Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "Where do PLAYERS COME FROM?: when nice guys turn into bad boys" video.

  1. This is why I say MGTOW is just feminism for men; because at the end of the day it is compensating for what we were not taught when we were younger, things we should've known before we got burnt and became reactionary. It's important to put them out of your mind and work on yourself. The spectrum of confidence is not reality but a lense by which we see the world, nor necessarily is your history a accurate representation of what you can accomplish since it was painted with that lense that you had at that time. How do we know what we are capable of then? Well, I'd say generally speaking were capable of more than we often think, though this coming from one who had tended towards the low self esteem end of that spectrum. If you're average IQ, you're a pretty capable person, you've just gotta look at things maybe a bit like a fitness coach would, what are you likely to achive and how do you shape and structure your life in a way to accomplish the most? Take exercise as a example, if you're having a hard time sticking with it, is it because you're trying to make it work instead of fun? What about finances? How can you make yourself more likely to be successful and how could you make it enjoyable and or a game? If you can do this, you'll accomplish a lot more than you think you can, and realize that you're able to. Another way I view it is when your young your parents guide you telling you what you should and shouldn't do, telling you what's going to help you most and get the results you seek. Much of the time we make our decisions a bit more short sighted than that, so the question here is; how do you make discipline a fun and rewarding game? This will vary from person to person, but ultimately is boiled down to lessons we were not taught when we needed them.
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  2. ​ @artificer845 basically just treat them the same way you treat men. In this gynocentric and feminist culture men have been taught to put women on a pedestal, if you just stop doing that it really helps, though it's important to learn this prior to being jaded by women otherwise you'll have to address those issues separately and they will be legitimate issues that could cause you to mistreat a genuinely good woman.
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