Comments by "Jim Mcneal" (@jimmcneal5292) on "GriffinMind"
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@buoydix My whole point was that there's nothing wrong with being insecure or admitting it, because insecurity makes you improve yourself.
Imagine countries and companies acted "secure". "No, we won't buildup our military, we aren't insecure, are we?" Gets conquered. "No, we won't put huge efforts in improving our products, we are not some insecure boys." Goes bankrupt in a year.
Man needs determination, not confidence, as the latter is a recipe for defeat.
Upd. More than that, I actually think that you can't boost your confidence per se, as it's basically a derivative function from your perceived(by you) abilities vs your opponents perceived(also by you) abilities. So one can become more confident only in two ways: improve himself(not what most people mean when saying "become more confident") or become less aware of your or opponents' abilities(not a good idea really).
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@The_NonDescript Well, everyone means different stuff when saying 6-7, for some it's a high mid, for some it's low mid. But ok, let's assume you're medium in this regard.
You said you never dated, does it mean you're virgin? If yes, it gives some bonus points. Also, are you ok with polygamy(him sometimes safely sleeping around while you remain loyal)? But your biggest mistake is waiting for so long, you should have been searching for a man in his 30s back when you graduated from school, if you did that you could have scored a rich attractive guy.
Now your only option is an average guy(who probably makes less than you or the same). So basically try dating sites and list your strong sides right away(virginity, cooking skill if any, etc.) You have some chances, but I won't lie to you, it won't be easy.
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