Comments by "Eric Taylor" (@ejtaylor73) on "GriffinMind"
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3:17 The trad wife gets a LOT of hate from every other woman out there. Personally, I think those other women are completely stupid, working 8 hours day, paying their own bills, SINGLE, doing everything on their own. While the trad wife gets to stay at home, and works maybe 30 minutes - 1 hour a day, doing some MINOR upkeep on cleaning, laundry doesn't need to be done every day, but when it does the machine does everything. If she's efficient, she puts a load in the washer, takes 30 minutes to clean the rest of the house, puts the clothes in the dryer then has an hour to sit and relax until dryer is done, fold and put away the clothes and her day is done until dinner time. Her husband pays all the bills, takes care of the other things she can't like repairs and yard work. Because she has made his home a peaceful and happy place that he wants to go to, he goes out of his way to provide for her and do the little things that make her happy. He also see's she put in time and effort to clean the house, so he will try not to make a mess, or clean it up if he does to show his appreciation for what she does.
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"What do I do when a guy ghosts me?" 1st you ask a GUY for advice NOT a woman, she has no clue what a MAN REALLY thinks, 2nd you take the hint and get over him, he KNOWS what traits he wants in a woman and is NOT going to change for you, and you displayed 1 or more traits he does NOT want in a woman and he is moving on to find one that has what he wants. STOP dating guys thinking you are going to change them to what you want, because you don't know what you want and will never know when you found it. Until you figure out what you TRULY want in a guy, you will continue looking for ones to "fix" to fit what you want today, tomorrow, and every other day, it's exhausting for the guy, and he'll lose interest FAST. Stop looking for a guy to fix, and start looking for one that is already what you want, but you need to know what you want 1st. A guy has already thought about what TRAITS he wants in a woman he will commit to, and he's NOT going to change that for you, if you don't possess those traits he is NOT going to try to change you, he is going to move on to find a woman that does possess them, he's not going to try to fix you to meet his needs. There's a MAN'S advice to you ladies on what to do.
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Great to see longer videos, those few minutes in other ones just wasn't enough. If the NBA stopped paying alimony to the WNBA it would have FAILED LONG ago. I think the main reason social media has made dating harder now is because everyone wants to impart their own feelings into other people's relationships, and some of these women aren't smart enough to realize, misery loves company, and all these wall hitting SINGLES are doing is giving bad advice and inviting them to come join them at the lonely table. Everyone has a voice now, but not all of those voices should be heard. A woman should STOP listening to everyone else, it is HER LIFE and SHE needs to decide what is right for her, NO ONE else can tell her that. Women can't go for what they "like" because they don't know what it is they like, they want a different man to suit THEIR mood at that time. If a "nice guy" is boring, maybe its because YOU aren't showing any interest in what he likes, if you did you would see how excited he is to discuss and teach you about it, but you're too self centered to care what other people are interested in, it's all about you.
On a separate note I took the W in my divorce, never even went to court for it. Her lawyer TRIED to act like he held all the cards too bad for him my lawyer was playing hardball with a high pressure gas powered bat. My ex was a SAHM, no job, no way of financially supporting herself or our 2 kids, no car, all her clothes I paid for, everything was mine, and she committed adultery. Her lawyer had nothing to stand on. My ex-wife walked away with nothing but her clothes, the 2 kids (Although it was joint custody) and $300 child support a month, no alimony, no car, nothing. The ONLY reason she had custody of the kids is because I thought it was better, being military moving around a lot and being deployed for 6 months 5 times wasn't a stable way for kids to grow up. She thought the grass was greener on the other side, the guy she cheated with and got married to told her he was in the military too, he failed to tell her he was a Guardsmen and not full time so he wasn't making as much as I was. The green grass she THOUGHT she saw was nothing but a mirage and she was left in a barren desert wasteland devoid of any vegetation at all.
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3:37 I've said it many times, women don't want to see other women have what they don't have. If a woman finds a man that makes her happy, her "friends" will do all they can to break them up, if they aren't happy, you can't be happy. I've also said women give FAKE support to other women by LYING to them and ONLY telling them what they WANT to hear, NOT what they NEED to hear. TRUE support is telling someone their problems so they know and can fix it.
6:32 Women having too many options is a bad thing because she needs to put her emotions and feelings into everything, your FEELINGS will NEVER solve a problem. She will sit and "what if" those options to death and NEVER make a decision. You always FEEL you can do better so you won't settle for any option. That is exactly why women need a man to LEAD her. He uses facts, logic, rational thoughts based in reality to make decisions WITHOUT emotions and feelings, and no matter how many options he is presented with, he will narrow it down and find the best choice of those options.
Women, if you say "You know your worth" then you would have no problems answering the question "What do YOU bring to the table," because that is what your worth or VALUE is to a man. If you can't or won't answer that question you have NO "WORTH" or VALUE to a man and you're NOT the prize. It DOES NOT MATTER what YOU think your worth is, if no man believes you are then your worth is NOT what you feel it is, and you will be SINGLE and ALONE. And NO, you are NOT the table!!! ANY woman saying that does NOT know her worth because she can't think of anything she has of value for a man. A man has already built a strong sturdy table, he doesn't need you to bring one, he wants you to fill HIS table. You can take your table and go sit in the corner with all the other LONELY SINGLE women and their tables.
You think calling men narcissists is the be all end all reply, but you're ONLY showing deflection.
Narcissist:
1. An extremely self-centered person who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance. That's right women "Know your worth," "I am the table," "I am the prize," "I'm a queen," are ALL narcissistic.
2. A person who is overly concerned with his or her physical appearance. Women buried under make-up, FAKE eyelashes, FAKE nails, tight skimpy clothes, expensive material objects.
Guess that means the REAL narcissists are WOMEN!!!
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1:02 That's the woman that couldn't get out of a chair and walk 5 steps and 1 step up onto a scale without help. But hey, body positivity right.
3:06 EXACTLY. When a woman has a problem all she wants to do is TALK about it to anyone and everyone, the more people that know her problem the better. When SHE solves it, she gets to tell everyone how great she is for solving her problem to get attention from them. If she tells a man and he solves it then all her attention is taken away, which is why they won't listen. Women, if you have a problem, talk to one of your girlfriends, they are equipped to give the emotional support you are looking for. A man is biologically wired to FIX problems, when you want your problem fixed immediately, talk to a man. Think of it as a spider, do you just want to talk about that spider or do you want the problem solved? If you want to talk, tell a woman, you want it solved tell a man and he will kill it. Men, you only have 2 options, either don't listen to her problem at all, or fix it immediately. You fix it, she'll stop coming to you with her problems, because you are taking away all her attention.
4:27 WAIT!!!! That's why there's a dozen pillows on the bed? All be damned, guess I need to run to the store and get more pillows.
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7:12 WRAP IT UP!!! You ever think all that rambling on bored the sh** out of him? Women, you have about 10 words to state EXACTLY what you want before a man's mind has wandered off to something else. No subtle hints, no beating around the bush and rambling, no stories, just state EXACTLY what it is. If you say "Today I was cleaning the kitchen and I noticed the trash was almost full, and was wondering if you could take it out," TOO LATE, you WASTED your 10 words on all the rambling BS and his mind wandered off and never heard you ask him to take it out. You never actually asked him to either, wondering is NOT asking. What little he heard was the trash is ALMOST full, in other words it is not a priority right now and he'll get to it when it is full. If you want him to take the trash out leave all the BS out of it and simply say "Can you please take the trash out now." Under 10 words and you stated EXACTLY what you wanted him to do and when to do it, and the trash would be taken out.
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Gender reveals are the stupidest thing ever!!!! My background is a pic I took when deployed to Africa of a lion eating a dead gazelle, no woman rates high enough to replace the king in my background.
As a retired veteran, I don't think it's disrespectful to not want to be with a military member, it takes a special kind of woman to handle it. It had NOTHING to do with him being in the Army, because he's not in any more. I think the one guy was correct, she knows she was over weight and he would reject her, so she rejected him 1st. Him being in the military (PAST tense) was just an excuse to not admit her own insecurities with her weight.
"I FEEL I was raised to be a wife." MEN DO NOT CARE HOW YOU FEEL, what are you physically doing to PROVE you are wife material to him. A man decides your "value" to HIM by what you will ADD to HIS life. "What's going on" Ever hear the saying "Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it?" Thank all your feminists, modern women, hot girl summers, gold diggers, independent boss bit*** and ho*s for it, they got what they wished for and now ALL women get to reap the consequences of it.
