be physical to be ab*sive, sometimes the mental and emotional is the worst, you should be ashamed of yourself. Now when I go into my yard I don't hear these women screaming at their men anymore. I also got the woman behind me to stop beating on her man because I got her arrested and was a witness to her hitting him and destroying his stuff. The guy would have gone to jail if I wasn't a witness. I went out to talk to the cops and she was playing like he had attacked her. Well the video showed otherwise. He thanked me afterwards because he was so used to her being the attacker and him ending up in jail. Well her having to sit in jail and actually face consequences for her actions really humbled her. I feel like most of these types of women are so absorbed into their own lives that they don't realise they are being abusive till another woman outside of their relationship actually points it out, they won't listen to any man if he says it... It has to sadly be another woman. Or they know they are abusive but have never dealt with any consequences for their actions so they continue until they finally have to deal with those consequences if that ever happens.
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  34. I'm not sure why YouTube won't let me respond to Mikey so I'll just put my response here. But I call my man handsome a couple times a day. Especially when I say good morning. I have told him multiple times that he is truly the sexiest man ever. Making my man feel attractive is one of the ways I show him I love him. But I agree with what you are saying. A lot of women don't make their men feel attractive which is absolutely terrible.
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  35.  @jeffgutierrez8796  thank you so much for your kind words! She was an absolutely incredible woman!
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  36. I absolutely love this! The friends I was around when I was younger used to make fun of me because I was inexperienced... Well I've been with the same man since I was 23 and I'm 31 now while a bunch of those old friends have multiple kids with multiple baby daddies and/or divorced. I know I made the right choice and they didn't.
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  37. I'm a believer that people shouldn't even get into bed together if they aren't willing to have a child together. In either situation the baby/child gets the consequences of the adults bad decisions instead of the adults dealing with their consequences of sleeping with someone they didn't want to have a child with or who wasn't ready to have a child. Both situations break my heart to see. A child loses its life or grows up without a father figure... And we all know how not having a father can turn out... Not good.
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  38. Steve Harvey's show came on a couple months ago and my man and I had the best time laughing at his ridiculous advice on dating and marriage 😅🤣. It's definitely a good show to watch on what not to do.
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  39. Yes! I completely agree. I'll get fully ready just to sit and watch tv with my man! It's the same with working out. I keep my body in top shape and yes the main reason is to keep my mans jaw dropped😅. A lot of people only work on their bodies when they are looking for a partner and stop when they get one. The most amazing compliment I got from my man lately was that my body is better in my 30s then my early 20s after looking at old photos he took of me. I've been smiling for a week and so has he 🤣.
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  40. I'm definitely a lady simp for my amazing man. To the point women will make fun of me for it but it doesn't bother me at all. I'm proud of how I treat my man. And besides the moment I ask them how many preserved forever flowers they have, if a man has ever saved them from a bear or if they are happy they tend to get super quiet. That is also why the man or bear thing that's going around makes me laugh so hard. Where I live in Canada was marked the most dangerous place for black bears last year. They even run through downtown. If you're a smart woman here you don't go into the bushes or trails without a man. The women saying man over bear would go running to the nearest man if they were confronted by an aggressive angry, hungry or scared bear. My man saved me when we were getting fire wood for my sister in-law. I didn't notice a huge black bear that came out of the bushes/trees and was approaching me but he did.. He ran at the bear with his chain saw and chased it away from me and saved my life by risking his. He is my hero and I will simp for him till the day I die.
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  41. I feel honored that I am the person my amazing man will come to when he is dealing with something or has a problem. I cherish that trust he has with me so much. He has said I'm the only person he can count on. I will do anything for him just to see his handsome smile and to help him feel better.
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  42.  @worldserpent731  I hope it is as well but I have sadly seen a lot of women hate on their mother in law's like they are competition. It's terrible. Just seems like a lot of unnecessary drama to me though. I absolutely love that my in-laws love me and that I get hugs and forehead kisses from them rather than awkward glares and stares.
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  43.  @scarasara  very lucky and I completely agree. After my man's ex he was completely done with woman till we started hanging out. She was absolutely horrible to him😞. So I understand why he felt that way and feel very lucky that he even gave me a chance after what he went through. It warms my heart so much to hear from other women who actually cherish their men. I don't come across it much in real life other than older women and the ladies I do bible study with, who are also mainly older women😅.
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  44.  @Okunigger_Volker  I'm sorry your date night went like that. I completely get what you're saying. I live in Liberal Canada. Walking home yesterday I walked by a bunch of homeless doing drugs and I think I also walked by a dead person right in front of Wendy's. This weekend my man planned a date day for us to get out of the city to go for a picnic and I am way more excited about that than if we were to go for dinner.
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  45.  @loreraptor5093  I definitely understand where you are coming from. I'm just thinking from my personal experience with the man who is the love of my life. I am so in love and have such a huge attraction to him that I only have eyes/thoughts about him.
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  46. 4:52 I started working at the end of last year. I make really good money and only work in the afternoons. I spend my mornings cleaning the house so that my man can still come home to a clean house. I don't go to work till after I make my man lunch, he comes home every day for lunch and I try to be home before he is so that I can greet him with coffee. Dinner is later than it used to be but it turns out we both like eating a little later after calming down from work anyways. Me working has made it so that I can contribute to the house more. Which has made my man's life a bit easier on him. That is worth every hour that I work. I also absolutely love my job. He actually took a sick day after at least 5 years or more. He is the hardest working man I have met and I am blessed for everything that he has and is doing for me. He deserves everything I do for him and with a loving smile.
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  47.  @GUITARTIME2024  I've said a couple things about it to her. It just goes in one ear and out the other sadly
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  48. I respect McDonald's workers. I don't respect sex workers.
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  49.  @jbizz334  you still have to respect them and be kind/civil. It's your partner's place to have enough strength and respect for you to tell their parents how they can't treat you and to set boundaries with them. My mom can be brutal but knows not to pull any of that with my man because she will have consequences to deal with from me. She has shown him nothing but respect because I have set boundaries with her and she knows I will not tolerate any sort of disrespect towards him at all.
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  50.  @LaitoChen  thank you!
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