Comments by "Old Salty Bear" (@OldSaltyBear) on "GriffinMind" channel.

  1. 1:00 I give my male coworkers feedback on their look all the time. Love your tie, bro. Your suit is on point, brother. I also discreetly let them know when something is off, like some dust on their shoulders or they have a long stray hair. The response is always appreciative and reciprocated. On the flip side, I don't even look at my female coworkers and would never give them feedback.
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  2. 3:30 Something like this happened to me yesterday. I was travelling out of state and on my way home I went through a fast food drive through for a cold beverage. I didn't get anything for free... but instead of scowling at me like normal, the young lady who handed me my coffee said "thanks for stopping by, sweetie". I've been thinking about her ever since. Not because she was hot... but because she made eye contact and was friendly. How F'ed up is that?!?!
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  3. Exactly what my ex wife did. She told her family and friends I was "verbally and emotionally abusive" because I used words like "no" or "I am not comfortable with that" or "I'm not telling you what to do. I am trying to make you understand that your actions have consequences." They hated me for things that only existed in her head. No matter... she did me a favor.
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  4. 6:47 That woman is the poster child for why men no longer trust women. She shouldn't be worried about destroying her marriage. She should be worried about destroying that man. The life he thinks he has is a lie.... and she is worried about losing the lifestyle he gives her? Pathetic. Absolutely disgusting.
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  5. While she is reflecting, maybe she should regret that nose ring decision.
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  6. So after she rages and damages the sign, she begs him for compassion. Thats rich. Off to jail. Actions have consequences Boo.
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  7. 6:53 Makes you wonder... did they become teachers so that they can have the complete attention and control of a room full of tiny humans who don't have the ability to just get up and walk out?
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  8. 2:00 Wonder how often he's picked her hair out of the shower drain, properly disposed of her feminine hygiene products that she left in the garbage can next to the toilet or checked her car to make sure it was being maintained correctly.... and never said a word about it.
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  9. 11:30 A woman with bright red hair calling men "dude" is saying men her age are immature. That's interesting.
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  10. 1:20 Another issue I have with these "strong and independent" women today... the traditional women that I grew up around back in the 80s... the stay at home wives who raised children and handled the home front while hubby was at work.... dealt with all of life's problems head on. They didn't mess around. For example, the elderly neighbor down the street who used to babysit my siblings and I had her house broken in to. She was at home while her hubs was working. I distinctly recall hearing a commotion while my pals and I were playing street hockey... and then seeing her chasing a man down the street, a pew pew in one hand and a baseball bat in the other. When my buddies and I saw what was going on, we grabbed our hockey sticks and joined the chase. We got him cornered... and when Ms. Pat caught up, she messed that man up. I recall being impressed with her excellent form swinging the bat. haha When the police showed up, they had to pull Ms. Pat off the guy. Todays women can't even handle a windy night. Strong and independent my arse.
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  11. 4:30 Hang on a second, Boo just said for that $500k ring, HE gets her being the mother of his kids... and in the very next sentence HE gets to support her career? Those two things are not compatible. She cannot have a career and be a proper mother to children. Not for a man who can pay $500k for jewelry. Nope. Not gonna happen. For $500k jewelry you gonna be cranking out kids and then feeding, nurturing, training and home schooling on top of running the household and staying in shape for his pleasure. Absolutely delusional.
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  12. 1:03 Blows my mind that they'd rather squeeze in to a body squisher than go to the gym.
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  13. 12:30 They been together for coming up on a year. Do the math... that toddler is most definitely not his kid. Think about that a minute. She allowed... maybe even encouraged... that man to bond with her kid from another man and is now threatening to not only end her relationship with the man... but end the bond that he and her child have formed... to get what she wants. Unfortunately its standard operating procedure for unmarried mothers. There is more than one type of baby trapping, gents.
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  14. Look at all that flair on its vest!
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  15. 5:30 The problem with Griffin's logic here is that he assumes when she says she wants a "family" that her definition of "family" includes the father of her children. It does not. What she is really saying is that she wants children. She doesn't care if the father(s) of those children are involved in their lives. My guess is that she prefers his only involvement to be child support payments.
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  16. That dude complaining about the "you must be born again" sign is an idiot. The message is that you have to be born again... in order to reach heaven. Yes God gave us free will. The sign is reminding us that with free will comes consequences. Not a difficult concept to grasp.