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I've perfected stoic thanks to my EX-wife and being in a war zone. She lies more than Trump does, and she's just as bad and obvious when she's doing it. She would tell a lie expecting a reaction, if she didn't get one she would embellish on that lie continually until she got a reaction from you. Knowing it was all a lie, I didn't react AT ALL, and she would get pissed off and say I didn't love her because I didn't react. She's my EX-wife because she cheated and filed for divorce while I was deployed to Afghanistan. Unfortunately for her everything was in my name, I had the job, car, house, and she had nothing but what I provided for her. Her lawyer TRIED to play hardball, but didn't have a leg to stand on. In the end we BOTH agreed on a divorce settlement, she left with ONLY what she had, meaning her clothes and the 2 kids which we had joint custody of, and I ONLY paid $300 a month in child support for 2 kids. Also since she sucks at math and didn't calculate properly, she didn't get alimony, because where the divorce was filed we had to be married 5 years to get alimony, she filed 2 months too early 🤣
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What is the friend zone?
The friend zone is a shed women put tools in to fulfill a specific job when she decides to use them. This guy is too nice and happy, in the shed he goes, this guy is too emotional, in the shed he goes, this guy is to uppity and motivated, in the shed he goes, and on and on. Today she's feeling good and happy, let's pull out Mr. Nice Guy to go hang out because he'll make her happy all day. Tomorrow she's sad and upset, time to pull out Mr. Emotional to sympathize and give her a shoulder to cry on. The next day she's worried or nervous, let's pull Mr. Motivated to give her a pep talk to build up her confidence and give her the push she needs to move forward. Each tool in the shed has a specific job to fulfill a hole in her life, and NONE of those tools will EVER be used to fill the hole between her legs, because that's not their job, that's Chad's job. When Chad does a bad job, it's the tools in the shed that are there to fix it. The more a tool is used, the more worthless it becomes, after she uses you too many times, you have no more value to her and she will discard you and get a new tool to replace you.
Guys, GET OUT OF THE SHED!!! Go find the one lady that possesses ALL of the TRAITS you already know you want in a lady. The one lady you will commit to being the one multi-tool she can use and depend on to accomplish ALL of her jobs.
Ladies, "Where have all the 'good' men gone," exactly where you put them, in the friend zone. It's past time you STOP taking dating and relationship advice from 40+ SINGLE women on social media, they obviously don't have a clue, "Misery loves company," and they're just inviting you to come dine with them at the table of misery and loneliness. You need to sit down and actually figure out what YOU want in a man. You'll NEVER know when you have found what you are looking for if you don't know what you want. I'm sure you've all heard, and maybe said it yourself, "If you combine these guys together, you would have the perfect man." That's because each of those guys has a trait you want in a man, just like all those tools you have in your shed. Your perfect man is in your tool shed. Sit down and take all those tools out, figure out and write down what job you USE each of them for and you will know what TRAIT they have that you want in a man, combine them together and there's the man you want. STOP looking for guys to fix up and change to fit your needs, he will NOT CHANGE!!! A man has already thought long and hard about what TRAITS he wants in a woman, and he isn't going to change that, if you don't have all of those traits, he WILL NOT commit to you, stop wasting your time trying to change him. Your next big hurdle is to STOP looking for him with your eyes, TRAITS are on the inside and can't be seen from the outside. A date isn't about you getting a free meal, it's about getting to know the man for WHO HE IS on the inside, to see if he has the traits you want. You find that man that has all the traits from each tool in your shed, and you will have a multi-tool, the ONLY man you will need to fulfill ALL your needs and wants.
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Men, when a woman has a problem DO NOT listen to it!!! A man's natural inclination is to solve a problem when he hears it, that is NOT what a woman is looking for when she tells you her problem. She wants to talk about it, she does NOT want you to fix it for her.
Instead of just fixing the problem, she needs to add as much drama to it as she can to make it seem like a far bigger problem than it is, and she wants to tell as many people as possible, so that when SHE solves her seemingly HUGE problem, she can tell all those people SHE solved it and they will give her accolades for fixing it, and give her the attention and validation she needs. The more people she tells and the bigger the problem supposedly was, the more accolades, attention and validation she gets, and the more power she feels she has. If she tells a man her problem, and then she solves it, she feels as though you are weaker than she is.
Women deep down KNOW they ARE the weaker sex which is why they NEED that constant attention and validation, to prove to themselves they are important and not weak, the more attention and validation they get, the stronger they feel. A woman ONLY wants a man to tell her his problems so she can try to fix it for him as quick as possible, because then she gets to tell everyone else that she fixed his problem and receives the validation she NEEDS.
Women, men do NOT tell you their problems, not because they are insensitive or don't care. They don't tell you because they don't need or want you filling their head with all your drama and irrational BS based off of YOUR FEELINGS. YOUR FEELINGS will NOT solve HIS problem!!! A man will work through his own problem logically and rationally using FACTS, NOT his or your FEELINGS.
Women, you do NOT communicate clearly with men, you may feel you do, but you DON'T. Men work in reality, NOT the fantasy land inside your head. When you tell a man "I'm fine," he trusts you and takes you for your word and believes you are "fine" and will carry on with what he's doing. Women think with emotions and feelings, men think with facts, logic and rational thought WITHOUT emotions and feelings. That's why neither of the sexes fully understand each others way of thinking. Men and women are on 2 different levels of thinking.
Men, your ONLY choices are either DO NOT listen to her problem or solve it IMMEDIATELY!!!
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2:58 Proving she's just jumping on the train and has no clue where it's going, just going along with all the buzzwords every other woman on toxic social media throws out there, just so she can feel a part of something, and doesn't know what they actually mean. I would argue misogyny doesn't actually exist (Merriam-Webster Definition: HATRED of, aversion to, or prejudice against women). Men do NOT HATE women, what they hate is their attitudes, behaviors, delusional mindset, but they don't HATE women, so they do not meet the definition, so it doesn't exist.
6:43 Women need to get it in their heads, men do NOT want to approach women in groups. He will have to impress ALL of them, which is impossible because the ones that he didn't choose will feel rejected and find any little thing they can to complain about him to make the one that was chosen feel she can do better than him, and ALL of them will remain SINGLE.
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3:02 STOP with the tests!!! You're not in high school any more, get over the drama BS and grow up already. One day YOU are going to fail your own test and he's going to walk away. Men don't want to play your mind games, it's called effective communication, open your mouth and say exactly what it is you are thinking.
3:17 1st, Good for you for getting out in the REAL WORLD to look for a partner. 2nd, Also good for you for changing your outfit, unfortunately still to skimpy and desperate, and lose those sunglasses they look ridiculous on you. 3rd, Don't go some place you have no knowledge of, if you found a man in a sports bar he's going to assume you watch sports regularly and that's what he will want to do with you and you'll get tired of sports if you don't actually watch them.
