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  625. 7:52 A politician promising to not do something in order to gain support is certainly to be taken at his word... Also, as someone else said in the comments, everyone has a different notion of "socialism". Like, for example, how our cronyism riddled neoliberal system in the USA is often referred to as "socialism for the rich". Per Marx, socialism is the stage after capitalism where the government seizes private property to be "held in common", and people are indoctrinated into the cause. The hypothesis is that this will eventually obviate the need for a government and it will just shed away leaving his vision of communism, which is by now clearly a fantasy. Did not the Nazis seize private property to be held by the state? Did the Nazis not indoctrinate the people into their cause? Sure, they didn't seize all means of production and private property. But this is how socialism works in practice: the people in power apply policy of seizure, redistribution, taxation and spending in order to secure their power and benefit their pals. Because this always happens, this leads to the claim that "real" socialism has never been tried. Just because it doesn't go down the way Marx wanted it to. In fact, Hitler appreciated Marx's vision, but was frustrated at its failure to materialize. An open party platform of policies that are "good for workers" and doing back room dealings with powerful people is classic real world socialism. The only way that this isn't socialism is if you take it to only mean the pipe dream of Marx. Someone else in the comments said "our textbooks even say they weren't socialist". Yes, because academia is infested with Marxists and postmodernists, who are interested in promulgating apologia for socialism. This should be clear even just by observing that self proclaimed communist/socialist countries killings vastly more people than the fascists did, yet we all remember 6 million. I didn't even learn about the holodomor until way after grad school, and out of everyone I've asked in my life, everyone knows about the holocaust, and almost no one knows about the holodomor. If it's still not clear how this is part of apologia, trace back the history of our modern day postmodernism through the frankfurt school and Gramsci. Another thing to consider: squabbling over whether the nazis were left vs right wing is just a lazy attempt to bypass thinking and sling crap at opponents. A la "everything I don't like or disagree with is Hitler". The notion of what is right or left was vastly different then as opposed to now, and american politics has always been different from european, primarily because of the federalism debate. We should judge policies by merit, logical analysis, and evidence, not by emotions and provenance. Most people just want a quick answer and to know who to vote for though, because politics is exhausting to obsess over.
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  826. Who woulda thunk, corporations and politicians working together to dilute labor costs and exploit people by letting people come across the border with reckless abandon. Those people are super easy to exploit. This is yet another reason to heavily restrict migrants coming in. If they're a small number, it's easier to manage them and harder to exploit them at scale. Plus it makes wages here higher for the people who are already here. We are not the saviors of the world anyway. You also need to understand that the reason these children are even being sent here is because of an attempt at compassion. This is a very common thing in progressive politics. See people suffering, we need to help them, don't think about knock on effects, suffering still happens anyway. All we did is encourage the breakup of families and give ourselves far more orphans than we could possibly manage properly. The obvious response to what I just said is: "why can't we just let them all in?". And the response to that is: "I thought you were upset about wage stagnation and cost of living increases, right?". Helping people, while good, is not free. And not every cost comes in the form of income tax. Every choice has an opportunity cost. If you don't like basic necessities costing so much labor to afford, you have to realize that the labor pool has swollen considerably, while local consumption (which would pay local wages) is not growing to match. Rapid change of any kind, including growth, causes instability. Doubly so when the growth comes increasingly from broken families.
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  1224. #2 she’s so close, but she just won’t admit that this problem is almost entirely up to women. Almost every young man goes through the experience of being rejected and invisible, and seeing girls go for players. Literally everyone knows the “nice guys come last” meme at this point. Young men expect that young women would like to be treated nicely, and that just being your awkward self is enough because being genuine is what should matter right? Most men have to go through this rude awakening of realizing that is not at all a good mental model for how most women behave, become jaded at the grotesque reality, and refuse to engage in anything that might look like a committed relationship, because get this, even a boyfriend can be forced to lose assets and pay his woman if she gets tired of him. Men aren’t afraid of commitment, they’re afraid of women not being able to hold to their commitment. We’re hopefully getting back on the right track with the bill in Florida to eliminate permanent alimony. Women, if you want men to treat you like more than an object to relieve desire, you have to be part of advocating for your value as anything more than that. The cost and probability of harm with commitment is just far too high at this point for anyone except an idiot to pay it What she is suggesting is only going to make things worse, and not help anyone. By her own stats, the majority of men don’t want a relationship. The only thing women like her can do is their best to help a man trust her, and campaign for men’s rights
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  1414. The reason many men are reluctant about couple’s counseling I don’t think is because of feeling inferior at making a case, it’s because you feel like the counselor, who most of the time is a woman, is going to be biased towards the woman, take her side. Productive couples counseling usually involves trying to change behavior, and this often ends up being one sided. Like “why don’t you do more housework?” And not to the woman “why don’t you see the value in what your man is doing for you?” Consider that most of the time couple’s counseling is initiated by the woman, and why she would be initiating it. Is she doing it because she thinks a mediator would be mutually beneficial, or because it will give her more power to benefit herself? Also consider this: as the man, how can the counselor help you? If you need therapy, you’d go to an individual therapist. If you’re lazy, you won’t want to go because you might have to change. If you’re actually fulfilling your role, then it’s the woman that needs counseling on how to feel ok about fulfilling hers The most common complaint that I hear about that instigates couples counseling is that the man isn’t doing some of the woman’s role in addition to the man’s role. I never hear of counseling happening because the man doesn’t want to protect the woman or provide for her. Seems to me that most of the time it’s because the woman also wants to do some providing, and for both partners to both work and split chores down the middle. The man understands that specialization is more efficient, but also recognizes his woman’s wants and goes along with supporting them verbally, but then instead of focusing on working, he’s gotta spend his evenings doing things, and his woman’s gotta do that too, and so she’s always exhausted and doesn’t want to be intimate. It’s not generally about the woman feeling unsafe because the man isn’t getting the bills paid and keeping her safe
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