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  17. 3:10 Imagine getting charged with a crime and this one shows up as your public defender.
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  18. Funny how such simple things lodge themselves in to our brains. Twenty two years ago I was going through a divorce and became platonic friends with a female coworker who was in the same situation. My male friends mostly felt sorry for me and would avoid talking with me about it at all costs... so it was nice to have someone to talk to that could relate. One evening we decided to meet up at a bar and shoot some pool. I remember walking in to find her at a table table, the balls racked and a glass of Bourbon, neat, sitting there waiting on me. I was taken aback. This woman I barely knew cared enough to remember what I drank and then was considerate enough to order it for me. I still remember her reaction when I thanked her. She smiled and said "Welcome to normal, Bear."
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  19. 7:19 I don't mind it when they wear masks. Its like a sign that says "don't talk to me I am crazy". Very helpful and considerate
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  20. If I'm payin, then I am choosing where we eat. Simple as that. If she don't like where I chose, then she can watch me eat. These women out there shaming men for taking them to BK or Cheesecake factory need to understand... he or she who pays get to pick the place. Flip side... if she makes me a home cooked meal then I am clearing the table and washing the dishes. The chef NEVER cleans up. Period. I don't understand why there is any confusion over this stuff. There's should be an "Proper Adult Behavior for Dummies" book.
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  21. 3:00 Someone wanna tell her that if she shows off her fakes like that in public, she is not a high value woman. She is a high value accessory. As with any fashion, the accessory goes out of style pretty quickly and gets replaced often.
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  22. If you think about it, these young fellers haven't been exposed to the swamp and therefore have no yet been corrupted. I also have zero problems with the one guy and his family using a section of the USAID office for temporary living space, since they all were doxed.
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  23. Haha 0:30 Had this exact same conversation with a woman I dated. I said "sure I would still love you if you were huge. I mean... I still love my dog even though she pooped on my bed as a puppy. I didn't let her in to the bedroom anymore tho." haha
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  24. 4:28 Dude did not carry his child for 9 months and then give birth to her. HE does not deserve to be called Mom. I am not sure that HE even deserves to be called Dad.
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  25. Same... right down to working full time while taking full time credit hours. I will not allow my time to be wasted. Don't care how hot she is.
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  26. Not only should paternity fraud be criminally prosecuted, these women should be held civilly liable for all funds received as part of that fraud, whether it was court mandated or voluntarily provided by the victim. 17:45 Notice she didn't mention paying these men or making them food, in exchange for their assistance. Of course not. They assume men have nothing better to do than be their servants. Zero respect for their time. Betting she didn't even say "please."
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  27. Its a master class on how to put clowns in check while maintaining your chill.
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  28. ... or "let this be our secret" or "<insert authority figure> doesn't have to know". Nothing good comes from any of that. Even if its over something that seems benign, its part of the grooming process.
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  29. Gifts are nice, but what really impresses me is spontaneous and unsolicited thoughtfulness. Like knowing how I like my coffee in the morning... or handling something that I typically do because she knows I am super busy with work. Thats wifey behavior right there. 7:53 Maybe he was thinking his gf was sharing. Sharing is caring, after all.
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  30. 5:42 I'm all in on the no makeup version 24/7. Ain't a damn thing wrong with her. No idea why she putting that garbage all over her face.
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  31. 3:55 If children should be able to witness any parade, why did they block the pro life march?
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  32. Truth. The only person to wish me a happy birthday on my 50th was my Dad. He sent me an email saying "happy birthday, old fart." I replied with a "thanks, older fart". haha
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  33. My experience was that college was high school v2.0 that you had to pay for. Like a club. It was mostly a waste of time. I gained exponentially more value at community college. Example: My math professor at community college had two PhDs in Physics and Mathematics and worked for NASA. My Calculus instructor at 4 year university was a graduate student who could barely speak English. I paid $175 for the opportunity to learn from NASA scientist at community college. I spent $3200 to teach myself calculus at University. That was back in the early 90s.
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  34. 3:30 Be careful gents. Some of these womens believe that they only should have to be traditional AFTER the man marries them. That's still transactional. Still a hard no. If you are looking for a woman to start a family with, find one that is already in the role. Observe how she treats her father, male elders and her male siblings. If she serves them and their well being is her priority, you know that she is legit.