Lastly, since you seem like a genuinely nice lady and putting in the effort trying, here's a bonus for you. Ever hear the saying "The way to a mans heart is through his stomach?" Men have to eat, and single ones have to do their own grocery shopping. BUT, men know what they are there for, they get in, get it, and get out, they don't walk around looking at every item (It would be better if you actually need to buy some groceries too). Try a grocery store around 9p.m., that's when there are less people to hinder him from his mission, all the old people and kids are in bed and too early for the annoying drunks, he can get in and get out. Now comes the hard part, dress DOWN in something like sweats, LOOSE jeans, or a LOOSE long dress (At least to the knees, key word is LOOSE), it shows him you can relax and be comfortable and not out advertising your body to the world, remember for a man, his wife/GF's body is meant for HIS EYES ONLY. Also, men love a good mystery and wondering what mysteries you are hiding under those clothes is definitely one he wants to pursue, don't give away the plot by wearing skimpy clothes that show him everything you have to offer. Next, NO MAKE-UP, let him see who he is ACTUALLY looking at, have that fresh out of the shower look. NO make-up, NO FAKE nails, NO FAKE eyelashes, those things are all for the woman to feel better about herself, men see it as high maintenance and nothing but stress, drama, and problems, "I like those FAKE eyelashes," said NO MAN EVER!!! A man will take a NATURAL 5 with a personality over a FAKE 10 buried under make-up and a bad attitude. Now that you have yourself all done up, or in this case DOWN, and you're at the store, MOST IMPORTANTLY, TURN YOUR PHONE OFF and put it away!!! He sees that phone and he will believe you are recording him to post on toxic social media trying to make him look bad. Look in places men go, NOT where YOU would go, like bread, sandwich fixings, cereal, foods he can make quickly, he's been working all day so when he gets home he wants something he can make fast so he can sit and relax. Remember his mission is to get in and get out, he doesn't want to be annoyed. NO, you don't need any kind of pick up lines or need to be funny, just be yourself, let him see who you TRULY are on the inside because what a man VALUES in a woman he will commit to comes from within. Now when you see a possibility, BEFORE approaching him take notice of what type of items are in front of him and in his cart/basket. Now approach QUIETLY and DO NOT try to tell him what brand/items you like, HE DOESN'T CARE, he doesn't know you and you are interfering with his mission and will just annoy him. If you're not tall enough to reach the top shelf, use the "damsel in distress" approach and ask him POLITELY if he minds helping you get an item from the top shelf, it shows him you can be submissive and let him be the man to solve your problems. If you're tall, then walk over next to him and POLITELY say "Excuse me, I just need to grab this item real quick," get it and WALK AWAY without saying anything else to him, he WILL be checking you out as you walk away, and now you have put that mystery in his head that he needs to solve. Walk around for a bit and "accidentally" end up in another aisle he's in, if you're lucky and he's interested he will now say something to you 1st, if he's more reserved/shy, this is when you say something to him, DO NOT try to say something funny, most men don't find women as funny as they feel they are, just keep it simple and casual, DO NOT make any reference to him following you, because you just labeled him a stalker/predator (Same thing if he sees your phone) and he is instantly turned off and will be leaving the store immediately. Since you did your homework earlier and noticed what's in his cart, you can say something like "I see you have ____, what's your favorite dish to make," short, simple and shows him you have taken an interest in what HE LIKES and that you are interested in him because no one cares what food others make if they're not interested, and he should pursue you further. NOW comes another hard part, ACTUALLY LISTEN to what he is saying and take it for face value, STOP thinking about it from a woman's point of view, he is not speaking in code, there are no ulterior motives, you have made him feel relaxed around you and he's saying what he actually means. After he tells you what dish he makes, you can say something like "That sounds good, never thought of using ___ in that," (ONLY say it if it's TRUE), what you just told him is you want him to make that dish for you, more importantly, you aren't masculine that you can be the lady that he wants to pamper and spoil by giving her a break to relax while he cooks for her. YES, men can and do enjoy cooking and see it as a way to spoil a woman, they enjoy it more than going out to a restaurant. If a man does cook for you, STAY OUT OF THE KITCHEN and DO NOT try to give him advice, he's been making it long enough to know what he is doing. DO NOT make it about YOU, if the word "I" comes out of your mouth, you just showed him you are selfish and self centered and don't care about what he has to say. The ONLY time you should talk about you is to answer questions he has asked you, BE HONEST, a lie destroys TRUST and without TRUST you have nothing. After a SHORT conversation with him, remember he has a mission to accomplish, the longer the conversation is, the more annoyed he will get because you are stopping him from accomplishing that mission. Say something like "I'm sure you're in a hurry so I don't want to keep you any longer," and start to walk away, if he definitely is interested he will ask you for your contact info, DO NOT play stupid little high school drama queen mind games or try to play hard to get, he is on a mission and if you say or do anything other than give him your contact info you have turned him off. If he's still not sure of your interest he won't, this is where you need to push a BIT harder. DO NOT mention another woman by saying something like "I guess you need to get home to your wife," you labeled him as a player that means you are (Takes one to know one) and if he's looking for a serious relationship he's not interested in a promiscuous woman. After a few steps if he says nothing, turn around and say "I was just thinking about that dish you mentioned and it sounds really good, I'll have to look up a recipe for it," you're showing him your interest because you were still thinking about him as you were leaving and you've given him the opening to offer to make it for you some time or give you his recipe and he will ask for your contact info. After you have exchanged contact info, WAIT, DO NOT contact him 1st, he was genuinely interested in you and WILL contact you but needs time to think about and set things up for a date. When he contacts you, you need to be open and accept what ever he suggests (Date/time/place), if you're truly busy tell him you are and why and he will already have a back-up date ready and suggest that instead. DO NOT suggest a date/time/place unless he asks you, you MUST accept one of those dates otherwise you are showing him you are difficult to deal with, you aren't going to allow him to lead you, and are too busy to give him your attention and to be in a relationship. If you are busy on either of those dates, CANCEL whatever it is, tell him "I had plans for __ date, but I can cancel it and can go with you," you showed him HE is more important to you than whatever you had planned and you want to be with him. Now comes another hard part, DO NOT dig for more information on the date, other than what type of clothing you should wear, NO, this isn't about him "controlling" you, ask him "What should I wear so I can dress appropriately for the occasion." (Remember, if he's truly interested, he believes your body should be for HIS EYES ONLY). After finding out how to dress, LEAVE IT AT THAT, let the date be a mystery, you won't go into it with EXPECTATIONS and you won't be let down because he didn't meet them, you will be genuinely surprised with whatever the date was. You are also showing him you trust him to be the man and lead you. A man is a direct reflection of the woman by his side and RESPECT is everything to a man, if you are dressed like a street walker and he takes you some where nice, no one will see him as respectable because of you, and he will lose interest. Good luck Dear, I hope you find what you are looking for, assuming you have actually sat down and figured that out.
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A "good" woman doesn't put herself in situations where her faithfulness, loyalty, and trustworthines would be put in question. Don't let her guilt you with that insecure BS, throw it right back at her, and say "So when you say I'm insecure, you're saying you already plan on cheating because insecurities wouldn't even be thought about if you weren't." You can turn any "SIGN" language she uses right back against her.
If I wanted politics injected, I would go to a political channel. I'm not left, I'm not right, I'm not middle, I choose FACTS, logical/rational thought, reality, and common sense to determine whether I agree/disagree with someone, not a made up LABEL to put people into a neat little category box like little sheep. I gave 20 years of my life in the military to protect the rights of ALL people, I may not agree with what they say/do, but I can respect their right to their opinion. If I disagree with someone's opinions/ideologies/lifestyle/behaviors, I have the right and can choose to walk away and not associate with them, I don't have to agree and accept their way of life. What I don't respect and they do NOT have the right to do is try to FORCE others to accept/believe/abide by THEIR ideologies/agendas/beliefs/lifestyles, their rights end where another persons begins. If you want to identify as a unicorn, then go be the best damn unicorn you can be, ALONE or with like minded people, and leave everyone else out of it, NO ONE else needs to believe and treat you like a unicorn. One thing I will definitely disagree on is a MAN that wants to pretend/FEEL he's a woman walking into WOMEN's lockerooms/bathrooms. You DO NOT have the right to walk your di*k into a WOMAN'S space and make them feel uncomfortable, because like it or not, your rights end when it causes harm to another person. If you're uncomfortable walking into the men's room, how uncomfortable do you think you are making actual women feel when you walk into their "safe space". You have the right to free speech, with restrictions, you can't walk into a theater and yell "FIRE", your right to free speech ends because it puts other people in harm's way. Making everything political, religious, "woke" BS is why the country and people are so divided and hateful, "UNITED We Stand, DIVIDED We Fall" and society is falling faster and faster by the day, we don't need a meteor or a "Great Flood" to wipe out humanity, we're doing it to ourselves already.
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I guess I'm a rarity, thanks Griffin for saying I'm special. I was raised by a single mom, being an old fart, this was LONG ago though, before all this woke BS came about. But I'm not a "soy boy" or a "bad boy", maybe because I had to grow up quick and take care of myself because my mom worked 12 - 14 hours a day to make ends meet. I use logic, rational thought, critical thinking, and common sense devoid of emotions to make decisions. I learned how to take care of myself (Cooking, cleaning, laundry, sewing, yard work, maintenance/repairs, etc.), I had a work ethic instilled in me (had 2 jobs by the time I was 8, under the table of course), joined the Air Force at 17 and retired after 20 years, I'm brutally honest, I'm not going to tell you what you WANT to hear, I'm going to tell you what you NEED to hear regardless of how it makes you FEEL. My mind set is determined and adapted to the current situation, I can be stoic or joke around, I can be serious or just have fun, I can give an ear to yell at to vent or a shoulder to cry on or slap you across the face and tell you to wake TF up. I don't GAS if people want to be woke or part of the "Alphabet Community", just go do it with like minded people and don't try to force it on me.
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I can cook, bake, clean, laundry, iron, sew, do dishes, yard work, house repairs, I even do windows, I can do things expected of an adult too. What else do you have to offer?
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If you lead with your wallet, that is all a woman will see you as. Just get your pin tattooed on your forehead.
0:07 You say you have a problem being online while being online to say that, the irony is lost. Acknowledging a problem exists is the 1st step, but it's useless if you don't do anything to fix that problem. Turn your phone OFF and walk outside.
