Comments by "GEAUX FRUGAL" (@GEAUXFRUGAL) on "Why I was Homeless part 3 (Las Vegas cont'd) 🌵🌞🕋" video.
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I called my uncle yesterday he's at the casino. I asked how is he doing? He said he had $5 it's up to $35. I said fold it up and walk out you're up 3 hours work and last I checked they aren't hiring 80 year old luggage. He looks like an alligator suitcase he is so wrinkled up. He didn't listen came back home broke as usual.
They (mom) would pressure me into going to the casino and it's the same thing nearly every time. Get up $50 then they take it all back. So I went to the security told them I want to have myself banned from that casino. Ever since I've learned to saved up $1K a month.
Couple of weeks ago I had $5 K Saved up. Was texting mom asked her how she was doing. She was in the casino again she said not so good. I then took a picture of all the money and said , this is why I had myself banned. It's way more affordable to buy your own beer. She 24 H later asked me why I sent a picture of all that money. I said that you ridicule me for banning myself but this is what I have saved up.
See I was in a divorcerape 5 years ago. I bought moms old place. A hurricane ravaged termite chewed 💩 hole ready for demolition. It's not worth the $12 K I paid for it but it's my place as long as the city leaves me alone I'm good. I'm not ready to fix the place yet. I am debt free plan to stay that way. But they force me out I can figure something out.
The whole reason I bought from mom (too $ high) was back 5 years she had figured out she could start her life over. If she had $12 K she could move to SC and live with my sister. Get out of the free home my dad provided no strings attached.
I shouldn't have done it because it's just a bad deal , but you're licking your wounds after 17 years head fuckery, you aren't thinking clearly. But good old family are truly crabs in a barrel they see a comeup for them and you got it they angle away. I'm so done with it. I'm almost ready for the city to just 💩 on me one final time.
Sadly with family you show them you're stashing, they start to angle how to get it. She needs shoulder surgery severely ,but she gets more money than I. She always finds a way to spend every cent just like she has always done.
I know why people have developed this mindset. I worked on a construction road crew I was a trucker. I watched the workers which were in and out of prison all their lives. It's like a race to broke every Friday. Forget Dave Ramsey these mfrs are of the belief "it takes a village" hence a whole village of idiots is what you get. Because the way the village works is if you have ANYTHING you get pecked to death by ducks. No kidding they look at the "child that has his own" as someone that should share his own with the ones that raced to broke every Friday = Sunday broke. If the company didn't provide food they would starve.
Well my boy this is how my family life has been much of my life. 17 years I thought I was good 09 became debt free by 2017 my nest egg was well on the way to breaking$100K. The wife sees what savings became and, (look a race to broke) wants a new house wants to buy 2 doors down from the mayor.I said we have fixed everything you complained about over the years. Now you want to abandon it no it got us here it's going to get us there .
She would go out buy everything for all her friends. Movie tickets snacks dinner drinks. I went one time with her and the kid and Poof $50 just in the movie ! This was just for me, she had control over all the money and she did her best to piss it all away. I worked my ass off 80+ hour's a week and it seemed like I was just crawling financially ,now I know why it was her thinking broke is happiness. The time I was able to make a movie was by then I was worked out, on disability after back surgery, knee surgery , double clocking your body takes a toll .
When dad was alive he sent mom the money to NC to get the surgery. Well she never got the surgery and dad never got his $1K back. And I'm not dad I'm not giving her money to gamble she could have saved $5 K just like me if she would use self control. Lookit my credit rating 804, and I was divorceraped 5 years ago.
My ex well we had to sell the home and she rented. Guess where she is, not in the new house she wanted. She probably pissed away that hard earned money and is RENTING in the same place. Really fucking great , you threw away our life so you could go YOLO you know what YOLO stands for ? You only live outside cuz you'll be homeless if you live your life like you only live once. Live for today don't worry about tomorrow. I have been homeless not because I was irresponsible but because I've married people that just destroyed my income. Now that I no longer have anybody I don't want anybody I'm done I don't want to deal with the chicken shit that goes on with life with people that can't take their head out of their ass long enough to figure out what the hell they're doing.
Literally today is the anniversary of Dads death. One year ago I visited there and dad is gone face planted where he fell that last time , were waiting for the coroner and all that. Just a really bad scene.
See mom calls herself "there to help my dad" . Really he is the only fool that keeps falling for her 💩. She moves in and takes over and treats dad like he should move out. In a really bad way she acts, the spirit that follows her is a very bad one. I'll go visit she has tude I'm jetting out of there. I don't say a word because you have the right to do what you want in your house. So I'm not going to correct you in your home I just leave.
A little back story, I was in my 40's the first time I experienced my mom and dad at the same table eating. All my life they were divorced and she just hated him with a passion.
Today I'm going to the notary and I'm going to make a will. I'm giving my estate to my nephew. I have thought long and hard on this and it's the right thing to do. I raised my daughter she came over said she didn't like it here . I bought a 30' camper for her to be comfortable when visiting. $8.5K to 💩. She came over once.
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