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  35. My ex and her son went from living in my 2,800 square foot 4 bedroom townhouse with a yard... for free... to paying $800 a month plus utilities to live in a rodent infested single wide. They had multiple warnings over several years to get with the program but just couldn't figure out the "my house, my rules" thing. Buh Bye.
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  36. Bro My Mom did that when I called to tell her I got engaged. My fiancé (now ex wife) and I were one speaker phone. Mom said "I love you dearly and so it pains me to say this... but you are making the worst mistake of your life." My fiancé took it out on me for months after. Thing is Mom was right. Luckily there were no kids involved in the divorce and so I was able to make a clean break with an insignificant one time stupid penalty.
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  37. A youngen at work just told me she got engaged and that her fiance gave her a 5 carat diamond. I told her "congratulations on your engagement, but do you think that was the best use of fiance's money? With that money, he could have put a down payment on a house, purchased a brand new tricked out Toyota Land Cruiser, acquired 10+ acres in the country or put that money in a 529 for your children's college education. Now all you have is a shiny pebble that can be manufactured in a lab for about $50." She wasn't happy to hear that, but I think in her heart she knows I'm right.
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  38. My man at the end nailed it. You a moped girl. He thinks taking your for a ride is fun, but he doesn't want his buddies to see him doing it.
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  39. Truth I am 54. 6'3", 220 with acreage in the country. I love being single as well. The younger ladies can be a lot of fun, but messing with them comes at a cost. Only worth it if they are really cute. Had 🥃at the 🔥with the🐕‍🦺 last night. Beautiful night for it.
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  40.  @djaeger-k5m  When I was dating I owned two vehicles. I had a newer BMW 750Li xDrive and then a 20 year old pickup truck that I used to haul construction material for the house I was renovating as well as winter beater. When I picked up women for the first date, I always drove the truck. Her reaction told me a lot about what she was about. I threw in the towel on dating years ago so now when a woman asks me what I do for a living (aka how much I make) I tell them I am a farmer. Oh and I ditched the BMWs and just drive old trucks now.
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  41. 4:36 Is that her real voice? No wonder she is so bitter.
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  42. 8:00 This man is solid.... and what he says about reaching out is truth. There are men out there who know exactly how you feel at this very moment and I guarantee you walk in to any bar, gym or place of worship in this country and tell the first confident man you see that you need help... you will have it.
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  43. "no problem, son!" Dad's all... you. are. welcome. haha
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  44. ... and thats how a man handles his business. Good on you, bro.
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  45. If an alpha woman is tired of being lonely and masculine, there is a really easy fix to that. Repeat after me... - What ever you say, babe. - Are you hungry? Can I make you something? - No thank you, I've got a man. - No babe that costs too much. I don't need for anything... especially that.
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  46. I have always been the bread winner in all of my relationships. Each time I invested my money in my partner going back to school or otherwise improving herself, she would graduate and then continue at the same job they had before.... until I kicked them to the curb at which point they immediately started looking for a better paying job. Not once did I ever benefit from investing on a woman. So yeah... glad it worked out for you bro. You rolled the dice and won, but that the exception and not the rule.
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  47. See what you are saying, but forgiving is not the same as acceptance or approval. I forgive my ex wife for being a complete c&nt when we were married, but that doesn't mean I would ever trust her again or allow her to step foot in my home.
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  48. Side hustles bud. Look around and see what your neighbors need... and then offer to do it for a fair price. Example: I bale all of my neighbors hay fields for them. Saves them from having to spend the time as well as buy and maintain the equipment. I get paid in hay bales. Win-win.
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  49. 16:00 So my thing... as a man who has made the mistake of living with a single mother... is that I am very well aware I am not the kids father. However, if they living under my roof, then they abide by my rules. They will have chores. They will pick up after themselves. Most importantly, the will NOT disrespect my woman in my house. Yet these single moms think their kids can do whatever they want in my house and I have no say? F that. I got two words for that. "Leave" and "quickly".
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  50. My standard responses to women who are complaining or picking a fight with me. 1. I know I know... I'm just an animal!!!! 2. Ain't I the worstest ever! Lawdbabyjesus do I suck! 3. Love you too... <kiss on the forehead before dipping> 4. Yes yes yes... I'm a horrible boyfriend... so when do we get to the makeup segs? 5. How about them <insert local sports team> 6. Sorry what were you sayin? That / them <insert her best ass-et> got me all sideways. 7. (reserved for serious battles) Thing is, that door ain't bolted shut... and yet you still here. Weird.
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