1:12 Candace Owens needs to figure out which side of the fence she wants to be on, either give positive message or continue pushing the BS at the Daily wire.
2:57 NO SYMPATHY for childless women, they brought it upon themselves. They KNOW they have a LIMITED supply of eggs, HALF of that supply is gone by age 30, and when that supply is gone their time is up. "Fail to plan for your future, you plan to fail in the future," proving to be true.
7:28 YOU'RE STUPID!!! That is the biggest BAD FAITH argument there is. Using that FAKE BS EXCUSE to avoid accountability for being a sl**. The concept doesn't make sense to you because you are living with regret because your count is high, and now you see a LOW count is important to a man wanting a serious relationship and you can't unring that bell once it has been rung. Women, get it in your heads, men DO NOT CARE about your "experience", they would rather have a woman with NO experience than a Wikipedia of knowledge. There are BILLIONS of holes out there that feel just as good as yours to a man, yours is NOT SPECIAL. SCARCITY drives value, the less men who have seen/used yours, the more valuable it is.
9:02 "I don't like labels," while labeling everything and everyone.
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Who doesn't like a good mystery? When you're with a conservatively dressed woman and the time for it to come off finally arrives, it's like a kid opening a present at Christmas, so excited to see what treasure lies inside. If the man truly loves the woman, he will think she looks sexy regardless of what she's wearing, even when she's just lounging in sweats. A woman wearing tight skimpy clothes, there's no mystery, you already see everything she has to offer, not just her body, but her morals and personal character (Or lack there of) inside, the things a man VALUES in a woman he will commit to.
The reason women continue to make the same mistakes is because they have no accountability. Until they admit and accept accountability for THEIR actions, they will NEVER LEARN from their mistakes. Your parents told you 100 times not to touch the hot stove, it wasn't until you actually did it and got burned did you admit to yourself it was mistake and you learned not to do it again.
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Depending on the question asked, I may SEEM left, middle, or right, but I am none of them. I agree and disagree with issues on all sides, but the "alphabet community" has pushed too far and expect more rights than any other person has. I gave 20 years in the military to protect ALL people's rights, but your rights end where another person's begins. You do NOT have the right to force another person to accept your delusions and pronouns, they have the right to disregard and not use them.
Harris/Democrats lost the election because they catered to women/trans right, MINORITY GROUPS, which aren't going to get enough votes to win an election. Harris put so much effort into women's rights, which is why women SAID they were for her, but still failed to show up to vote for her. Harris IGNORED one demographic, which proved to be the one she shouldn't have, MEN. Democrats/Harris showed men, that have been beaten down, kicked around, insulted, and blamed for everything by women, man hating feminists, and "alphabet community" that they aren't important to them, they don't care about men's needs and rights, so how could those men vote for a woman who ignored them too. Those men went where they weren't being IGNORED, and they made their voices heard loud and clear, and they voted Trump into office. Men have been coming out more and more saying they are tired of the "alphabet community" pushing for more and more rights, that no other person has, they are tired of walking around on egg shells so they don't hurt someone's feelings, they're tired of worrying if they'll lose their job for misgendering or not using pronouns, they're tired of the "alphabet community" trying to FORCE THEIR ideologies/agendas/lifestyles/behaviors onto others, husbands and fathers don't want to have to worry about their young daughters or wives safety because a MAN walks into their bathroom/locker room, which should be a safe space for ACTUAL WOMEN. Men are tired of having their freedoms taken away, in a country that is supposed to represent freedom, by the "alphabet community" forcing THEIR beliefs onto them. That ladies is what happens when men come together for a common goal, they show up and actually achieve it, as where women FAIL everytime because none of them can agree on anything so there is no common goal to achieve, you can't achieve what doesn't exist. When it comes time for you to actually take action, instead you are sitting on your phones running your mouths about what you will do and you FAIL to show up.
Thank you Griffin for this, seeing what the country has become I wonder if giving 20 years of my life in the military was for nothing, but videos like this gives me hope that it was meaningful.
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I would say if a woman says she's busy on Saturday but free on Sunday is still not interested in you. What is she busy with on Saturday, going out to the club with the girls, picking up Chad for the 1 night stand, then meet up with you on Sunday for brunch and a movie before she says she has to leave because she has to get up early on Monday. If she doesn't rearrange her plans on Saturday, as she expects you to do any time she calls, tell her OK have a nice life and walk away. If a woman on a date is asking questions, she NEEDS to be asking a man about HIS LIFE and plans showing you are actually interested in him, unfortunately women won't do that because then it's not all about them. Instead of coming with a laundry list of "standards" that are nothing but material and physical and asking what he can do for you, how about you TELL HIM what you can do for HIM to make HIS life easier and less stressful, what VALUE that comes from your TRAITS NOT your looks, you will ADD TO HIS LIFE.
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6:05 Women "Hit the Wall", that they refuse to believe exists, because of their biological clock. At 30 women have lost 90% of their eggs, and that biological clock starts ticking louder and louder, as time goes by that a woman isn't in a happy stable marriage and having children. It's warning her, time is running out, and as it does, she gets more and more desperate. It ticks louder and louder trying to warn her and starts driving her insane. Unfortunately, the louder that clock ticks, the more desperate and insane she gets, and the less attractive to a man she becomes, because she is unstable. When the batteries in that biological clock die and it stops ticking as menopause hits, time is up!! She will FINALLY realize she WASTED her time having "fun" racking up body counts and regrets, and she will be ALONE, with no one there to care for her when she reaches the finish line of life.
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What is the friend zone?
The friend zone is a shed women put TOOLS in to fulfill a specific job when she decides to USE them. This guy is too nice and happy, in the shed he goes, this guy is to emotional and in touch with his feelings, in the shed he goes, this guy is to uppity and motivated, in the shed he goes, and on and on. Today she's feeling good and happy, let's pull out Mr. Nice Guy to go hang out because he'll make her happy all day. Tomorrow she's sad and upset, time to pull out Mr. Emotional to sympathize and give her a shoulder to cry on. The next day she's worried or nervous, let's pull Mr. Motivated to give her a pep talk to build up her confidence and give her the push she needs to move forward. Each tool in the shed has a specific job to fulfill a hole in her life, and NONE of those tools will EVER be used to fill the hole between her legs, because that's not their job, that's Chad's job. When Chad does a bad job, it's the tools in the shed that are there to fix it. The more a tool is USED, the more worthless it becomes, after she USES you too many times, you have no more value to her and she will discard you and get a new tool to replace you.
Guys, GET OUT OF THE TOOL SHED!!! Go find the one lady that possesses ALL of the TRAITS you already know you want in a lady. The one lady you will commit to being the one multi-tool she can use and depend on to accomplish ALL of her jobs.
Ladies, "Where have all the 'good' men gone," exactly where you put them, in the friend zone. It's past time you STOP taking dating and relationship advice from SINGLE women, they obviously don't have a clue. "Misery loves company," and they're just inviting you to come dine with them at the SINGLES table. You need to sit down and actually figure out what YOU want in a man. You'll NEVER know when you have found what you are looking for if you don't know what you want. I'm sure you've all heard, and maybe said it yourself, "If you combine these guys together, you would have the perfect man." That's because each of those guys has a trait you want in a man, just like all those tools you have in your shed. Your perfect man is in your tool shed. Sit down and take all those tools out, figure out and write down what job you USE each of them for and you will know what TRAIT they have that you want in a man, combine them together and there's the "perfect" man you want. STOP looking for guys to fix up and change to fit your needs, he will NOT CHANGE!!! A man has already thought long and hard about what TRAITS he wants in a woman, and he isn't going to change that, if you don't have all of those traits, he WILL NOT commit to you, stop wasting your time trying to change him. Your next big hurdle is to STOP looking for him with your eyes, TRAITS are on the inside and can't be seen from the outside. A date isn't about you getting a free meal, it's about getting to know the man for WHO HE IS on the inside, to see if he has the traits you want. You find that man that has all the traits from each tool in your shed, and you will have a multi-tool of your own, the ONLY man you will need to fulfill ALL your needs and wants.
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18:45 My advice to you is, GET OFF toxic social media, sit down and be HONEST with yourself and figure out what YOU ACTUALLY want in a partner, and get out into the REAL WORLD and make yourself available and forget your laundry list of BS a man has to give to you. Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps. The toxic crab mentality of women on toxic social media is keeping you single, they aren't in a happy healthy relationship so no other woman can be, and they will give the worst advice possible to keep you single. STOP listening to other women tell YOU what YOU need/want from a partner, ONLY YOU know what that is. If a woman truly wants to find a man, she needs to understand what MEN WANT and look for in a partner, and she needs to be that, or he's not interested in you. It's not that hard, just watch videos and read comments from MEN, they have been telling women EXACTLY what they are looking for and what they will/won't accept, there are no subtle hints or reading between the lines, if that's not you, fix yourself to be it, or remain single. Men haven't changed much in centuries in what they look for in a woman, they're not going to start now for you.
