Youtube hearted comments of Eric Taylor (@ejtaylor73).

  1. 10:26 Men don't want to approach groups of women because he doesn't get to talk to the ONE he is interested in, all the others in the group will interrupt and interject their disapproval. The man has to impress ALL of the women, which he will NEVER do, because the others feel rejected he didn't choose them over you and will find any little thing to insult him about and talk you out of giving him a chance. Single women keeping other women SINGLE.
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  2. 13:52 "Women can be happy alone," says all the women on toxic social media begging for attention from other people.
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  3. 2:15 Don't want to be seen eating alone any more, then stay at home and cook.
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  4. "We always wanted children..." Shouldn't you have thought about that before being a lesbian and with someone who couldn't get you pregnant? Not having children is the consequences of YOUR life choices.
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  5. 0:55 Emily nailed it. My now ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. I haven't allowed another woman to get close to tearing down the wall I built around myself, and it's been 20 years now.
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  6. THERE ARE NO 10's!!! Man or woman, there is ALWAYS room to improve as a person. “Make improvements, not excuses. Seek respect, not attention.” ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart
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  7. 23:35 It's what Newton's 3rd Law says, "For every action, there is an equal and opposite REACTION." If a man REACTS, it's to a woman's actions, SHE is responsible for his reaction. Mirrors are for more than just hair and make-up, they are for self reflection.
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  8. My ex wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. All she got was $300 total child support for 2 kids and their clothes. She didn't get alimony because the state she filed in the law was 5 years of marriage and because she sucks at math she filed 2 months too early and didn't qualify. All that for a man that LIED to her and instead of upgrading, she took a HUGE L. Marriage is a contract, and in that contract you swear "Til death do us part." If she's filing for divorce she obviously hasn't passed. The one that didn't file for divorce should be able to sue for breach of contract.
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  9. 21:05 NO, men are NOT afraid to be providers. They just don't want to WASTE their hard EARNED resources on worthless women that don't reciprocate.
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  10. None of these women going to these singles events and complaining about the lack of men have even fathomed the notion that they are NOT the prize. Scarcity drives value, fewer men makes them the PRIZE, and all those women are competing for him.
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  11. If a woman gets defensive or offended, and makes excuses when asked "What do you bring to the table," it's at that very moment she realizes she offers absolutely NOTHING, yet expects everything to be handed to her.
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  12. Women can NOT be comfortable alone, they HAVE to have attention and interaction. A man however, can sit at home alone with some chicken strips, a beer and a controller and not talk to another person for days and WEEKS. A study came out showing that cats actually prefer men over women, what are women going to do when even cats don't want them?
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  13. I can cook, bake, clean, do laundry, iron, sew, financially stable, yard work, repairs, I even do windows. What can a woman offer me to make my life better, easier, and more peaceful, that I can't already do for myself?
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  14. 8:55 So basically the man took everything HE paid for and left you all your belongings, who knew that's how it works.
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  15. DNA/Paternity tests should be required by ALL before a birth certificate is issued. If it comes back negative for the father then a birth certificate is issued with ONLY the mother's name. That little piece of paper can prevent 18 years of child support for a child that isn't yours.
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  16. 3:17 The trad wife gets a LOT of hate from every other woman out there. Personally, I think those other women are completely stupid, working 8 hours day, paying their own bills, SINGLE, doing everything on their own. While the trad wife gets to stay at home, and works maybe 30 minutes - 1 hour a day, doing some MINOR upkeep on cleaning, laundry doesn't need to be done every day, but when it does the machine does everything. If she's efficient, she puts a load in the washer, takes 30 minutes to clean the rest of the house, puts the clothes in the dryer then has an hour to sit and relax until dryer is done, fold and put away the clothes and her day is done until dinner time. Her husband pays all the bills, takes care of the other things she can't like repairs and yard work. Because she has made his home a peaceful and happy place that he wants to go to, he goes out of his way to provide for her and do the little things that make her happy. He also see's she put in time and effort to clean the house, so he will try not to make a mess, or clean it up if he does to show his appreciation for what she does.
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  17. 13:06 What's missing when you have a great day is, someone who actually cares, to share your achievement with. When was my "light bulb" moment? When my now ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. Haven't allowed another woman to get close enough to even attempt to tear down the wall I built around myself in almost 30 years. Now I come and go as I please, spend my money on what I want, do things I like and want to do, and have no one to answer to for it. The PEACE is heavenly.
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  18. 17:45 YOU may get it, but most women don't. I worked 12 hour shifts in the military, and would get home and have to clean the house, do laundry, wash the dishes just so I could make myself something to eat, while my now ex-wife sat at home all day making the mess. My now ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. The judge (A woman) upon hearing she cheated while I was deployed to a war zone, had no sympathy for her, all my ex-wife walked out with was her personal belongings, the 2 kids (Joint custody) and $300 total child support for 2 kids. She didn't get alimony because the state she filed the divorce in, the law was 5 years of marriage, and because she sucks at math she filed 2 months too early and didn't qualify. The lawyer argued she should get alimony, but the judge wasn't having it. She did it all for a man that lied to her about his living/working/financial situation and instead of leveling up, she took a HUGE LOSS. I haven't allowed another woman to get close enough to me since.
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  19. 1st Woman: Yes, she admits she's over weight right up front, but sits and whines on social media how hard it is to date as a fat woman. She knows it's a problem, then how about she try to fix it, take the time you put into whining on social media and put it to use in the gym and lose the weight, so you aren't trying to date as a fat woman. Brett lost credibility for shaming a man after ONLY getting 1 side of the story and for him having a preference, and that preference is something she can control. The guy knew she was over weight and thought perhaps he could give her a chance, but the pictures didn't show the extent and once he saw her in person realized she was far bigger than he thought and he could no longer go through with it. Get BOTH sides of the story Brett before you go out making him the villain without ALL of the information and just making yourself look bad and losing your integrity.
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  20. Because men are tired of being taken advantage of and realize how much more time and money they have to do things they enjoy.
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  21. Guys aren't trying any more because they're not wasting their time chasing women that are already hard to want.
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  22. 5:39 "I remember when WE installed those....," by WE you mean HE did it, and you stood there complaining about how he was doing it.
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  23. 0:25 You had me Dadvocate, right up until you said he was a coward for ghosting. TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give, it is finite. If they are broken up she is no longer entitled to any more of his TIME, not even to tell her what she did that made him lose interest in her, breaking up/ghosting is all she needs to know she didn't possess what HE VALUES in a woman he will commit to, she needs nothing more than that. Why should he give her more of his TIME telling her why he lost interest, just to listen to her whine, complain, deflect, blame him, emascualte, and guilt him?
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  24. 11:25 Woman: "I'll stand by my man and support him and build him up." Man: "But they're your exes, you left them." Woman: "Because they're losers." So much for standing by them and building them up, as soon as that was necessary she bailed on them.
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  25. If women want men to approach, the 1st thing they need to do is put their phone away, look up and smile, and appear approachable. The moment a man sees her phone or sneer on her face, he has lost all interest.
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  26. All that "body positivity" catching up to them. If I wanted to see mashed potatoes I'd go to a restaurant, NOT a strip club.
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  27. Women want a wedding, not a marriage. Women want a provider, not a husband.
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  28. Women should REALLY get it in their heads, a man's PRIVATE LIFE is NOT content for your channel. Put the phones away or continue to be ignored.
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  29. A divorced woman proves she is unfaithful, disloyal, and untrustworthy and no one to be with.
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  30. 0:35 Why would men chase a woman that is already hard to want.
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  31. 0:20 A 10 minute video of you rambling on and on trying to affirm to yourself that you made the right choice and you're happy, shows you are LONELY and regret that decision, you are longing for some kind of interaction with an adult. You are begging people on social media to validate your choices and give you attention.
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  32. 0:57 I've said it many times, THE PAST MATTERS, it is a glimpse at future behavior. This man said it perfectly.
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  33. Why would a man wait for a woman, to finally figure out what she wants in life, when they are already hard to want.
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  34. 14:55 Women, STOP with these videos pretending to "ask men questions", we already know they're BS and you aren't listening, you just want the attention and clicks&views to feel people care about you. Men have answered all of these questions for DECADES, if you're still asking, it proves YOU'RE NOT LISTENING to the answers because you don't actually care what the answer is. If you TRULY want answers to these questions, STOP watching videos from women, and START watching videos/reading comments from MEN, they are telling you EXACTLY what they will/won't accept and VALUE in a woman they will commit to, there are no sublte hints or reading between the lines in what they say they want, if it's not you, fix yourself to be it or remain SINGLE.
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  35. 0:56 And yet, still no accountability, just blaming feminism for HER CHOICES. EVERY choice YOU made is what led you to this point, no one else did. Your biological was clock ticking away WARNING you time was running out and YOU chose to ignore it, until it got so loud that it started driving you insane which is now why you are so desperate.
