Comments by "Eric Taylor" (@ejtaylor73) on "Woman gets Disowned by her Family for her Content" video.
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3:02 STOP with the tests!!! You're not in high school any more, get over the drama BS and grow up already. One day YOU are going to fail your own test and he's going to walk away. Men don't want to play your mind games, it's called effective communication, open your mouth and say exactly what it is you are thinking.
3:17 1st, Good for you for getting out in the REAL WORLD to look for a partner. 2nd, Also good for you for changing your outfit, unfortunately still to skimpy and desperate, and lose those sunglasses they look ridiculous on you. 3rd, Don't go some place you have no knowledge of, if you found a man in a sports bar he's going to assume you watch sports regularly and that's what he will want to do with you and you'll get tired of sports if you don't actually watch them.
Lastly, since you seem like a genuinely nice lady and putting in the effort trying, here's a bonus for you. Ever hear the saying "The way to a mans heart is through his stomach?" Men have to eat, and single ones have to do their own grocery shopping. BUT, men know what they are there for, they get in, get it, and get out, they don't walk around looking at every item (It would be better if you actually need to buy some groceries too). Try a grocery store around 9p.m., that's when there are less people to hinder him from his mission, all the old people and kids are in bed and too early for the annoying drunks, he can get in and get out. Now comes the hard part, dress DOWN in something like sweats, LOOSE jeans, or a LOOSE long dress (At least to the knees, key word is LOOSE), it shows him you can relax and be comfortable and not out advertising your body to the world, remember for a man, his wife/GF's body is meant for HIS EYES ONLY. Also, men love a good mystery and wondering what mysteries you are hiding under those clothes is definitely one he wants to pursue, don't give away the plot by wearing skimpy clothes that show him everything you have to offer. Next, NO MAKE-UP, let him see who he is ACTUALLY looking at, have that fresh out of the shower look. NO make-up, NO FAKE nails, NO FAKE eyelashes, those things are all for the woman to feel better about herself, men see it as high maintenance and nothing but stress, drama, and problems, "I like those FAKE eyelashes," said NO MAN EVER!!! A man will take a NATURAL 5 with a personality over a FAKE 10 buried under make-up and a bad attitude. Now that you have yourself all done up, or in this case DOWN, and you're at the store, MOST IMPORTANTLY, TURN YOUR PHONE OFF and put it away!!! He sees that phone and he will believe you are recording him to post on toxic social media trying to make him look bad. Look in places men go, NOT where YOU would go, like bread, sandwich fixings, cereal, foods he can make quickly, he's been working all day so when he gets home he wants something he can make fast so he can sit and relax. Remember his mission is to get in and get out, he doesn't want to be annoyed. NO, you don't need any kind of pick up lines or need to be funny, just be yourself, let him see who you TRULY are on the inside because what a man VALUES in a woman he will commit to comes from within. Now when you see a possibility, BEFORE approaching him take notice of what type of items are in front of him and in his cart/basket. Now approach QUIETLY and DO NOT try to tell him what brand/items you like, HE DOESN'T CARE, he doesn't know you and you are interfering with his mission and will just annoy him. If you're not tall enough to reach the top shelf, use the "damsel in distress" approach and ask him POLITELY if he minds helping you get an item from the top shelf, it shows him you can be submissive and let him be the man to solve your problems. If you're tall, then walk over next to him and POLITELY say "Excuse me, I just need to grab this item real quick," get it and WALK AWAY without saying anything else to him, he WILL be checking you out as you walk away, and now you have put that mystery in his head that he needs to solve. Walk around for a bit and "accidentally" end up in another aisle he's in, if you're lucky and he's interested he will now say something to you 1st, if he's more reserved/shy, this is when you say something to him, DO NOT try to say something funny, most men don't find women as funny as they feel they are, just keep it simple and casual, DO NOT make any reference to him following you, because you just labeled him a stalker/predator (Same thing if he sees your phone) and he is instantly turned off and will be leaving the store immediately. Since you did your homework earlier and noticed what's in his cart, you can say something