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Difference between a man and a woman. You tell a man what his flaws are and he will work to fix them. Men give other men TRUE support by being HONEST with each other. You HONESTLY tell a woman her flaws and she plays victim, deflects, and tries to blame everyone else for it, and won't fix her flaw, because they all think they're 10's, perfect, and flawless. Women give other women FAKE support and lie to her, tell her what she WANTS to hear NOT what she NEEDS to hear, they tell her she's perfect just as she is, and she will never know her flaws and fix herself.
Yes you should be over looked as a trophy wife because of your past. Past behavior is a glimpse at future behavior. EVERYTHING that happened in your past was a choice YOU MADE, and ONLY YOU are responsible for the consequences of those choices. If you racked up that body count with out regard to your future, even when men have been saying for long enough now for women to get it in their heads, they are repulsed by high body count, YOU made the choice to NOT be wife material. Once you ring that bell, it can't be unrung. High count = nothing but "fun", low count = wife material, it is that simple. Life doesn't care about your wall of participation trophies.
Your past matters!!! The hardest lessons in life happened to you in your past, forget your past, you forget those life lessons and will continue to repeat them. If I tell my current GF I killed my previous GF, she doesn't need to worry if I'll kill her to right, because hey it was in my past forget about it. (JUST an example, haven't killed anyone, or have I? Doesn't matter it was in my past).
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6:22 Guys don't approach because it's the consequences of women's actions, you call them creeps/stalkers, blast them on the internet, and of course you told them not to approach you, they are doing what you asked. Also, men definitely don't want to approach a group of women because he no longer has to impress one that he's interested in, he has to impress ALL of the women, which will NEVER happen because the ones he didn't choose will feel rejected and find any little thing they can to complain about and get the one chosen to reject him.
You're also LYING, and you proved it with your own words, "The guys will go up to one girl and she's not like a total standout," meaning they rejected you for the "uglier" friend and you don't know why when you feel you are the "prettiest" of the group, it's your attitude that turns men off. Women hang out with other women they feel are uglier than they are, they are called the D.U.F.F.'s (Designated Ugly Fat Friends) because then she is the prettiest and will get all the attention. You feel you are the prettiest in your group of "friends" and don't understand why guys aren't approaching you, which is the only reason you're asking this question, so you can try to figure out why guys aren't approaching YOU, the "prettiest" in the group. Outer beauty ONLY gets a mans attention and draws him to you, it is your personality, behavior, personal character, your INNER BEAUTY that makes a man commit to you. Obviously your inner beauty isn't what men value, which is why they don't approach you.
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@Kat31017 Correct. If you talk about your job he may see it as you're saying you don't NEED him and men do want to feel NEEDED. Why be with someone you don't NEED to be with. When a man asks you what your job is, it's because he wants to know if he should be threatened by it or not, if you work in a male modeling agency he'll be VERY worried, if you work in a comic book store then not so worried about you finding someone else. If your job is more "prestigious" or you make more than he does, he'll expect you to try to be the man and boss him around. He's also seeing if you have traits he's looking for, if you have a job then you're not lazy, not a gold digger, you're motivated, know the value of money, etc. EVERYONE is different and think differently and have their own opinions, but when a man asks you a question there's a more deeper meaning behind that question, he is trying to look inside you at who you are as a person. Unlike women who look for a man to change to be what they want, but they haven't actually figured out what they want so they continually choose the wrong guys. Men ACTUALLY know what they want and don't, their questions are specifically to find out if you have what he wants or not. If he asks about your job, he doesn't care about the job, it's him looking at the traits you portray when talking about it. Are you calm, keep a low tone of voice, do you look happy about it, all good things, or are you raising your voice, talking a mile a minute, complain about the job and other people that work there, all bad things. Women FEEL men are simple because they find solutions faster because men leave emotion out of decision making. They use logic and rational thought to find the fastest most efficient way to the solution and take it. They don't talk about the problem for hours before trying to figure it out, then ask themselves a 1000 "what if" questions, they just solve the problem, which comes off as simple. Women have no clue how much is actually going on inside his head, on the surface asking about your job seems simple, but he is thinking about all the different traits you are showing from that question.
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I don't have much social media, I have WhatsApp to talk to a few friends, and watch YouTube (Obviously 🤣). Other than that I don't see the allure and addiction to it. I live in the REAL WORLD, not some made up toxic fantasy world on a tiny phone screen. I want to interact with REAL PEOPLE, not just some random bits of electronic data. EVERYONE has their own problems in life, WTF would you want to go on social media and listen to someone else pile THEIR problems onto you as well. There's these things called sunlight, fresh air, the NATURAL beauty of mother nature, and best of all, they are all FREE, get outside and enjoy them.
The woman on her phone wasn't even paying attention to the man sitting right there with her, she was more interested in her phone. It wasn't until he took his attention away and said was going to watch a movie alone did she finally put her phone down and even realize he was there. If a woman can't turn her phone OFF and put it away when she's with you, it's time to move on to someone who actually is interested and cares about YOU, NOT her phone.
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The friend zone is a shed women put TOOLS in to fulfill a specific job when she decides to USE them. This guy is too nice and happy, in the shed he goes, this guy is too emotional and in touch with his feelings, in the shed he goes, this guy is to uppity and motivated, in the shed he goes, and on and on. Today she's feeling good and happy, let's pull out Mr. Nice Guy to go hang out because he'll make her happy all day. Tomorrow she's sad and upset, time to pull out Mr. Emotional to sympathize and give her a shoulder to cry on. The next day she's worried or nervous, let's pull Mr. Motivated to give her a pep talk to build up her confidence and give her the push she needs to move forward. Each tool in the shed has a specific job to fulfill a hole in her life, and NONE of those tools will EVER be used to fill the hole between her legs, because that's not their job, that's Chad's job. When Chad does a bad job, it's the tools in the shed that are there to fix it. The more a tool is used, the more worthless it becomes, after she uses you too many times, you have no more value to her and she will discard you and get a new tool to replace you. Guys, GET OUT OF THE SHED!!! Go find the one lady that possesses ALL of the TRAITS you already know you want in a lady. The one lady you will commit to being the one multi-tool she can use and depend on to accomplish ALL of her jobs.
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0:52 Awww pay attention to me, I'm a victim. A victim of YOUR OWN circumstances. When you admit and accept accountability and responsibility for YOUR poor attitude, behavior, choices, and personal character, then you'll be able to change to become someone a man actually VALUES. A little tip to help you on your "journey" GET OVER YOURSELF, STOP being selfish and only thinking about what you want, maybe then the realization will FINALLY kick in, men choose you based off of what THEY WANT in a woman, NOT what you want. Figure out what men want and become it if you expect one to choose you.
8:02 Calling everyone you know "emotionally unstable", when was the last time you looked in the mirror. YOU are the common denominator, YOU are the unstable one as you PROVED in your own video.
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No one is ENTITLED to anything, you don't DESERVE anything, you have to put in time, energy, effort, and hard work to EARN what you want in life. Life doesn't give a sh** about your participation trophies.
5:32 Proving her own lack of education and ignorance, just regurgitating the same tired debunked BS every other SINGLE woman on toxic social media is, and hasn't done any of her own homework. The U.S. is NOT the most English proficient country and it's their 1st language, the Netherlands is #1 and it's their SECOND language. 9 out of 10 most English proficient countries are all in Europe except 1, and that is Singapore, and it's the SECOND LANGUAGE for ALL of them. While, according to the U.S. Department of Education, 54% of ADULTS in the United States have prose literacy below the SIXTH GRADE LEVEL. 3.8 MILLION ADULT American WOMEN have a literacy (Reading, writing, and math) skill below a BASIC level. (The basic level is a THIRD GRADE LEVEL). You are single because of your attitude, BS delusional statements, and straight up undesirable. They say women overseas are just gold diggers looking for a better life, EVERYONE wants to have a better life. Those women overseas are gold diggers because they ask for a $2 dress, while western women are saying you have to give them $50K cars, $1million house, $100K engagement ring, who are the real gold diggers.