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  36. 19:45 "Why do men stare and not approach?" Because they are waiting for you to give them an UNMISTAKABLE sign you want them to approach. The subtle hints like batting your eyes or flipping your hair days are over, you need to be very direct in letting him know you want him to approach you. Thank your feminists, metoo, and modern women for making you have to work to get approached.
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  37. 4:16 You lost all credibility when you brought zodiac sign into it. NO, the man is NOT insecure, the woman is. SHE'S showing her insecurity by asking all those quesions because she feels threatened by other women. If she knows she is giving the man everything he needs, he will be faithful to her and not have to worry about other women.
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  38. 10:05 Woman's definition of abuse = Not letting her get her own way in everything.
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  39. 15:05 If you didn't care you wouldn't have made a video. NO ONE puts time, effort, energy, and work into something they don't care about. You obviously care.
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  40. 3:25 "She married you and loved you," and yet your daughter still divorced him, showing just how much she loved him. "It's all about trust," yes, he TRUSTED her to take her marriage vows serious, but she didn't and she lost his trust.
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  41. 0:48 The problem you aren't seeing is you were being pushy and bossy, trying to take the lead. You weren't just going to drop everything for him but expected him to do it for you, showing entitlement and selfishness. It is the man's job to be the leader, and the woman the follower, you needed to back off and just accept he was busy, let him work out his schedule and he would have gotten back to you to try to set up a date on a different night, but you just couldn't wait, showing desperation.
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  42. 7:35 You're just proving women didn't choose to be 4B, men made that decision for them long ago. Women have just been unwitting participants in it for a long time, as men continue to go their own way at ever increasing rates.
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  43. Any woman on toxic social media is a giant red flag. There is no guarantee she can be TRUSTED to keep YOUR private life just that, PRIVATE. A man's private life is NOT content for your channel.
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  44. 6:22 You didn't "lose" the man you were supposed to marry, you PUSHED HIM AWAY with your attitude, behavior and poor personal character. A woman wants to leave her options open just in case some greener grass comes along, and when it does she says she'll wait to see if even greener grass will come along, and eventually there is no more grass. You look over the fence and think the grass is greener. You make that leap over the fence and get divorced/test out other options just to find out the green grass was nothing but a mirage, and now you are stuck in a barren desert wasteland devoid of ALL vegetation. You look back only to see that fence become "The Wall" that you can no longer get over, crushing all your hopes and dreams of greener pastures. Forsaking you to be SINGLE and ALONE FOREVER. Instead of looking for greener pastures, why not plant some grass in your own backyard and create those greener pastures with your partner and be happy where you are.
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  45. Maybe time for a law saying the custodial parent is required to keep receipts of every penny of the child support and how it was spent on the CHILD.
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  46. 20:46 The MAN determines your "value" to him, NOT YOU. But, have you figured out that all these rules and boundaries is the reason your having to go on so many dates and still remain single? I'm guessing your "routine" after 9p.m. is taking HOURS to remove all that FAKE eyelashes and 10 layers of make-up from your face.
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  47. If you start out with "I might be crazy," the answer is YES you are and you should fix that first. When he finds out you're documenting everything on toxic social media, you are showing him his PRIVATE life is NOT going to remain PRIVATE, and you are UNTRUSTWORTHY, and without TRUST you have nothing.
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  48. I won't be with a woman on toxic social media, there is no guarantee she will keep MY PRIVATE LIFE, just that, PRIVATE and there would be no TRUST, without TRUST you have nothing. Same thing if she can't turn her phone OFF and put it away when we're together, why does she need it when I'm right there, if does need her phone she is showing me I am not her priority and no one to be with.
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  49. 14:55 Tell 'em Pearl. My now ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned. I've been single for 25+ years, haven't allowed another women to get close enough to tear down the wall built around my frozen heart.
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  50. 0:45 You should go back and listen to what you said in the video and MAYBE you'll finally see the problem. You planned out this great and wonderful FAIRYTALE in your head, but reality doesn't care about your feelings and isn't going along with your script.
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  51. "My past doesn't matter." EVERYTHING you learned was in your past, it is what made you who you are today, and gives a glimpse at who you will be in the future. Your past has consequences on your future, if you proved you made bad decisions or can't be trusted in the past, you will make them again and not be trusted, and suffer the consequences in the future. You plan for your future in your past, fail to plan and forget your past, your future will be exactly what you planned for, NOTHING. If I got rid of my previous GF permanently from this world, then my current GF shouldn't worry if I'll end her in the same way too, because hey it was in my past, and the past doesn't matter right. JUST an example of why the past matters, haven't ended anyone.
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  52. 2:15 He was really interested in seeing you again, until you opened your mouth (Pulled out your fingers and texted in this instance). Women say the MAN needs to plan the date. He started to plan and instead you took over making all kinds of suggestions, showing him you are NOT going to allow him to lead. The ONLY response you should have given was "Yes, that sounds nice." He would have suggested a date/time/place, your ONLY response should be "Sounds great, I'll be there," or if you're busy, then tell him you're busy as long as it's for WORK, not to hang out with friends, and say you're free on this __ day. He would then say, "That works, I'll see you there on that day." It really isn't as difficult as you women are making it, STOP trying to be in charge and interject your opinions into everything. Just let him plan things and you go with an OPEN MIND. You said it yourself, unfortunately you are looking at it from a selfish POV, time is the greatest commodity, and he already saw youre not "The One" so why should he have to give you any more of his most precious resource to message you again and then have to listen to you whine and blame him?
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  53. 6:06 Kudos to the guy for not holding back punches. She so lives in her own little fantasy world, "When you say it like that it sounds bad," BECAUSE IT IS! Why do you need someone to repeat back to you what you just said to FINALLY realize how bad it ws?
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  54. 12:45 "I'm the full package." While buried under make-up, with FAKE eyelashes, and whining on toxic social media for validation, more like an empty package. If you were the "full package" you would have a natural look and not need other people's approval to tell you who you are.
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  55. 7:25 Ladies, pay close attention, this is exactly why men tune you out and stop listening. She took 10 minutes to tell a story that could have been 30 seconds. Men want speed and efficiency, and dragging on a story like that is the complete opposite.
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  56. 9:46 It's simple. In the beginning you were putting your best foot forward. Then you got more comfortable and started opening your mouth and showing who you TRULY are on the inside, and showed him you don't possess what HE VALUES in a woman he will commit to. He knows you're not the one so no reason to WASTE more time on you.
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  57. 0:36 Maybe women shouldn't have been so selfish and only thought of themselves. If they put a little depper thought into the future of telling men to leave them alone, they would have seen the consequences of their actions would be, MEN LEAVING THEM ALONE. You got what you wanted, now accept accountability for it.
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  58. 13:45 You're making a video about an ex's wedding, that says exactly how you feel, because no one puts in time and effort into something they don't care about, so you care that he got married. Why do you care? Because you believe it should have been you, if you didn't you would have deleted him from FB and never looked at anything about him again. Jealousy is such an ugly trait.
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  59. 23:45 Why can't you see the problem, it's so obvious. STOP COMPARING every guy to the previous ones, they are all different and will behave differently. Go on the date with NO expectations and an open mind and see where it goes without your prejudices/biases interfering.
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  60. My advice ladies, stop with the singles events, go out into the REAL WORLD, men don't want to go to yet another place women get in free, and men have to pay just for you to insult and reject them. BUT, you NEED to put your phone away, 1st, a man isn't going to approach you if your face is buried in a phone, and he isn't going to approach when he sees the phone because he believes you are going to record HIS PRIVATE LIFE for content. 2nd, look up and SMILE!! Make yourself appear to be pleasant and approachable and you are aware of the world around you. 3rd, don't be in groups of women, he won't get to talk to the ONE he is interested in, he has to impress them all, and the ones he didn't choose will feel rejected and find any little problem they can and talk you into rejecting him. Lastly, and most difficult, KEEP AN OPEN MIND!! Don't let your expectations run wild with delusion, don't compare him to any other man you've encountered because he is not them, stop looking with your eyes and start looking with your heart, remember it's not a Hollywood fairytale, if you need that, it was a frog that turned into the prince, but you have to give him a chance to do so.
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  61. 0:35 "We need to get back to traditional values." Then proceeds to say it's only men that need to, while giving examples of men doing what men traditionally did, so men have maintained those traditional values, and it's women that have lost theirs.
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  62. 11:25 1st, communication is a 2 way street, take a breath once in a while and LISTEN. 2nd, all your reasons are "I, I, I, me, me, me," showing selfishness, a relationship is TWO people, NOT YOU. 3rd, men do NOT CARE about your career, education, what you want, they want to know what you are going to GIVE to make their lives better and easier. 4th, relationships aren't a fairy tale made up in your head, they are a job that you have to work at, you get two blobs of clay that have to be molded together into 1 cohesive statue. A man will take that ordinary 6 french fry cook at McDonald's with a good personality and personal character, over that delusional 10 with a bad attitude and disrespectful. A man that doesn't care what a woman has to say is only interested in sleeping with her, a man that wants to hear what she has to say is truly interested in something serious, because that is how he gets to know who she is as a person and if she has the traits he values. Outer beauty ONLY gets a man's attention and draws him to her, it's her inner beauty that makes him decide if he will commit. You can wrap a turd in pretty paper, but it is still a turd on the inside. You can wrap a woman in outer beauty and make-up, but if she has a bad attitude and personal character, she is still a turd on the inside.
