Comments by "Eric Taylor" (@ejtaylor73) on "Shes left ALONE after this Tik Tok.." video.
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Men, when a woman has a problem DO NOT listen to it!!! A man's natural inclination is to solve a problem when he hears it, that is NOT what a woman is looking for when she tells you her problem. She wants to talk about it, she does NOT want you to fix it for her.
Instead of just fixing the problem, she needs to add as much drama to it as she can to make it seem like a far bigger problem than it is, and she wants to tell as many people as possible, so that when SHE solves her seemingly HUGE problem, she can tell all those people SHE solved it and they will give her accolades for fixing it, and give her the attention and validation she needs. The more people she tells and the bigger the problem supposedly was, the more accolades, attention and validation she gets, and the more power she feels she has. If she tells a man her problem, and then she solves it, she feels as though you are weaker than she is.
Women deep down KNOW they ARE the weaker sex which is why they NEED that constant attention and validation, to prove to themselves they are important and not weak, the more attention and validation they get, the stronger they feel. A woman ONLY wants a man to tell her his problems so she can try to fix it for him as quick as possible, because then she gets to tell everyone else that she fixed his problem and receives the validation she NEEDS.
Women, men do NOT tell you their problems, not because they are insensitive or don't care. They don't tell you because they don't need or want you filling their head with all your drama and irrational BS based off of YOUR FEELINGS. YOUR FEELINGS will NOT solve HIS problem!!! A man will work through his own problem logically and rationally using FACTS, NOT his or your FEELINGS.
Women, you do NOT communicate clearly with men, you may feel you do, but you DON'T. Men work in reality, NOT the fantasy land inside your head. When you tell a man "I'm fine," he trusts you and takes you for your word and believes you are "fine" and will carry on with what he's doing. Women think with emotions and feelings, men think with facts, logic and rational thought WITHOUT emotions and feelings. That's why neither of the sexes fully understand each others way of thinking. Men and women are on 2 different levels of thinking.
Men, your ONLY choices are either DO NOT listen to her problem or solve it IMMEDIATELY!!!
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