Comments by "Old Salty Bear" (@OldSaltyBear) on "Adult Actress shows Father her Content.." video.
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3:15 My ex decided to tell me she was going to hang out at a bar all day with her friends from work. I told her this was not recommended. She told me she didn't need my permission. My response was "true... you don't... but actions have consequences. " She went anyway.
After she left, I called her brother (who I had become good friends), to tell him that she and her son (single mom) would be moving out and will likely be showing up at his door the next day. He asked what was going on, so I gave him the play-by-play. He thanked me for calling and said he would handle it from there. He found out what bar she was at, drove two hours to go fetch her and brought her back to the house to start packing. Every time she opened her mouth to say something to me, he told her "shut the Fock up and pack". True to his word, he handled it.
Lessons:
1. When engaging with a woman, get to know her primary male influence. If they see you as a good man... and they are a good man themselves... they'll respect you and will back you up. If she has no male influence, or that male influence is not a good man, don't get involved with her to begin with.
2. Pick your battles wisely, draw the lines clearly and be fully prepared to walk away when she crosses one.
3. Never EVER get so intertwined with a woman... emotionally or financially... that walking away is not an option. Obviously hard to accomplish if there are children involved, but there are steps that can be taken in advance to protect your interests.
4. Don't argue with her. Ever. If she crosses a boundary, just move on. If there is a conflict where no boundary has been crossed , then don't waste your energy by arguing about it.
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