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  63. 4:15 Going into a realtionship with a list of "deal breakers" just shows you are planning on leaving, so why get into it at all.
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  64. 18:53 "Can they be trusted? NO." Without TRUST you have nothing.
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  65. 5:36 "There's no justification at all, BUT...," and proceeds to try to justify it and play victim.
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  66. All you ever hear is "I, I, I, me, me, me." You NEVER hear this is what I GIVE to my partner. Men do NOT CARE about YOUR "accomplishments and achievements" they want to know what you are going to GIVE to make HIS life easier and better. Showing their selfishness, and a selfish person will NEVER ADD to another persons life.
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  67. 9:15 Exactly, lead with your wallet, and that is all you will ever be seen as. She's a strong independent woman that has her own money, so use some of it to buy your own gas.
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  68. What a man and woman provide in a relationship isn't, NEVER has been, and NEVER will be equal. Men provide the resources necessary for survival, women provide what is necessary to support the man so he can and wants to provide. Partners need to work TOGETHER to achieve a common goal, not compete with each other over who does more. For the couple that truly cares for each other, what each provides is of equal VALUE to the other.
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  69. 9:15 "Do not worry," says the SINGLE woman eating popcorn and watching a movie ALONE. Listen to her advice, and do the opposite.
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  70. 0:37 Dating in your 30's is great because you FINALLY know what you want. Why did it take you that long to figure it out? Now that you FINALLY figured out what you want, you are less attractive to men and the chances you'll find one with everything you want, that is actually interested in you, are all but zero. To a man, if you're 30 and haven't been settled down yet, you have got more baggage than a freight train could carry, and not worth the stress and drama.
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  71. 20:25 The woman that rated herself an 8 and said "There's room for improvement everywhere," nailed it. The one rating herself a 10 just proved she's NOT because she's not going to grow and better herself because she thinks she's already perfect.
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  72. You always hear "He gave a lame excuse," but they never say what that excuse was. Maybe if they did, people would realize it wasn't lame and her entire victimhood is gone.
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  73. 17:36 There's your problem, "What if..., what if...," STOP living in a fantasy land inside your head, trying to figure out solutions to problems that don't exist. Go out, take the initiative and ask a man for coffee, and just take things as they come. STOP wondering what he is thinking about you and coming to the WRONG conclusions, and just ASK HIM. All that "what if," does is make you come off as insecure, and an insecure woman is going to need constant affirmations, which is EXHAUSTING. You are wearing guys out before they even get to know you and they lose interest in you sucking up all their energy.
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  74. Men don't "friend zone" women, there's no benefits for him. They just move women to the "For Bedroom Fun Only" category.
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  75. 17:05 4B Movement making it's way to the U.S.? You women have been unwitting participants in 4B for a long time now. Men made that choice for you when they started going their own way. That's why you keep seeing women posting videos "Where have all the men gone," and "Why don't men approach." You got 4B'ed.
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  76. 9:55 Emily King truly gets it. Make-up says high maintenance, low confidence which means he's going to get exhausted just having to reassure you all the time, you're trying to hide something, you're going to WASTE his time putting all that crap on/taking it off, and you can't just relax which brings PEACE. YES, men don't want to approach women in groups either, because he now has to impress ALL of them, which he will NEVER be able to do, because women can't handle rejection and those not chosen will feel rejected and find any little thing to complain about him, and get their friend to give in to peer pressure and reject him.
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  77. 2:45 "There are lots of men who don't know what love feels like." If he doesn't know what love feels like, it's because the woman isn't showing him it. Way to call out your fellow women out there for their failures.
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  78. Women should STOP trying to use how a woman thinks and applying that to how a man thinks. We are DIFFERENT and think differently, your emotional thoughts will NEVER explain how a man thinks. If they TRULY wanted a man in their life they would get rid of their huge list of demands for him, and START telling a man what you GIVE in a relationship to make HIS life easier and better, that is what men want to know.
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  79. 0:35 "I want, I want, I want, gimme, gimme, gimme," NOTHING about what you are going to do to reciprocate and give him what he needs/wants. Enjoy paying for your own drinks and having to hype yourself up on Mondays to go to an actual job.
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  80. 5:15 You're right, unfortunately you are saying what these women NEED to hear, NOT what they WANT to hear, so they stopped listening to you. Just look at them, eyes glazed over and look off into space. Which is why they will continue displaying their poor personalities and character and will remain SINGLE.
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  81. 5:25 "I help good men find great women." SOOOOO.... you've helped no one then, what great women? How do you outsmart women's games? Stop going to high schools where those games are and don't play. Men pull out the controllers and play video games to get away from those that want to play mind games.
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  82. 0:35 Let's simplify this so people don't have to listen to your 2 hour long story. If you want a man in your life, then you have to know and care about what THEY VALUE in a woman. START watching videos/reading comments from MEN. They have been telling you long enough now EXACTLY what they will/won't accept and what they value in a woman they will commit to, no subtle hints or reading between the lines, they are saying EXACTLY what they are looking for, if that's not you, fix yourself to be it or remain SINGLE.
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  83. 6:05 "He worked day in day out, 12 hours a day, and still had no resources." Maybe it's time you look inward at how much was he spending of those resources on you. What were you WASTING money on so you could portray a FAKE IMAGE?
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  84. It's not a numbers game. It's you going on a date with an open mind and letting things happen as they do, getting to know them for who they are, instead of expecting it to go bad, because you'll be looking for any little thing to complain about. STOP going on a date with high expectations and made up fantasies in your head, then get disappointed when those unrealistic expectations and pre-determined outcomes of those FAKE fantasies aren't met, you are just setting yourself up for failure.
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  85. The world has become so connected with the internet and social media apps, that it has become disconnected from reality.
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  86. You plan for your future in your PAST, if you failed to plan in your past, you planned to FAIL in the future. Trying to figure out your life at 30, 40, or older is TOO LATE.
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  87. 14:55 There is NO VALIDATED psychometric test or scale for emotional intelligence. "You get what you give." One of the characteristics of an "emotionally intelligent" person is being REALISTIC about themselves, yet women say they're a 10, when they're barely a 5. "Emotionally intelligent" people have a trait such as AGREEABLENESS, how many women does that describe, now-a-days, VERY few. If women aren't giving "emotional intelligence", or any intelligence at all, then they are not going to receive it.
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  88. In poker you don't start out going all in, you bet the BARE MINIMUM, you feel out other players hands, and when you believe you have the winning hand, then you go all in. All that "low level" bare minimum dating stuff is to feel her out and see what kind of person she is before he goes all in, and possibly crap out on a losing hand. If he is putting in time, energy, attention, and money and not getting anything back, then he's only WASTED a small amount on you. If she proves to be a good person on the INSIDE, then he will up the ante and take her on "higher level" dates AFTER she has shown him she has what HE VALUES. Now she has hit the jackpot and he will go all-in and out of his way to provide everything she wants.
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  89. 25:36 Anyone who says "Trust me," is UNTRUSTWORTHY. They just do it to try to put your mind at ease to believe whatever nonsense comes out of their mouth and not hold them accountable for it. TRUST is EARNED through your actions, not just because you say to do it. You haven't done anything to EARN that trust.
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  90. The math women NEED to be learning is when you add to one side of an equation, you have to subtract from the other side to balance out the equation. As a woman ADDS years to her age and pounds to her weight, bodies to her count, etc., she MUST SUBTRACT STANDARDS to balance out the equation to her new older, ran through, and less looks and value TO A MAN solution. If the equation isn't balanced out, it will not be stable and it will fail. Just look at all those women denying they've hit "The Wall" that are still SINGLE with NO prospects because they continue to ADD standards as they get older, rack up more bodies, can't even fry an egg, have an entire football team of babies running around, and their "value" to a man just isn't up to those standards any more. The equation is off balance which is why they will remain SINGLE. It's like an elephant sitting on one side of a see-saw and a dwarf trying to get up onto the other side that's way up in the air out of reach. You women are the elephant here, positioning yourself so that NO MAN can ever reach your standards.
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  91. 11:15 Ever think he's doing it because he knows you're going to put HIS PRIVATE LIFE on toxic social media for the world to judge, so he's not giving you the ammo to disrespect him? Or maybe he's just letting you know, he's putting in time, effort, and resources, and is expecting you to reciprocate, and one time just say to him, "No, I appreicate all the other times you paid for me, I got this one tonight."
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  92. 3:15 You said a PRAYER before going to file for divorce? Malachi 2:16 “For I hate divorce, says the LORD." You can't make this kind of irony up. You are NOT religious so stop pretending.
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  93. 6:15 Why include a clip when you're going to bleep out every word?
