Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "why Men STOP Dating.. #18" video.

  1. As a guy who mostly wasted his younger years (now early 30s), chasing women, with decent success I should add, those women who want you at that age are not the women you want a long term relationship with. They'll sleep with you for sure, that's easy. But they'll make your life hell with their drama. Focus on yourself till your late 20s.
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  2.  @thewaywardgrape3838  absolutely agree! I'm married now, started dating her at 26yrs old and I started the relationship by saying, word for word, this :"I can't read minds so I don't know what you're looking for or if you've even thought about that, but if we do end up dating just know, it's not me joining your life, it's not us joining our lives, it's you joining mine and I will have the final say in every decision I feel and if you don't like that, there's the door. *points at the door*" She said ok and has been submissive ever since, a fantastic wife, now a fantastic mother. I fully expected her to leave, and kinda wanted her to so I could focus on my life. That being said I spent the next 6yrs studying hard, like 5hrs a day 6 days a week, haven't hit the lottery so to speak, but I'm getting very close. Considering how bad the dating market is these days, I'm glad I'm not single, but even at the time I met my wife I had decided I wasn't doing relationships anymore, hence why I said what I did and expected her to leave, but when she submitted, I thought I'd give her a chance, and I'm glad I did really. A key point here though, is that she is 8yrs younger than me, I really don't think guys should even consider dating until they are around 26-30 and not date women who are any less than 5yrs younger than him, that age difference causes her to see you as a authority figure, and if a woman dosent respect you, she will never trust you or feel secure with you. Respect is paramount.
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