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4:25 It's not that men aren't at work, they're just not going for the high risk jobs. They have no work ethics, why would they go for jobs that they'll actually have to put in time, effort, energy, and hard work, when they can just get on social media and get paid to just be lazy fools. I had 2 jobs (+2 seasonal: mowing grass in summer, shoveling snow in winter) by the time I was 8y.o., getting paid under the table of course. I got paid $20 a week at one for taking out trash/vacuuming, the other I got a free pizza/soda for folding pizza boxes. In the winter, I could make $150 - $300 in a day shoveling. Instead of running out and wasting it on useles things like toys and candy, I saved it, when I needed shoes/clothes, I would go buy them with my own money. I enlisted in the Air Force when I was 17, and retired at 37.
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0:27 Your ignorance on full display, "There's no such thing as a situationship," "The only situationship..." according to you it doesn't exist, but then say it does exist. Contradict yourself much? Get OFF toxic social media until you figure it out.
2:32 It is your place to know what your role is and already be in that role. It is not a man's job to put a woman in her "feminine", if she's not already feminine he's not even going to be interested. A man wants a PROPER LADY by his side, not another dude to hang out with, he already has enough male friends, he doesn't want you to be another one of them. A man is a direct reflection of the woman by his side, if she is loud, rude, and disrespectful, he is seen as no one to be respected also.
5:42 She thought that SUBTLE lip biting was all the signal she needed for the guy to realize she was flirting. How long before women FINALLY realize, men do NOT take subtle hints, just tell them straight out WTF is on your mind.
7:59 You had me at KFC, but do you have to be there though?
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YES, it was majority men that voted Trump back into office. Now start realizing mirrors aren't just for hair and make-up, they're also for self reflection. What of your actions could have pushed those men to Trump? Could it be the "alphabet community" trying to FORCE THEIR ideologies/agendas/lifestyles/behaviors onto others, expecting special treatment, making men have to worry about losing their jobs because they misgender or don't use pronouns, maybe men don't want an "alphabet community" teacher talking/teaching their children about that type of PRIVATE lifestyle in the classroom, maybe men don't want their young daughters/wives to have a MAN walking into the bathroom/locker room with them and jeopardizing their safety, or maybe just you trying to push for rights that no other person gets. You were given an inch and you got greedy and thought you could have a mile. Those men are tired of walking on egg shells in a country that is supposed to represent freedom just to have theirs taken away. Maybe it was feminists and women bashing, insulting, shaming, and blaming men for everything. Men they rely on for everything in their lives everyday, and Democrats/Harris put everything into women and "alphabet community" rights (Minority groups) and IGNORED MEN, so how could those men vote for a woman that ignored their needs and rights too. Men know Trump is no fan of that community, and MEN finally made their voices heard loud and clear, you're all listening now, aren't you.
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This generation is a bunch of quitters because of participation trophies and technology. Participation trophies has taught them they can be lazy, don't need to put in any time, effort, energy, or hard work and will still get the same rewards as everyone else does. Technology has also taught them they don't have to work for anything, want to know something "Google it," which has made them lazy also, but they're not actually LEARNING what they Google because they didn't have to put in any effort. You want to make money, why bother putting in hard work at a REAL JOB that requires manual and physical labor, when I can sit on my ass at home playing a game. Technology has given everyone a voice, but not all of those voices need or should be heard.
The participation trophy generation has no logical or rational thinking process, they have no critical thinking skills, and WHEN life slaps them in the face, they have no clue how to solve a problem, and they don't know how to cope with it. So they do what they were taught, they take the easy way out, get a gun and take it out on others, because everyone else is responsible for THEIR problems.
2023 Mass Shootings: (Through February)
Total Days: 59 (Jan-31 Days; Feb-28 Days)
Mass Shootings: 97
Total Killed: 141
Total Wounded: 365
Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_mass_shootings_in_the_United_States_in_2023
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"I, I, I, I want, I want, I want," all you ever hear from women. What about "This is what I will GIVE?" If a woman TRULY wants a man in her life, she needs to sit down and figure out what she ACTUALLY has to offer that A MAN VALUES in a partner, to reciprocate what she expects him to give to her. Of course this would mean they have to do their homework to find out what men actually value in a woman they will commit to, luckily for women, men have provided a cheat sheet, there are plenty of videos/comments by MEN stating exactly what they value, no subtle hints, no reading between the lines, just take them for their literal word. START making videos of what you have to OFFER instead of showing your own selfishness, greed, and entitlement that is an instant turn off. "You get what you give," if all you do is take, take, take, you will get nothing in return.
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11:31 NO, men do NOT wonder what women want from them, they don't have to because that's all women talk about, "Give me, give me, give me, I want, I want, I want." Men DO NOT CARE what you want, they want to know what YOU are going to GIVE to make his life easier and better. If you prove to him you can reciprocate and he commits to you, it is his job and he will go out of his way to provide everything you want, until then, he owes you NOTHING. If women TRULY want a man in their lives, they 1st need to figure out what MEN VALUE in a woman, and be that. Then, they better get rid of the laundry list, that they already have, of things the man has to do, and START a list, they never thought of making, of things they are going to give (Be HONEST, don't include anything you don't actually intend to do).
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1:47 "Not into hit and quit it NOW." So you expect guys to wait around and do everything for you to get what you were giving away for free before? 🤣 Good thing you're not into it anymore, because you're already FU**ED!!!
5:53 Western women are mad at passport bros. because with each one that leaves and finds happiness in another country, it is PROVING western women ARE THE PROBLEM and they can admit and accept accountability for THEIR POOR life choices, behaviors, and personal character. They thought they had it all figured out, they could behave in any way they wanted and when they were FINALLY done having their "fun" and ready to settle down there would always be men lining up for them, now they are seeing they were WRONG. Men have options and are exercising those options instead of dealing with miserable, ran through women. They call the women overseas uneducated, while according to the U.S. Department of Education, 54% of ADULTS in the United States have prose literacy below the SIXTH GRADE LEVEL. 3.8 MILLION ADULT American WOMEN have a literacy skill (Reading, writing, and math) below a BASIC level. (The basic level is a THIRD GRADE LEVEL). If you need any further proof, just watch a video or 2 from Justin Awad and watch how uneducated western women truly are. "Insults are the arguments employed by those who are in the WRONG." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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IF women were smart, BEFORE hitting "The Wall", they would STOP listening to the advice from LONELY SINGLE women on toxic social media, and START watching videos and reading comments from MEN. Those videos and comments are men telling you exactly what they want and will accept in a partner in a relationship, if that's NOT you, then you have no chance at a committed relationship with a man. Invest your money in cat food, cat toys and litter, because all you wall hitting SINGLE women will make sure your investment continues to grow. The ONLY advice SINGLE LONELY women on toxic social media can give you is how to be SINGLE and LONELY just like they are. It's the crab mentality, they don't want to see you in a happy relationship because they aren't, so they try to pull you down with them. Misery loves company, and all they're doing is inviting you to join them at the LONELY SINGLES table.
Yes ladies, you can have any standards you want, that doesn't mean you will ever find a man that meets those standards that will be interested and commit to you. What none of these women are telling you is, if your standards are so high and delusional, you will die ALONE!!! If you're older and still single, maybe it's time you reevaluate your life and standards. Your biological clock isn't going to stop ticking away because you're not ready to settle down, when it stops ticking, your time is up and it's too late for you.
“Make improvements, not excuses. Seek respect, not attention.”
― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart
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Whether I'm seen as left, right, center depends on the question asked. I'm not left, right, or center, I agree and disagree with issues on all sides, I stand by what I believe regardless of what others think. One of those issues is the "alphabet community", I don't care if you are a part of it, just leave me out of it. I think they have pushed too far and into the realm of trying to FORCE it onto people, which is why so many are against it. I spent 20 years of my life in the military protecting your right to be whatever you want to identify as, but that does NOT give you the right to force it onto other people and try to take away their right to not believe it. YOUR pronouns are YOURS, NO ONE else has to believe or use them.
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Women are NOT the table, and to use women's favorite, that is narcissistic to say. Men built a strong study table as a stable foundation on which to grow a relationship. He is looking for a woman to fill HIS table with care, nurturing, nourishment, and love. If a woman wants to be the table, she can take it and go sit in the corner with all the other LONELY SINGLE women and their tables and all be ignored together forever. With social media and air travel, EVERY SINGLE woman in the world is now an option for marriage for men. What you bring to the table is what will set you apart from the BILLIONS of other women out there and make a man notice you. YES, you need to PROVE to a man what you are bringing to the table, because MEN choose who they will marry, if you aren't going to fill HIS table, he's NOT choosing you. You get what you give, if she's not giving anything (What she's bringing to the table) then she's not going to get anything in return. Enjoy being eternally single, on toxic social media begging for any kind of attention you can get.