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  94. 22:06 Dating/relationship "coaches" have NO vested interest in actually helping their "clients". Any "client" who find a partner, will no longer be WASTING money on your useless services. A business that drives it's customers away will go bankrupt and not be a business any more. They don't want their "clients" to succeed and will give them the WORST advice possible, so they FAIL, to keep them coming back.
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  95. 15:55 You could have saved yourself the trouble if you just stopped to think for one second. Men aren't going to clubs to find wives, they are there for exactly the type women that's there, a one night stand.
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  96. The trifecta of what MEN VALUE in a woman they will commit to are faithful, loyal, and trustworhty, add in respectful and appreciative to make it a full house, throw in reciprocating and submissive and you hit the jackpot. A woman that cheats and gets divorced is proving she doesn't possess what men value and is NOT wife material.
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  97. 1:57 Men go grocery shopping early in the morning before work, or later in the evening after work. That's when the stores are empty, no kids/old people and no women standing around talking instead of shopping. Grocery shopping for a man is a mission, get in, get what they need, and get out. They know what they are there for, they don't look around at every item on the shelf. You impede him from accomplishing his mission, he has no interest in you. Women are adding grocery stores to the list, because single men have to do their own grocery shopping. All these women's videos do is show their desperation. You should have planned for your future in your PAST, you failed to plan in your past, so you planned to fail in your future.
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  98. Women should realize and get comfortable with EFFECTIVE communication and say EXACTLY what they mean, men are NOT going to pursue, chase, or play your games any more. You say "No," the answer is "NO" and they are done with you.
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  99. 0:40 Proving why men tune women out. 4 minutes of rambling on and on with useless details, when it could have just taken 30 seconds to tell that whole story. Then another 4 minutes of commentary afterwards, no wonder these videos are so long. Just wrap it up and move on!
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  100. Whenever these videos start with "I have a serious question...," the answer will ALWAYS be "NO YOU DON'T." A serious questions warrants a serious answer and women don't want that, they just want to be told what they want to hear, NOT the TRUTH. ALL of these alleged "serious questions" have already been answered by MEN, you just aren't listening.
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  101. 3:55 Perhaps your firing wasn't out of the blue, your employer may have been putting up with poor behavior hoping you would change, but you didn't. Have you stopped to think about YOUR behavior as a possible reason or just putting all the blame on the company. Your social media presence does affect your employer as well, if you're content isn't conducive of the image the company wants, they're going to get rid of you because they don't want to be associated with that material.
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  102. Love The Filipina Pea. Anyone thinking of getting their passport and heading to the Philippines, she is a GREAT source of useful and helpful information. 8:36 The Equal Pay Act of 1963 made it illegal to pay a woman less than a man. The wage gap is a MYTH, made up and spread by women. As the video shows, they ONLY took the total pay for a man and woman without looking at how many hours each of them worked. The man worked more hours and had a higher pay as a result. They ONLY have the data that PRETENDS to back up what they are saying, and don't have data that proves what they are saying is BS. ANY woman saying she is "Emotionally intelligent" is a narcissist, COMPLETELY full of sh*, and knows she has NOTHING of REAL VALUE to offer a man!!! One of the characteristics of an "emotionally intelligent" person is being REALISTIC about themselves, yet women say they're a 10, when they're barely a 3. "Emotionally intelligent" people have a trait such as AGREEABLENESS, how many women does that describe, now-a-days. Women are full of sh* when they say they are more "emotionally intelligent", there is no VALIDATED psychometric test or scale for emotional intelligence, so there is NO FACTUAL PROOF they are. (Source to back up the claim [something women don't do when making a claim]: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/emotional-intelligence) "Emotionally intelligent" means NOTHING but problems to a man. YOUR EMOTIONS will NEVER solve a man's problem, all it will do is cause more. While he is trying to LOGICALLY and RATIONALLY solve his problem that exists in REALITY, you're just filling his head with emotional "what if" BS that has no basis in reality and now he has to filter all that BS out before he can get back to REALITY and find a REAL solution to his REAL problem. TRUE leaders make decisions devoid of emotions, they do what they believe is the best solution based off the factual information available at the time.
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  103. When are the "Drizzle Drizzle Soft Guy Era" videos coming? I'm sure you can have some REAL FUN with those 🤣 1,000 messages on Hinge for her, and the man had to do over a MILLION swipes just to get 700. 5:07 You REALIZED you may be alone forever, you are NOT OK with it though. If you were, you wouldn't be on toxic social media, that you're complaining has ruined everything, whining about being alone. NO ONE puts in time and effort into something they don't care about. 6:12 Yes you're "Single until married" and will remain single and unmarried because you are proving to guys you are unfaithful, disloyal, and untrustworthy.
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  104. 22:45 It doesn't matter if you FEEL you deserve an explanation. He ghosted you because you said/did something, showed him behaviors or poor personal character that he doesn't VALUE in a woman he will commit to, and he owes you NOTHING MORE. He already knows you're not "The One" so there is no reason for him to give you any more of his most precious resource, TIME. Just saying you deserve more shows how selfish and entitled you are, and the reason you got ghosted. A selfish person will never ADD to ANOTHER PERSONS life, they only take away from it.
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  105. 19:35 Men do NOT want women "FRIENDS", there is no benefit to them, they want PARTNERS. If they want friends, they have plenty of guy friends to hang out with and not have to worry about what they say or do in front of them, they can just be themselves. You didn't lose a friend, you lost a tool that you took advantage of and over used for your own selfish needs.
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  106. You don't hear from the women getting a ring put on their fingers because they're the ones that aren't on toxic social media whining and complaining for validation and attention, they get all they need from their husbands. Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps and isn't the topic of your next video.
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  107. 3:45 Do you? Do you know how to live? If you did you wouldn't have had to move back in with your parents, you would have done what you allegedly know and lived on your own. Your just like all the other young women, you always think you have plenty of time. Remember, it's FATHER Time and he doesn't care about your feelings, poor sense of time, and the fairytale life you have in your head. FATHER Time is the very definition of toxic masculinity, he doesn't care who you are, he is going to give you a hard slap of reality and a giant dose of life.
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  108. 16:45 STOP asking the world to solve your problem for you. Be an adult, sit down and figure out what YOU need to do for yourself. It's not that hard, you need money with no partner to provide it, then you need a job, to get a job you need a resume, problem solved. It really is that simple when you take your emotions and feelings out of the equation and just deal with logic and facts.
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  109. 00:35 "Most are Android users, so I don't know what features that has." I has features now that Apple won't come out with for another 5 years; it has the ability to install any app you want, not just ones Apple thinks you should have; it shows the person is more about functionality over image and isn't a gold digger; it uses a universal plug instead of an over priced proprietary one; it costs 1/3 of the price which shows better financial management and decision making skills. You can wrap a turd in pretty paper, but it's still a turd on the inside, you can bury yourself under all the make-up in the world, but it's not going to change your POOR attitude, traits, and personal character, and you are still a turd on the inside, and inner beauty is what men wanting a serious relationship care about.
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  110. 11:16 There is NO such thing as unconditional love. Any preference, standard, boundary, wants, needs, desires, likes, dislikes, etc. are all CONDITIONS on your love.
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  111. All you ever hear from these women is their laundry list of everything a man has to provide/do for them. NONE of them say what they are going to GIVE to a man. Men DO NOT CARE about your laundry list because he is not responsible for providing it for a random stranger, he wants to know what you are going to do to make his life easier and better for him to be in a relationship with you. You prove his life will be better and he will move mountains to give you everything on your list and more. It was men's job to build the entire world, it is the women's job to make that world a place worth living in. Men have done their job, but women are failing at theirs.
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  112. 18:35 NO, you can ont normalize that kind of "relationship" because there is no relationship, you are just 2 people that know each other and hang out some times, that is what is called a FRIEND, NOT a partner. You just want to stop being embarrassed to say you're SINGLE because you think you're too good to be, while not having to put in any time, effort, and work of an actual relationship.
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  113. 10:25 Pay alimony so she can get a degree? You don't need a degree to work at McDonald's or Walmart. There are plenty of jobs available that don't require a degree, just because they aren't jobs she wants, doesn't mean she should be paid for not getting any job available.
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  114. 5:16 You contradicted yourself and invalidated your argument. You said people should NOT be in the comments saying "This is what happens when a 3 thinks they're a 10." Then proceed to say people want someone on the same level as them, and women need to drop their egos, meaning a 3 needs to stop believing she is a 10 and worthy of a 10 man. Your argument to disagree with them just proved you agree with them, a losing proposition to argue against something you are agreeing with and puts your integrity into question. It may be mean to say/hear, but the hardest lessons in life to learn are the most painful ones. Your parents told you 100 times "Don't touch the hot stove," it wasn't until you actually did it and got burned did you realize you should have listened to what you were told and not done it. How is she going to know she's NOT a 10, so stop trying to be one and looking for a 10 man, if no one tells her to force her to come back to reality and be more honest with herself so she'll stop touching that hot stove and getting burned? It's LONG past time to stop coddling everyone's feelings and just be straight up and give them brutal honesty to make them get out of fantasy land inside their heads.
