Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "Man breaks up with Woman after Girls Night.." video.

  1. Also if you said you would be monogamous and go back on your word, maybe no one else ever knows, but you will, you'll cripple your ability to grow if you can't even respect your own decisions.
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  2. I'd give them one meeting to show me who they are, if they aren't domestic and respectful, well you already know, move along, if they are, then don't be outcome dependent and see if they follow your lead, if they follow your lead then start looking at her family and friends and always remember, if you aren't sure, then you already know.
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  3. @DTKRDMNK  that's true, and even if they are decent, dosent mean the brainwashing dosent get to them like it did my mom.
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  4. I honestly think that confidence is a load of BS. The only time it's a issue is when we are outcome dependent, but if you don't know the woman well, how do you even know that you would be able to tolerate her for a week straight? Confidence is fake, but outcome dependency spurs irrational insecurities and tunnel vision (not just figuratively either). I wish younger guys would approach and talk to women who they aren't attracted to just to have a conversation and practice that because ultimately it seems to boil down to a lack of socialization with women and seeing women as human and not some perfect thing.
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  5. Never be outcome dependant with women who you would probably hate.
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  6. Like how they say they want a man to lead, but also they can't take direction, submit to his decisions and valentines day is about them... If a woman won't submit then she should never claim she wants a man to lead, she dosent, she wants subjugation and ain't nobody got time fo dat! I'll keep my peace and she can keep her cats.
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  7. Low confidence stems from outcome dependency and insecurity. When you dont care about the outcome then suddenly the insecurities vanish. Why is it you can talk to random people like other guys and never even flinch? Its because you arent invested. But when you see some beautiful woman your mind jumps to what could be, anticipation sets in, you see something that doesn't even exist and think that you could lose that and suddenly you're scared, you start thinking of how you're gonna do this right and how you're gonna make her like you, but you dont even know if you like who she is. Is she a cheater? Is she a 304? Is she superficial or is she interesting? You dont know but you assume because you're thinking with the smaller of your two heads. Stop, you're making stupid assumptions and lets be real, what are the chances you even like her when you get to know her? So practice talking to women you arent intrested in, you have nothing to lose and youll begin to realize that when you arent so invested people will actually like you for simply not putting on a act, and if they don't, who cares, you weren't invested anyway, and once youve done this a handful of times, talking to beautiful women and not being insecure becomes easy. Also, just like you shouldnt assume that you like some random beautiful chick, you should also stop assuming that people wouldnt like you, just stop making dumb assumptions and live because at the end of the day, you're the one who was always there for yourself, you know all the ups and downs, you know the struggle, the one whos got your back most is yourself and if someone dosent like you thats fine, and if they do great, thats only half the equation because we all know in this modern environment theres more of a chance that you dont like them than you do, but go find out, believe me, it wont take long to figure it out and then you can move on or if you do like each other, move forward.
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  8. Confidence seems to only be necessary when outcome dependency exists. It's a psyop to make you think you need to get some arbitrary thing in order to get the girl, when in reality all you need is to just not care about what she thinks and if she doesn't like you then you wouldn't have liked her.
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  9. They're all "men are ugly!" Meanwhile they think that they are so beautiful they have to plaster make up on like a birthday cake in order to leave their house.
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