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@Austenfan177 I don't support or see people as the left, the right or the middle, I support Americans, that's why I served 20 years in the Air Force, to help protect the rights and freedoms of ALL Americans regardless of how they want to label themselves. You obviously were too stuck on which way I lean to understand the ACTUAL POINT of my comment, but that's OK, it's your right to misunderstand, it is what I put my life at risk for.
NO ONE "deserves" ANYTHING in life, you have to put in time, energy, effort, and work to EARN what you want.
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14:25 The friend zone is a shed women put TOOLS in to fulfill a specific job when she decides to use them. This guy is too nice and happy, in the shed he goes, this guy is to emotional and in touch with his feelings, in the shed he goes, this guy is to uppity and motivated, in the shed he goes, and on and on. Today she's feeling good and happy, let's pull out Mr. Nice Guy to go hang out because he'll make her happy all day. Tomorrow she's sad and upset, time to pull out Mr. Emotional to sympathize and give her a shoulder to cry on. The next day she's worried or nervous, let's pull Mr. Motivated to give her a pep talk to build up her confidence and give her the push she needs to move forward. Each tool in the shed has a specific job to fulfill a hole in her life, and NONE of those tools will EVER be used to fill the hole between her legs, because that's not their job, that's Chad's job. When Chad does a bad job, it's the tools in the shed that are there to fix it. The more a tool is used, the more worthless it becomes, after she uses you too many times, you have no more value to her and she will discard you and get a new tool to replace you.
Guys, GET OUT OF THE SHED!!! Go find the one lady that possesses ALL of the TRAITS you already know you want in a lady. The one lady you will commit to being the one multi-tool she can use and depend on to accomplish ALL of her jobs.
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0:32 I can cook, bake, clean, do laundry, iron, sew, do dishes, and yard work. What do you have to offer me I can't already do? That's why modern women are so screwed now, for them it's all about what the man has to give to them and nothing about what they are going to give to EARN it. Men do NOT care what you want, they want to know what you are going to give to make their lives easier, better, and bring them PEACE, do you possess what THEY value in a partner. You make a man feel needed, wanted, appreciated, respected and he will move heaven and earth to give you everything you want, so your laundry list is meaningless. You have to GIVE to receive.
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11:45 You also come with excess baggage, baby daddy drama, baby mama drama, extra financial burdens, differences in discipline styles, differences in raising the child, extra stress, the man has no say or authority over YOUR child, YOUR child will always take priority over him, you won't have time for him, excessive arguments because of all the previous. All he gets from it is excessive drama, stress, headaches, money spending.
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Money comes and goes, but TIME is the greatest commodity a person has. Time is finite, you only have so much of it, make sure you are getting value for the time you give to others.
1:22 Men are in no hurry because they have to work to EARN their value, NOT just given it like women are. By the time a man has built up his worth, he knows he doesn't have to settle for the worn out, high body count, selfish, self centered, entitled, disloyal, unfaithful, untrustworthy, VERY POOR attitude/behaviors/personal character, wall hitting woman any more, he can get that young and fit woman or a passport and find a FEMININE woman that wants/needs him. YOUR "time crunch" is of no concern to a man because you brought that upon yourself because you wanted to go out and do whatever you wanted, have your hot girl summers, rack up your body count screwing around, and get your degrees and have careers, things men don't care about and are disgusted by. You thought you could do whatever you wanted and there would always be men lining up just hoping for the chance you would look at them, now you are realizing that's not the case. If you're that old, not married, and no children, other men have determined there's something wrong with you and they are going to heed their brothers advice and run away from you. That "time crunch" you are feeling is your biological clock ticking away and the longer you go without any children it just gets louder and louder and is making you more and more desperate. The sad reality is, one day that clock is going to stop and then it is too late for you, while men can go on creating children until their dying breath, it might actually be what ends them. You should have thought about your future earlier in life and settled down then. Fail to plan for your future, you plan to fail in the future.
3:07 You're "out of touch" because you feel safe and secure in your man's ability to protect and lead you so you don't need to be on your guard.
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I may have an idea why "Wall" hitting modern women are the way they are. It's their biological clock!! At 30yo that biological clock starts ticking louder and louder as time goes by that a woman isn't in a happy stable marriage and having children. It's warning her, time is running out, and as it does, she gets desperate, it gets so loud that is starts making her Psychotic, Insane, Crazy, Kooky, Mental, and Egocentric, or a PICK ME woman. Unfortunately for her, the louder that clock ticks, the more desperate and insane she gets, and the less attractive to a man she is. When the batteries in that biological clock die and it stops ticking as menopause hits, time is up!! She will FINALLY realize she WASTED her time having "fun" racking up body count and regrets.
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7:36 Yes, women overseas are the gold diggers because they ASK to buy a $5 outfit, are happy eating at a fast food restaurant, are good with walking or taking a $0.50 trike, are OK with living in a house with barely any amenities. While western women DEMAND $1,000 bags, dinner dates at expensive restaurants, want a $50K car, and $1 million mansions, and $500K engagement rings, all while offering NOTHING in return but some wornout P that she doesn't even want to give you.
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8:15 BOOHOO, cry me a river!!! Now wipe the snot from your nose whiny little cry baby, stop playing victim, and take accountability for YOUR ACTIONS, YOU continue to choose those type of guys, YOU are the common denominator, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM!!! The red flag isn't that she posts immature crying videos, the red flag is she's on social media at all. All the women will give her the attention she is craving and take all accountability away from her, and she will NEVER LEARN and change. When she's not whining like a toddler, she will be posting a man's PRIVATE LIFE for the world to judge and seeking attention from any guy that will give it to her. Me personally, a woman on toxic social media at all is the red flag, and I'm not going to be with her. Before any one says it, NO I do NOT have social media other than YouTube and a Facebook that I haven't logged into since the Wolverines won the National Championship and who knows before that.
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8:35 Unlike women, men have to build their wealth which takes time, and 40's is around that time when they are financially stable and believe they can support a family. Just because he's never married doesn't mean he hasn't dated and with the pool of women now-a-days, he didn't find any that possessed what he VALUES in a woman and never married. A woman however, who's worth is given at birth, that is in her late 40's, never married, no kids, egg supply almost gone and the ones remaining are all but rotten, that is a red flag. She's a woman and would have had plenty of opportunity to get married, so she either listened to all the bad advice on social media and focused on just having her "fun" and her career believing she had plenty of time until she had no time, or she's completely delusional and wouldn't commit to any man because she always felt she could do better, or her personality/traits/personal character just isn't what men want in a woman, either way she is responsible for her poor life choices and gets to deal with the consequences of them.
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"People now a days have no ability to deal with anything when it gets real." Welcome to the participation trophy generation! That's all this participation trophy generation knows, take the easy way out. Participation trophies taught them they don't have to put in any time, effort, energy, or hard work, and they will still get the same rewards as everyone else. It made them lazy, entitled, with no work ethics. Technology only enhances their laziness, entitlement, and impatience, they want to know something, just "Google it" and have it immediately, but they're not actually learning anything from it because they didn't have to put any effort into it. With the "get in touch with your emotions," "don't hurt someone's feelings," "don't say no," and "don't say anything negative to anyone," people have become so THIN skinned they can't take criticism or their feelings and emotions will be hurt. They have no logical or rational thought processes, no critical thinking and problem solving skills, and WHEN life slaps them in the face, they don't know how to solve the problem, have no accountability/responsibility and can't cope with it. They do what they were taught, they take the easy way out, they blame others because everyone else has to be responsible for THEIR problems. Life does NOT care about your wall of participation trophies and feelings, it is going to come at you hard and fast, whether you are ready or not.
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Don't over look other Asian countries like Cambodia, Laos, or Vietnam. Exchange rates are even better there, $1U.S. is 57.9 PHP (Philippines), 4,062KHR (Cambodia), 21,381LAK (Laos), and 25,411VND (Vietnam). There's a place in Laos that holds marriage "market" every 2 days where all the single women go to try to find husbands, any man near it will be surrounded by HUNDREDS of women vying for his attention. There's interviews with Vietnamese women and when asked how much a man needs to make per month, they all replied about 10 million VND (~$400 per month) for her to live a REALLY GOOD life. Those countries have beautiful and traditional women, men have OPTIONS.