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  115. 16:05 NO!!! He's talking to her to get to know her because what men VALUE in a woman they will commit to comes from INSIDE, and the only way to see if she has the traits, behaviors, personality, and personal character he is looking for is TALKING TO HER over a period of time. Your looks are ONLY going to carry you so far in life, at some point, you will need to rely on your INNER BEAUTY, and at that point you are SCREWED because you are VERY ugly there.
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  116. 0:35 You may want to get a refund for that degree. Treat a man like a friend and he will either disappear straight out, or continue looking for a woman that shows she wants a relationship and then he will disappear. She's JUST A FRIEND, if she stops contacting him, he will think she found a partner, and he will disappear. STOP trying to apply your womanly emotions to how men think, we use LOGIC, and logic dictates if she's not displaying her undivided interest in you, then sh'es not interested in you and he needs to move on to a woman that is. Women no longer get to play "hard to get" when they are already hard to WANT.
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  117. The world is so connected now that it has become disconnected. Social media will be the downfall of society, and it has already started. Don't you think it's rude and disrespectful to put your watermark on other people's clips that you are using without giving them credit for their videos themselves? You go to a museum and the name of it is on the building, but all the works of art inside are attributed to those artists, not the museum.
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  118. 6:15 That was suppsed to be the TLDR and it's still too long. Rambling on and on like that shows just how bored and lonely you truly are. It also shows you aren't over those guys and regret not putting in more effort to make it work, because now you've stepped into a world where men aren't interested unless the woman puts in the work to make herself be seen, and that is what you are incapable of.
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  119. 26:25 Where's the problem? You got your career, your independence, your money. Having dreams and goals in life are meaningless, if you don't take actions to pursue them and make them a reality. Fail to plan for the future, you plan to fail in that future. You didn't plan or take any steps to achieve those goals in your past, and now you have none of them in your future.
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  120. 13:25 You want a man to chase you, then the prize has to be worth playing for, and modern women aren't it.
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  121. 11:15 WAKE UP!!! People have become lazy and entitled, they aren't reading any huge policy book. If Democrats had put it in YouTube videos and explained it in ways the unintelligent could understand the benefits to them, maybe they would have had a better chance.
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  122. 19:15 Define "emotional intelligence" or is it just a buzz word you use to try to make yourself feel superior? One of the characteristics of an "emotionally intelligent" person is being REALISTIC about themselves, yet women say they're a 10, when they're barely a 5. "Emotionally intelligent" people have a trait such as AGREEABLENESS, how many women does that describe, now-a-days. There is NO VALIDATED psychometric test or scale for emotional intelligence, so you have no way of FACTUALLY PROVING anyone's emotional intelligence level.
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  123. 9:35 Hinge is definitely a hook-up app. What is a hinge? Something that opens and closes, just like your legs.
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  124. 15:05 Absolutely correct, and he is TRUSTING you that his PRIVATE LIFE is between you and him ONLY. Break that trust and it will NEVER come back, and without TRUST, you have NOTHING. Don't be with someone on toxic social media, she WILL use YOUR PRIVATE life for clicks&views.
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  125. Why should men give a woman a 2nd chance, she's already proven she's unfaithful, disloyal, and untrustworthy. Without TRUST you have nothing.
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  126. 9:35 These interviewers need to STOP asking women want they want from a man, they don't know, they haven't sat down and actually figured it out, they just regurgitate the same BS every other SINGLE woman on social media does. Instead START asking what do they offer to the man that the BILLIONS of other women can't, that is what men want to know.
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  127. 3:45 TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give. Money/material things come and go, but time is finite, you only have so much of it on this earth. He found out you weren't interested, and he wasn't going to WASTE his TIME trying for you any more.
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  128. 0:35 What you should learn to do is close your mouth and open your ears more. 6 minutes of whining and rambling on and on because you can't make ADULT decisions on your own and begging other SINGLE women for advice, as if they have a clue.
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  129. First and foremost... fertility. Men want children to carry on HIS bloodline, older women are done with birthing children. 2nd TRUST!! You're older and not in a loving stable relationship? Why? How did you make it this far in life without a man wanting to marry you or were you married and got divorced proving you're not loyal and trustworthy. It's not rocket science, women just need to start caring about what men want and VALUE in a woman he will commit to, and be it or remain single.
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  130. 16:25 Start choosing high paying jobs instead of cushy office jobs and you'll make as much as men. Of course higher paying jobs come with higher risks and far more dangerous and far more intellect needed (STEM), so women wouldn't just get to play life on easy mode with cheat codes enabled in those jobs. For most men it's not about going 50/50, it's the effort that you at least offered and showing you want to reciprocate, not just using and taking advantage of him.
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  131. 8:45 Buck up buttercup, if you're going to be on toxic social media you better get some thicker skin, you don't get to choose who follows you. What you need is to make better choices, driving down the highway and making a video, putting other peoples lives in danger over complete nonsense that could have waited.
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  132. 13:45 NO, it's not "Just a situation I find myself in..." It's the situation YOU created for yourself with YOUR poor life choices. You're on toxic social media begging for validation of YOUR poor choices, instead of figuring out what you need to fix with yourself to be the type woman a man is interested in and will commit to.
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  133. 16:36 STOP asking questions to men, you're not going to listen any ways, because they aren't going to fill you with delusional BS, they are going to be brutally honest with you and tell you what you NEED to hear, NOT what you WANT to hear. BUT, to answer your question, 1st it's filters and make-up and she doesn't look anything like her profile pic in person. 2nd, It's because outer beauty ONLY gets a mans attention, it's her inner beauty, her personality, traits, behaviors, and personal character that makes him decide if he will commit or not. He gets to see that inner "beauty" when you start talking, and once you opened your mouth he saw you didn't possess the traits HE VALUES in a woman. Like a religious woman finds a man to be perfect in every way, then the subject comes up and she finds out he's atheist and suddenly she has lost all interest and wants nothing to do with him. You may have felt everything was going well, but men are logical/rational thinkers and analyzing everything you say and do to see if you fit his idea of the perfect woman. You said or did something he doesn't value and he was being polite by not telling you he's not into you. TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give, money/material things come and go, but TIME it is finite, you only have so much of it on this Earth, he already knew you weren't "The One" by YOUR actions, and there was no reason to give you any more of his greatest commodity, TIME.
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  134. 0:35 The cope is strong with you. Who are you trying to convince of your "happiness", everyone else or YOU?
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  135. Why do so many people think their delusional diatribes and enlightened epiphaniy's are so important they have to record them immediately and doing it while driving, putting other people's lives in danger and it's ILLEGAL. Why can't it wait until you get to where you're going or just pull the car over or even better actually think about it and not make a fool of yourself and don't post it at all.
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  136. 6:25 Equality of the sexes. If a man should go to jail for creating a child out of wedlock, so should the mother. SHE chose to have unprotected sex and is just as responsible for creating the child. It takes TWO.
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  137. 8:25 Do you pick up a can of food in the grocery store and see that it is well past it's expiration date or a banged up dented can with no label on it, and decide to get it to see if the contents on the inside are still good? NO, you didn't accept them for what they looked like on the outside, so you didn't get to know what was inside. The same with guys, they see a woman for what she portrays on the outside before choosing her and getting to know what's on the inside.
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  138. 1st woman: What you need to do is go back to that last conversation and see what you said in it. It's not that he wasn't interested in you, he was, or he wouldn't of been having a conversation. BUT, you said something in that conversation and showed him you don't possess something HE VALUES in a woman he will commit to and that's why he lost interest in you. Want to find out who a woman truly is, just let her talk.
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  139. 8:05 It's not that you did nothing, although that could be a reason in itself, as in you did nothing like reciprocating his efforts, but I would say he just said nothing to end it quicker and easier. If he told you truly why he ended it, you would have played victim and placed all the blame on him, and that's not anything he needs to listen to any more because you're no longer together. One problem is your insecurity "I'm not as pretty as other girls," which means he needed to CONSTANTLY give you affirmations, that is EXHAUSTING, it's negative and takes away happiness, and if he doesn't give those affirmations you're going to start arguing. Your attitude is why he left, you were taking away his PEACE and happiness.
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  140. 15:16 Slow down, take a deep breath, and take your emotions out of your rant, it shows you're irrational and illogical. At no point did you bring up the point that when a man does show his emotions, a woman sees him as weak, not a protector, or leader and she loses respect and interest in him. The man is to be the rock, he provides the stable foundation on which to build a relationship upon.
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  141. Hard to imagine how far tech would come where you would be able to get 128TB in a tiny SD card. But I'm also from the time when a 3.5" floppy came out and could hold more than a 5.25, just blew my mind something much smaller could do so much more. 🤣
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  142. 17:15 Why do you put all the blame on the men? The reason most men cheat is because they are looking for something that they aren't receving at home. What needs of his are you not meeting to PUSH HIM out the door and into the arms of another woman. Give a man all he needs at home and he will be more loyal and faithful than a dog.
