Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "Gym Girl Rejected by Gym Bro" video.
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I'm gonna try to make this short but remember this.
A study was done at a preschool, kids who liked coloring were given rewards for doing so, after the rewards were removed the kids stopped even though they use to do it for the joy of it. Eventually they went back to it but what this showed is by rewarding a behavior the kids attention shifted to the reward and they lost the joy of doing what they use to.
Moral is, focus on the effort, learn to love the effort, the lifestyle, the rewards will come, just always focus on the effort as being all the reward you need, it'll propel you and push you beyond your current limitations.
Also if you haven't, go listen or read the poems
The man in the Arena: Teddy Roosevelt
If: Rudyard Kipling
Proof Of Worth by Edgar Albert Guest
That last one I stumbled across the day my daughter died and I can't listen to it because of that, but these are some of the greatest bits of advice on masculinity here in these poems.
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