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The math women NEED to be learning is when you add to one side of an equation, you have to subtract from the other side to balance out the equation. As a woman ADDS years to her age and pounds to her weight, bodies to her count, she MUST SUBTRACT STANDARDS to balance out the equation to her new older, ran through, and less value TO A MAN solution. If the equation isn't balanced out, it will not be stable and it will fail. Just look at all those women denying they've hit "The Wall" that are still SINGLE with NO prospects because they continue to ADD standards as they get older, rack up more bodies, can't even fry an egg, have an entire football team of babies running around, and their "value" to a man just isn't up to those standards any more. The equation is off balance which is why they will remain SINGLE. It's like an elephant sitting on one side of a see-saw and a dwarf trying to get up onto the other side that's way up in the air out of reach. You women are the elephant here, positioning yourself so that no man can ever reach your standards.
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"Don't need no man," is a double negative, meaning they are saying they DO NEED a man, they can't even get that right. Women should really look beyond their surface level BS and realize they RELY on men for everything they do everyday. Something as simple as taking a hot shower they are RELYING on HUNDREDS of men to build/maintain and electrical grid and power stations, men building/maintaining water and gas lines and purification plants/refineries, men to build the house, men doing logging and processing the wood to have lumber to build that house. They drive to grocery stores in cars invented/built by men, on roads built/maintained by men, to buy food grown/harvested by men and driven to the stores in trucks by men. They RELY on men quietly doing their jobs to build and keep everything around them running, just so they can bash and emmasculate those very men for doing it for them.
Men need to take a page out of women's playbook and ALL men need to go on strike for 24 hours, like the women in Iceland did, and see just how much is accomplished. Maybe then women would realize just how much they RELY on men everyday.
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I agree, women should find a partner in the REAL WORLD, however, unlike what you said "She should find them doing what she likes to do," that woman is at Lowe's following the ignorant toxic social media trend of going to hardware stores. She's also wearing clothes that say DESPERATE, instead of something comfortable and conservative.
7:58 Time to change that TikTok handle, if you're a doctor this world is doomed. Sex ed 101, it requires a MAN to create that life in you. There is no such thing as synthetic sperm, and sperm banks still require MEN to donate. Not to mention your ability to create life is LIMITED, it takes 9 months for you to create that ONE life, while a man can impregnate and start that life creating process in HUNDREDS of women a month, creating FAR MORE lives than you can. In the time it took you to FINISH creating that ONE life that a MAN started, that man could have created THOUSANDS!! If you feel your value is creating life, then you're saying you have no value when you hit menopause. A man can create life right up until his dying breath, it might be what actually kills him.
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The math women NEED to be learning is when you add to one side of an equation, you have to subtract from the other side to balance out the equation. As a woman ADDS years to her age and pounds to her weight, bodies to her count, she MUST SUBTRACT STANDARDS to balance out the equation to her new older, ran through, and less value TO A MAN solution. If the equation isn't balanced out, it will not be stable and it will fail. Just look at all those women denying they've hit "The Wall" that are still SINGLE with NO prospects because they continue to ADD standards as they get older, rack up more bodies, can't even fry an egg, have an entire football team of babies running around, and their "value" to a man just isn't up to those standards any more. The equation is off balance which is why they will remain SINGLE. It's like an elephant sitting on one side of a see-saw and a dwarf trying to get up onto the other side that's way up in the air out of reach. You women are the elephant here, positioning yourself so that no man can ever reach your standards.
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10:25 "I know I must be doing something wrong." ABSOLUTELY, but saying you must be doing SOMETHING wrong, says you haven't actually sat down and tried to figure it out so you can fix it. Instead you took the easy way out to avoid accountability, you got on toxic social media begging for other women to tell you "No, you're not doing anything wrong, it's always the men." If you haven't sat down and figured out what you ACTUALLY want in a partner, how will you know when you have found it? Men DO NOT CARE about you laundry list of things he has to provide, all of your achievements, career, money, etc., they want to know what you are going to GIVE to make HIS life easier and better. It's really SIMPLE, you women don't care what men want and don't possess what men VALUE in a woman they will commit to. STOP watching videos/taking advice from women, who only see you as competition, and will tell you anything to take you out of the race to increase her own chances. START watching/reading comments from MEN, they have been telling you women long enough for you to get it in your heads, EXACTLY what they will/won't accept, what they want and value. There are no subtle hints, no reading between the lines, they are saying EXACTLY what they want, if that's not you, change/fix yourself to be it or remain SINGLE and whining on toxic social media for attention from other women that only see you as the enemy.
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6:22 Isn't that the woman that brags she's a model, conveniently leaving out the PLUS SIZE? She has that delusionally ridiculous list of epic proportions, where she thinks a guy should pay her rent, get her nails done weekly, pay for ubers, etc. just to date her. Guess with today's women, the proportion of delusion in their list directly correlates to the size of their obese bodies. Personally, I don't believe her, she's making that sh** up, how can she have a roster when she doesn't even have 1 man, because no man on Earth can achieve her ridiculous standards.
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12:35 "There's nothing wrong with me," and there you have it, you admitted you know what the problem is, YOU, but you refuse to change, which is why you will be SINGLE forever, NOT because you're tired. YES, there is something wrong with you, you're 37 and still haven't figured out what you want out of life, maybe because you're too busy playing victim instead of accepting accountability and changing who you are as a person. Social media has made it too easy for women, they just validate, remove accountability and responsibility, make excuses for each other so they don't have to do any self reflection and actually see they have a poor personal character, and are the problem.
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10:35 YES, normalize ultimatums.... and give men one more reason, as if they don't have enough already, to continue wlaking AWAY from you women. Women say they want "unconditional love", which there is NO SUCH THING, every preference, standard, boundary, rule, ULTIMATUM, everything you expect him to do for you, etc., is a condition on that love.
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Get your passport and head to Laos. There's a village there that holds a match making market every 2 days, where THOUSANDS of women go to try to find a partner. Any man near it will be surrounded by women, throwing themselves at them, and the exchange rate there is $1/21,400KIP. There's also Vietnam at $1/25,455VND, and women there say a man only needs about 10 million VND ($400) to make her happy and to live a good life. Cambodia exchange rate $1/4,065KHR. Many South American, African, and European countries too, plenty of other places in the world with beautiful women that are still traditional and feminine and only want to make their man happy. You don't need to put up with western women's delusional nonsense.
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Do women need men? ABSOLUTELY!!!! EVERYTHING women do everyday they are relying on men, they just need to get over themselves and realize the world is FAR bigger than they are. They want to take a shower, there's a man working at a water plant making sure CLEAN water can be pumped to her house. She wants a hot shower she needs natural gas or oil to heat the water, there's a man out in fields drilling for it and laying pipes to get it to her house. That car she drives, a man built, the roads she drives it on, a man built and maintains, that IPhone she uses to bash men, a man built, the electricity she uses to charge it, a man built and maintains the power grid so she has electricity. MEN built and maintain the world around you, just so you can tell them they aren't necessary.
Let's not forget that little thing, without a man she wouldn't even be here!!! It takes 2, a man and a woman, there is no such thing as synthetic sperm. Without men society and human kind cease to exist.
For the religious that want to go back to the beginning, God created MAN 1st. He created the woman from the rib of a man, so again without a man there would be no woman. Women NEED men, no matter how they want to look at it.
‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him’” (Genesis 2:18)
“She shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man” (Genesis 2:22–23)
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0:42 What can you do to look better? For starters run a brush through that hair, 2nd, lose the nose ring, 3rd lose the make-up, obviously you know you're not a 10 if you need to hide your TRUE looks under make-up, lose the FAKE nails, lose the FAKE eyelashes, maybe put some clothes on and stop advertising your body to everyone. It doesn't matter how you FEEL you look on the outside, if you are just a mean rotten person on the inside, you are far uglier on the outside.
4:37 Yes, you COULD date anyone you want. But you missed the most important point, does anyone want to date you? Since you are SINGLE, I think we both know the answer to that.
5:22 How F'ing stupid are you? You said it yourself "A woman can take a MANS SPERM...!" Women NEED men to procreate!!! She REQUIRES a man's sperm to get pregnant, and there is no such thing as synthetic sperm. Go back to high school, take the letter jacket off and forget about sports, and this time actually pay attention in sex ed class. If you are a representation of this generations intellect, this world is doomed far more than I wanted to believe, and it's going to happen far faster. HOLY SH** YOU ARE F'ING DUMB!!!
8:15 Proving why calling someone out for "body shaming" is the height of stupidity. When a woman can't even take 2 steps TO SAVE HER CHILD, without falling down because her ankles can't support her FAT, and she can't get up because she's FAT, maybe it's time you women take the hint. OBESITY KILLS!!!
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