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  143. 5:35 Although I agree with the comment, most would choose the younger, but it is NOT a FACT, it is just their opinion.
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  144. 0:35 They're more fertile and have less baggage, question answered, problem solved. NEXT!!!
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  145. 19:35 Lead with your wallet, that is all she will ever see you as. If she can't accept the simpler things in life, she's not worthy of the expensive things.
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  146. 24:55 "I went on 2 dates afterwards, 1 didn't pan out, the other I'm still talking to." Yet you still plan on going to more singles events? No better way to prove to a man you are unfaithful, disloyal, untrustworthy, and no one to be with.
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  147. 12:15 You better get cozy with the "alphabet community" because you aren't going to find a strong straight man that is "equal" emotionally. WOMEN use emotions, men use logic, women get emotional, men are stoic. You say you want an emotional man, just like all the other women, but you will never look up to a man as a protector and leader and feel safe with him if he's crying on your shoulder. "I see lots of happy women," all the younger ones out having all the "fun" they want, but once they hit 30 - 35 and are still SINGLE with no prospects, that happiness is replaced with sadness and desperation.
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  148. It's just another EXCUSE by women to not admit and accept accountability for their POOR personal character. Women don't get the choice, men already made it for them and are walking away. These women have been unwitting participants in the 4B movement for a long time now. They prove it with every video on toxic social media asking, "Where have all the men gone," and "Why don't men approach?"
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  149. The ONLY thing a woman has a say in for a proposal is "Yes/No, I will/won't marry you." The MAN is the ONLY one that decides if he will propose or not. Women, if he hasn't asked you yet, it's because he is still watching your actions/behaviors/personal character to see if you possess what he values, and you need to start doing more FOR HIM to PROVE to him you are the right one.
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  150. 6:55 Maybe it's time for you to look in the mirror and say "What did YOU do to drive him away?"
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  151. 20:25 You're over compensating on the cope of not being able to keep a man in your life. If you have all this time, mind, and sane, then why are you on social media begging for attention and validation from other women telling you how great it is to be independent and SINGLE just like they are. Misery loves company, and single women keep other women single.
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  152. 0:35 Men aren't "commitment phobic", they just aren't finding women that are worth commiting to. Become the type of woman A MAN VALUES and one will commit to you.
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  153. 0:36 I think you should STOP listening to everyone else tell YOU what YOU need/want. Be an ADULT and make your own decision, you don't need anyone else's validation. Misery loves company and your SINGLE friends are inviting you to join them at the SINGLES table.
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  154. 0:35 If your question starts with "If you have to date a single mother...," your question is not serious. Starting with IF mean he has choices and a single mother isn't going to be it, there are BILLIONS of women out there, why would he choose the extra baggage, headaches, stress, drama, and problems.
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  155. They continue to pick the wrong person because they don't take accountability. You have to admit and accept YOUR mistake before you can LEARN from it. They refuse to admit to their mistake, so they don't learn from it and continue to make it. Get off toxic social media whining and STOP listening to other women tell you "It's not your fault," YES IT IS, YOU made the choice that got you into your situation. Admit YOU made a mistake, LEARN from it so you stop making it, or nothing will change, and you will remain single.
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  156. 23:25 "There's so many mean creeps out there." You mean like the ones that put other people's lives in danger by making TikTok videos while driving? You know, like you are doing, because that "enlightened epiphany" is SO important it just couldn't wait until you parked.
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  157. 10:25 Do you not see the hypocrisy and irony of your own rant? You say he saw a small glimpse and made assumptions about you, just as he showed you a small glimpse and you made a bunch of assumptions about him. You did exactly what you are complaining he did, Becky.
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  158. 0:35 When those filters and make-up come off, he feels he was lied to, and lying destroys TRUST. All that make-up says you are going to take a lot of TIME to get ready, and time is the greatest commodity a person has, it is finite, and him sitting around waiting for you to put all that frosting on your face is WASTING his time.
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  159. 3:16 Who are you trying to convince that your happy and living your best life, everyone else or yourself? "This isn't about me as an individual...," then why was everything "I can do this, I can do that, I, I, I," that is very much making it about yourself. "How does a woman live her best life?" By having a man there to shoulder all the burdens, so she can just relax and enjoy life on easy mode.
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  160. Ladies, I'll give you a piece of advice, take it or not. The moment you resort to insults, you have LOST the argument, because it proves you have NOTHING intelligent or of VALUE to offer and not worth wasting time on. The louder you get, the more WRONG you are, and no reason for anyone to listen to you. Logical/rational thought comes from the brain, not your emotions, keep them under control and remain calm and talk respectfully if you want a man to listen to you. "Insults are the arguments employed by those who are in the WRONG." --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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  161. 14:55 Who is telling you that you need to look like an angel? Companies taking advantage of your fragile ego and need for validation and other women. Make-up and FAKE eyelashes/nails is deceitful, tight skimpy clothes showing off everything you have to offer and leaves no mystery puts you in the "for fun only" category. Your INNER BEAUTY is what men care about that will commit to you, and that is where you should focus on bettering.
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  162. 14:25 YES, IT IS YOU!!! You are the common denominator, the only constant in all those "situationships", until you admit to yourself and accept that it IS YOU, nothing will change and you'll be back on toxic social media crying for attention. You need to sit down and take a hard look at yourself and figure out what YOU are doing that is PUSHING MEN AWAY. Stop saying/blaming the men for everything, they are REACTING to YOUR ACTIONS, what did you do to cause the negative reaction.
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  163. Women have lost mens TRUST in them. If they want to TRY to start EARNING it back, they might want to start with men's PRIVATE LIVES are NOT content for your channel. If you can't keep HIS private life just that, PRIVATE, he will NEVER TRUST you, and without trust, you have NOTHING.
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  164. 8:55 Anyone know who this gentleman's social media is? Since channel owner doesn't give any credit to the actual content creators for THEIR videos that they use, and instead claims the copyright to someone else's copyrighted work belongs to them. I'd like to follow the gentleman and give him credit for his work.
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  165. 1:46 She says she "Has been on an 8 month break from dating because..(insert BS EXCUSE here)." You aren't on a BREAK, you "Hit the Wall" and men aren't interested in you. How about you compare gen-z marriage rates with the number of men that got passports and went to another country and got married.
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  166. 17:35 "I'm celibate now." Translation, I've been run through and now that I'm closing in on 30, and know men are DISGUSTED by a woman with a high body count and won't want me, I'm going to pretend I have been reserved with my body. TOO LATE!!! Actions have consequences and only you have to live with those consequences of YOUR poor life choices.
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  167. 25:36 It doesn't matter what plan you have, because it's YOUR ATTITUDE that's the problem, and as soon as you open your mouth he will see it. You need to put in work to fix yourself to be what a man values or they won't be interested regardless of what you do.
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  168. It HAS TO BE the fumes from all that make-up they're caking on their face that gives these women such enlightened epiphanies and delusional diatribes. The things these women will say and believe to avoid accountability and remove responsibility from their poor life choices is beyond comprehension.
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  169. 12:55 NO, we don't need to have this conversation, NO ONE else can tell YOU what YOU need/want. You are an ADULT, sit down and figure out what YOU actually need/want from a partner, then go out in the real world and find it. You had headphones in, that says minding your own business, he was waiting for you to take one out so you could actually hear him.
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  170. 19:05 You have to put yourself out there in the REAL WORLD, Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps.
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  171. 11:16 Communication is meaningless if it's not EFFECTIVE communication. A man asks "Are you OK?" The woman responds "I'm fine." She communicated, but it was useless communication because she's not fine and now he needs to ask more and more questions or read her mind to know what's wrong. EFFECTIVE communication leaves no question in the other persons mind what you mean. Just because your mouth is moving does NOT mean there's anything worthwhile coming out of it.
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  172. 6:15 You said it yourself "I don't have high hopes of meeting someone..." So you went there expecting to fail so you did everything to make sure you met your expectations, and failed. Maybe try getting rid of expectations and going with an open mind and take things as they come. Men and reality do NOT care about that fairy tale you have playing in your head and are not going to abide by it.
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  173. 7:55 Nothing in life is free, one of the problems is toxic social media GAVE everyone a voice, while taking AWAY their common sense in return. Women that have had "The Wall" come crashing down on them, desperately trying to find a man are listening to EXTREMELY BAD advice from SINGLE women, as if they have a clue, the ONLY thing they can advise you of is how to REMAIN SINGLE. They should be asking MEN what they want, ACTUALLY listening to them when they tell you, and becoming that so they'll be interested, but they gave up their common sense and can't figure out something that simple.
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  174. 1st Woman: "The Flip" is simple to explain, she wasn't RECIPROCATING his time, effort, and energy, so there's no more reason for him to give it any more. OR, she opened her mouth and proved to him she doesn't possess the VALUES HE WANTS in a woman he will commit to. Time is the greatest commodity a person has to give, it is finite, he already knows she's not "The One" so why give her any more of his greatest commodity.
