Comments by "Zev C" (@zevc3591) on "Как решиться на ЭМИГРАЦИЮ ИЗ РОССИИ" video.
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When talking about an immigration stopping factors, the key word here is "alone" (with keeping in mind, or, at least pretending so - the main asset and moving/motivating factor here is a kid). And the reality is that, is "half" of the country in such a situation, while she is questioning: who will/should help us if we want to move? Let's face reality, which is also logical. The answer is clear and 100% true - no one, except your partner, who is in fact should be your best friend. Whose choice was not having this friend? Exactly, regardless, of all possible excuses.
Those who in such a situation will have enough inner force to try and move on - are either: coldmind, well calculated risk brave individuals (very few of those), yet, in absolute majority, reckless or brainless, which is pretty much the same. The chance is like winning the lottery, or practically no chance, but remaining alone and poor. The clear and true point here is: an equality between the term "alone" and the term "poor". Whose was this choice to remain poor? Exactly, regardless, of all possible "why".
Conclusion: the best in such situation is to stay home.
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@jamilakumacheva
I guess you got it. There is no place for shaming, laughing or any sort of abuse, yet, also not that much sympathy from others in this world. Unfortunately. This world is not created by us and there is no sign that anyone is willing to change it.
There is also another factor - time. In our time, long ago, when our parents decided to leave the Soviet Union, and go literally into nowhere, with small kids in their hands and suitcase. Since then this "nowhere"/world has changed dramatically, and it all was happening right before our eyes. I can say it, taking away all sensitivity and associated accountability, that there is very little left from this previous wonderworld, called "nowhere", that one was a truly great one.
The new reality is tricky, rough and much much harsher, or may I say, humanless then it used to be. Unfortunately. And so far, the overall situation is only getting worse. Although you, as many others, might have no other choice, but to jump into it, awaring that there will be a hard "landing", most likely - as you are jumping off the plane that is going down.
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