like "I see you have ____, what's your favorite dish to make," short, simple and shows him you have taken an interest in what HE LIKES and that you are interested in him because no one cares what food others make if they're not interested, and he should pursue you further. NOW comes another hard part, ACTUALLY LISTEN to what he is saying and take it for face value, STOP thinking about it from a woman's point of view, he is not speaking in code, there are no ulterior motives, you have made him feel relaxed around you and he's saying what he actually means. After he tells you what dish he makes, you can say something like "That sounds good, never thought of using ___ in that," (ONLY say it if it's TRUE), what you just told him is you want him to make that dish for you, more importantly, you aren't masculine that you can be the lady that he wants to pamper and spoil by giving her a break to relax while he cooks for her. YES, men can and do enjoy cooking and see it as a way to spoil a woman, they enjoy it more than going out to a restaurant. If a man does cook for you, STAY OUT OF THE KITCHEN and DO NOT try to give him advice, he's been making it long enough to know what he is doing. DO NOT make it about YOU, if the word "I" comes out of your mouth, you just showed him you are selfish and self centered and don't care about what he has to say. The ONLY time you should talk about you is to answer questions he has asked you, BE HONEST, a lie destroys TRUST and without TRUST you have nothing. After a SHORT conversation with him, remember he has a mission to accomplish, the longer the conversation is, the more annoyed he will get because you are stopping him from accomplishing that mission. Say something like "I'm sure you're in a hurry so I don't want to keep you any longer," and start to walk away, if he definitely is interested he will ask you for your contact info, DO NOT play stupid little high school drama queen mind games or try to play hard to get, he is on a mission and if you say or do anything other than give him your contact info you have turned him off. If he's still not sure of your interest he won't, this is where you need to push a BIT harder. DO NOT mention another woman by saying something like "I guess you need to get home to your wife," you labeled him as a player that means you are (Takes one to know one) and if he's looking for a serious relationship he's not interested in a promiscuous woman. After a few steps if he says nothing, turn around and say "I was just thinking about that dish you mentioned and it sounds really good, I'll have to look up a recipe for it," you're showing him your interest because you were still thinking about him as you were leaving and you've given him the opening to offer to make it for you some time or give you his recipe and he will ask for your contact info. After you have exchanged contact info, WAIT, DO NOT contact him 1st, he was genuinely interested in you and WILL contact you but needs time to think about and set things up for a date. When he contacts you, you need to be open and accept what ever he suggests (Date/time/place), if you're truly busy tell him you are and why and he will already have a back-up date ready and suggest that instead. DO NOT suggest a date/time/place unless he asks you, you MUST accept one of those dates otherwise you are showing him you are difficult to deal with, you aren't going to allow him to lead you, and are too busy to give him your attention and to be in a relationship. If you are busy on either of those dates, CANCEL whatever it is, tell him "I had plans for __ date, but I can cancel it and can go with you," you showed him HE is more important to you than whatever you had planned and you want to be with him. Now comes another hard part, DO NOT dig for more information on the date, other than what type of clothing you should wear, NO, this isn't about him "controlling" you, ask him "What should I wear so I can dress appropriately for the occasion." (Remember, if he's truly interested, he believes your body should be for HIS EYES ONLY). After finding out how to dress, LEAVE IT AT THAT, let the date be a mystery, you won't go into it with EXPECTATIONS and you won't be let down because he didn't meet them, you will be genuinely surprised with whatever the date was. You are also showing him you trust him to be the man and lead you. A man is a direct reflection of the woman by his side and RESPECT is everything to a man, if you are dressed like a street walker and he takes you some where nice, no one will see him as respectable because of you, and he will lose interest. Good luck Dear, I hope you find what you are looking for, assuming you have actually sat down and figured that out.
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