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  175. 2:35 Where did men get it from that women don't want to be approached? SIMPLE, they got it from the 100's of THOUSANDS to MILLIONS of women on social media saying it. You may not have said it specifically, but you get to suffer the consequences of other womens actions. You are going to have to start approaching men, because they don't know which women want to be approached and which don't, and they aren't taking the risk any more.
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  176. Social media will be the downfall of society. The world is so connected now that it has become disconnected.
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  177. 9:37 NO, it's NOT OK!! But since you asked, do you really think men care about your laundry list of things he needs to have/do for you? NO, they don't!!! They want to know what you are going to do/give them to make their lives easier and better. All you said is "I, I, I...," proving how selfish you are, the ONLY thing you will give is drama, stress, and headaches.
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  178. If you expect a man to chase you then you need to be worth chasing, by being what HE VALUES in a woman. Men are just giving you what you asked for "To be left alone."
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  179. 6:45 Yes women, listen to this single mom, set those standards as high as they can possibly go and make sure no man gets roped into being with you. Your entitled a$$ doesn't DESERVE ANYTHING, NO ONE does, you have to put in time, effort, energy, and hard work to EARN what you want. Now go away and polish your wall of participation trophies. Your story is FAKE, IF there actually was a man there and he was truly the love of your life, you wouldn't be hiding in the bathroom making toxic social media videos, you would be enjoying your time and happiness with him. YOU put those chocolates there, and "he" knows the way to your heart because YOU ARE "HIM". 8:35 That's right they were ALL YOUR choices, unfortunately you don't see how stupid you sound telling everyone how BAD you are at making decisions.
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  180. 20:55 Wow, "The Wall" hit you hard.
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  181. A woman with any kind of toxic social media is one of the biggest red flags of them all. You can't TRUST her to keep YOUR PRIVATE life just that, PRIVATE, and without TRUST, you have NOTHING.
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  182. 16:55 "We've been on 2 dates, if you know, you know..." YES, we now know you can't keep your partners PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE, and are untrustworthy. Without TRUST you have NOTHING.
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  183. 0:36 Hebrews 13:41 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be UNDEFILED, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." Are you still a virgin or did you violate the god you allegedly have faith in's word. He also says in that passage he wants ALL to marry, so NO, he does not intend for you to be single, if you are it's because of YOU.
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  184. 11:45 Asking what other women did to get their significant other to see value in engaging/marriage shows you are NOT wife material, you are desperate. A man doesn't care what you feel the values in marriage are, if you haven't 1st PROVEN to him you have the VALUES he wants in a woman he will marry. He will NOT marry you until you have shown you have what HE VALUES in a woman through your actions.
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  185. 0:12 It's hilarious that you are trying to cope with "The Wall" crushing you by saying exactly what men have been saying about women, and trying to make it like women are saying it.
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  186. 15:45 Yet another entitled generation woman, "Give me, give me, give me." Men want to know what you are going to do to RECIPROCATE, to give back to him to EARN him giving to you. You can TRY to deflect all you want, but YOU are the one that is SINGLE and will continue to be until you get over yourself and your selfish attitude, and learn to GIVE to others.
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  187. 17:56 Whether you can or want to admit and accept it, what you are feeling is the weight of "The Wall" closing in and crushing you. You're not feeling sadness, you are feeling pain, as life slaps you in the face and forces you to wake up and acknowledge reality of the poor life choices you made. Women always think they have plenty of time, until they don't, that biological clock isn't going to stop ticking and wait for you to decide you're finally ready. You have a LIMITED supply of eggs, which is directly proportional to the LIMITED time you have. When that clock stops, your time is up, and there is no going back.
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  188. 0:35 "Obsessed with you," means he's controlling and you'll pass. You're right, you will be SINGLE for a LONG time.
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  189. 20:26 Don't just get off dating apps, get OFF toxic social media. 1st, You have MANY other women telling you what you need/want and how to think, instead of sitting down and actually figuring out what YOU need/want and looking for that person. 2nd, You are showing men they can't TRUST you to keep their PRIVATE LIVES, just that, PRIVATE, and without TRUST, you have nothing. 3rd, Going out in groups of women is going to take away most chances. Men don't want to approach groups of women because he has to impress them ALL, which he will NEVER do because the women not chosen will feel rejected and find any little thing wrong with him they can, and get you to see it their way. SINGLE women, keep other women SINGLE.
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  190. 15:35 Maybe it's because those "men" were raised by single mothers, who also don't know how to do those things so they can't teach them.
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  191. The consequences of YOUR actions. You told men to get away and they gave you what you asked for. Until you start holding yourselves accountable, men aren't coming back to put up with your delusional nonsense.
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  192. 13:26 Yes, it's good to sit down and figure out what you actually need and want in a man, but how about you go out into the real world and talk to actual men and ask them what they value in a woman. I think you'll find that even though ALL men are different, most of them value the same things in women they will commit to.
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  193. 7:35 "This is NOT up for discussion," as she proceeds to discuss it. 8:55 Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps or social media, he's out in the REAL WORLD. There's not that many good guys left because SMART women didn't listen to the BS advice from SINGLE women on toxic social media, they snatched up a good guy when they were younger, and other men are getting their passports and going to other countries to find agreeable FEMININE WOMEN. 17:15 HONESTLY, it would be nice if women just got over outer appearances and judged someone on their personal character, who they are on the inside.
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  194. 9:45 Although I like what Pearl says, I think she loses a lot of credibility with people because she advocating FOR men and women these days are supposed to be against them. 2nd, she talks about marriage when she's not married, so she doesn't have full context of what it is like, especially from the mans point of view, since she's not a man, and can't be talking from experience.
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  195. 18:25 Why do women insist they have EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION, when they can never just say what they want/mean, they just give subtle hints, say the opposite of what they mean and expect men to read their minds? Thank you though, you just PROVED women do NOT communicate EFFECTIVELY. Men don't pick up on hints because we use FACTS and LOGIC based in reality, and a feeling and hint inside YOUR head does not exist in reality.
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  196. 21:55 Why are you single? Let's start with you are showing you make poor life decisions, driving and recording a video, putting other people's lives in danger, for your own selfish needs to post a video. NOTHING you said couldn't have waited until you were parked. Being on toxic social media shows you will not keep HIS PRIVATE LIFE just that, PRIVATE, and you have thousands of other women telling YOU what YOU need/want in a partner, NOT what YOU ACTUALLY need. Men do NOT CARE what you FEEL you have to offer if it is nothing they VALUE in a woman, they do not care about your career, achievements, education, money, those are things YOU value in yourself, NOT what men value in a woman. They want to know what you have to offer to make THEIR lives easier, better, and more PEACEFUL.
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  197. 1:55 Look at the game "Concord", it took 8 years and around $200 MILLION to develop and focused on "pronouns" and wokeism. The game was cancelled in just 2 weeks and only grossed about $1 million. So many companies have gone bankrupt and people have lost their jobs because of wokeism and inclusivity being pushed in their work place.
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  198. 23:25 BOOHOO!!! Buck up buttercup, all this whining and yet you won't change, so neither will your situation. "It's no ones fault," YES IT IS, it is YOUR fault. The problem is staring you right in the face, YOU. You brought it upon yourself, and you ALONE have to fix it. All you said is "I need, I need, I need," and nothing about what you GIVE. "You get what you GIVE," if you're not receiving, it's because you aren't GIVING.
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  199. 3:26 Your opinion does NOT make it a fact, just because YOU believe it. Something verified to be always true for ALL people is a fact. If you admitted to YOUR mistakes, you could LEARN from them, and stop going out with the wrong guys. I'm doubting your doctoral credentials, a person's "worth" is what OTHER people deem it to be to them. It doesn't matter if a woman feels she's a 10, if no one else sees that in her, then she's not. A woman's "worth" to a man is what HE VALUES in a woman, if you don't possess that, then you are worthless to him. Take accountability or remain single.
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  200. 19:52 You are asking the wrong questions to yourself, otherwise you would have figured it out and fixed it. Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps, your future husband isn't on there.
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  201. How are men happier being single? Easy!! Men have grown up and been shown they're not appreciated, not felt wanted or needed, and don't receive compliments. Men don't need the constant validation, attention, and affirmations that women do. Men are used to being ignored and alone and can TRULY be happy by themselves.
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  202. 21:25 You get what you give. If you aren't showing your partner appreciation and reciprocating his time and efforts, then you don't get them in return. All you are doing is repeating the same thing every other SINGLE woman with no options is, "I want, I want, I want...," and nothing about what you are going to GIVE to EARN those things. You are showing men you are selfish and entitled, which means nothing but headaches, stress, drama, and no peace. Men don't care what you want, they want to know what you are going to GIVE to make their lives easier, better, and more peaceful, once you prove to him you will GIVE, he will go out of his way to give you everything you want.
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  203. "Corny and boring" = mature, stable, and healthy relationship. Women aren't interested in those guys until they are past their prime, "The Wall" is crushing them, and their biological clocks are ticking so loud it drives them insane and desperate, and now those guys are no longer interested in them. It's a vicious cycle and something has to give, and it won't be the men, their biological clocks have life long batteries that will never run out.
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  204. Women, STOP asking questions to the men. You don't actually want to hear the answer because they are going to tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear, so you're not going to listen.
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  205. 15:06 Talking about people having value, while you are recording a video while driving, putting other peoples lives at risk, for your enlightened epiphany. It shows you have poor judgement and make poor decisions.
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  206. 4:56 Proving why women fail on dates. They "What if" the sh** out of it and go with all these made up fairy tales in their head and expect specific responses, and when they don't get them, they don't know what to do. STOP making up FAKE scenarios in your head and all these expectations, just go with an open mind and see where it goes.
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  207. Perhaps they should think a little deeper on the "purse test" maybe it's seeing how willing you are to do something uncomfortable to you. Like being in a position to fire someone, would you be able to do it when you're uncomfortable with it. Maybe it's to see how trusting you are, if you're not trusting then you're not trustworthy. There are plenty of reasons for it outside of a woman feeling violated for it.
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  208. A woman on toxic social media is the biggest red flag of them all. She's listening to SINGLE women tell her what SHE wants/needs/deserves, instead of sitting down and figuring out what SHE actually needs. They are showing they won't keep your PRIVATE LIFE just that PRIVATE, and proving she is untrustworthy, and without TRUST, you have nothing.
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  209. There is no benefit for a man to have women "friends", regardless of what BS women give, why men should have female friends. If something isn't a benefit, that makes it a burden and she is going to place those burdens on you.
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  210. 23:05 It doesn't matter what other women want. You need to sit down, and be HONEST with yourself, and figure out what YOU need/want, then go out in the real world and find a man that is already that.
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  211. 20:20 The moment you mention "roster" you are PROVING to men you are unfaithful, disloyal, and untrustworthy. All the things MEN VALUE in a woman they will commit to. It's nice of you to show men right up front you are NOT wife material, you are for "fun" ONLY. Of course you and your friends are SINGLE, because single women keep other women single.
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  212. 13:35 Because they're not beautiful women!!! Outer beauty ONLY gets a mans attention and draws him to you, it is your INNER BEAUTY, your attitude, behaviors, personal character, that makes him decide if he will commit to you or not, and that is where those women are lacking. They can get his attention but can't keep him because they're not beautiful on the inside.
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  213. Social media is the quickest way to remain single. Once a man sees it, he believes you are going to post HIS PRIVATE LIFE on there for everyone else to see, and wants nothing to do with you. Prince Charming doesn't use social media or dating apps, he is out in the REAL WORLD.
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  214. 11:25 Because you showed him that you have a trait or don't possess a trait he values in a woman he will commit to. He knows you're not the one so why waste more time on you when he could be using it to find "THE ONE".
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  215. 2:45 That feeling you're having is your biological clock trying to WARN YOU, your time is running out. Stop being so superficial, selfish, and delusional, and find someone fast. The next warning is going to come fast and hit you hard when "The Wall" drops on you and stops you in your tracks. STOP LYING to yourself, "I'm OK with being alone," and "I don't want to think about being alone forever," contradicting yourself, and constantly talking about other people's relationships, shows you are NOT OK with being alone.
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  216. You would think women would realize by now they are at war with other women. They have the misandrists/feminists telling them all men are bad, and on the other side they have other women sabotaging them with the worst advice possible, because they see other women as competition. "Where have all the men gone?" They are at home, men do love a good fight, and they are just sitting back and watching women war with each other, waiting patiently for the victors.
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  217. 0:35 How about you STOP going on dates looking for red flags, if you do you are guaranteed to find them, even ones that don't actually exist. START going with an open mind and look for the positives. Looking for the negatives means YOU are a negative person and no one to be around. He already saw you were NOT "The One" so there was no reason to WASTE any more of his greatest commodity on you, TIME. Maybe you should stop and listen to yourself and other women and see just how ridiculously delusional what they say is.
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  218. Subtitles on already subtitled videos for the reading impaired, now you can read in stereo.
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  219. 10:15 Men didn't give up, they wisened up. The "good" men listened to what other men were telling them, got their passports and went to other countries where women are still feminine, traditional, and not gold diggers and 304's.
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  220. 7:15 So much cope for being rejected. Until you look in the mirror and say "What did I do that pushed him away," so you can fix it, get used to being rejected. I know accountability is kryptonite, and it's easier to get on toxic social media because you know there will be thousands of women validating your feelings and removing accountability from you, but until you start saying "I did..." instead of "He did," nothing will change and you will remain SINGLE. Newton's 3rd Law "For every action there is an equal and OPPOSITE REACTION," he is REACTING to YOUR actions, YOU ARE responsible. It's really simple, you got ghosted because you showed him a trait he is not willing to accept in a woman he will commit to. Since he knows he won't commit to you, you are no longer entitled to his time. TIME is the greatest commodity a person has to give, money/material things come and go, but time is finite, you only have so much of it on this Earth, why WASTE yours on someone you know there is no future with.
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  221. 29:55 "If you're a beautiful woman...," aren't they ALL. If ALL women are beautiful, then none are. The one thing you and other women on toxic social media prove, is not all women are intelligent, if not all of them are as ignorant and as ugly a person as you, then there are some out there that are intelligent and truly beautiful, where it matters, on the inside.
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  222. The problem with these women's "logic" is how many bears do they see daily vs men, of course having a higher encounter rate with men will produce more problems. But if they ventured into the woods and encountered 1 bear and it mauled her, then the bear would have a higher average at 100% deadly vs the THOUSANDS of men that don't pay her any attention.
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  223. 7:25 Have you ever stopped to think, what you feel you have to "offer" isn't what MEN VALUE in a woman they will commit to, which is why you're still single? It has nothing to do with "energy" and everything to do with looking approachable. Are you sitting there with a scowl on your face, are you looking around smiling, is your face buried in your phone? Also, men don't want to approach women in groups, because he will have to please ALL of the women, which is impossible because the women he didn't choose will feel rejected and find any little thing to complain about and talk the one he did pick into not being interested either. SINGLE women keeping other women SINGLE.
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  224. If these women TRULY wanted to find a man, they would STOP watching/listening to other women on toxic social media tell them what they need/want in a relationship. They obviously have no clue, or they wouldn't be SINGLE too. Women can NOT tell you how a man thinks and what they want/need in a partner, ONLY a MAN can. They would sit down and figure out what THEY ACTUALLY want/need and figure out what they have to offer that a MAN VALUES in a woman. START watching videos/reading comments from MEN, they have been saying EXACTLY what they will/won't accept and what THEY VALUE in a woman they will commit to, and most of them are saying they want the same things. There are NO subtle hints, no reading between the lines, if they say they want something, that is what they want and they're not going to change that. If a woman isn't what men are saying they value, she needs to change and fix herself to be it, or remain SINGLE and ALONE. Men are NOT going to change what they value for you.
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  225. 27:45 You heard her, stop going to strip clubs and "degrading" those women, so they lose their jobs and have no useful skills to offer a company to get another job.
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  226. 13:02 SIMPLE, the "prize" isn't worth pursuing any more.
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  227. 7:55 "I haven't found 1 man." In a huge city of THOUSANDS of men? So YOU are the problem!!
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  228. You would think women would realize by now they are at war with other WOMEN. They have the misandrists/feminists telling them all men are bad, and on the other side they have other women sabotaging them because they see other women as competition and know they can't compete with younger, prettier, more fertile, traditional ones, so they are giving them the worst advice possible to take them out of the competition, to give themselves a fighting chance. "Where have all the men gone?" They are at home, men do love a good fight, and they are just sitting back and watching women war with each other, waiting patiently for the victors.
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  229. They see that engagement ring as a back up investment plan. WHEN they leave they can sell the ring and have money, the more expensive the ring, the more they will have.
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  230. 3:36 Prostitution definition: the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment. Brian is correct, YOU ARE a prostitute for withholding sex for payment.
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  231. 4:35 "Validated, validated, validated." Needing your life decisions "validated" shows deep down inside you know you are making the wrong decisions, and rather than put in the time, effort, and hard work to change and grow to be a better person, someone else validating your poor choices lets you take the easy way out and feel you are doing what's right and not put in any work to change. But in a few years, you'll still be SINGLE whining on social media you can't find anyone.
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  232. Adding captions on an already captioned video doesn't make it stereo, just annoying. If you need to add captions, perhaps it's saying YOU don't speak clearly enough for others to understand you.
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  233. Women, you can STOP asking questions to men. Men have been telling you long enough for you to get it in your heads. They have been telling you EXACTLY what they will/won't accept in a woman they will commit to, no subtle hints, and no reading between the lines. YOU aren't listening to them because you don't truly care, because the men are brutally honest and tell you what you NEED to hear, not coddling you with what you WANT to hear. Go ask your questions to women that will lie to you and you can all remain SINGLE and ALONE together.
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