Comments by "Pantherparatrooper" (@506thparatrooper) on "PsycHacks" channel.

As Kevin Samuels wisely said, "fit, feminine, naturally nurturing and cooperative women only." Eliminates 90% of the red flags.
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As a 29 plus US Army veteran, I know it's impossible to lead someone especially in combat who constantly challenges your authority directly or through passive aggressive behavior. What does "servant leadership" look like when you must order a Soldier to do something that most likely will get him killed? Great leaders care for their Soldiers and yet risk their Soldiers' lives often doing things the leader must not do.
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Jesus had to say he was the King of Kings and the mobs wanted him dead.
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@MisterCovek More likely to happen for a woman who believes being a lady is more important than being a feminist. Also, if a man prioritizes being a healthy masculine man over popularity especially with women.
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@KeyaCares Definition of leader: A role conferred on the basis of personal characteristics, experience, or through tradition by virtue of the position a person occupies in a group (e.g. team captain or coach). A leader generally takes a major role in making group decisions, motivating the group, and effecting group actions." Oxford dictionary What most "feminists" and more than a few westernized women call domineering is leadership. Like a cockpit of a plane, there is one captain in any relationship between a man and woman. There cannot be two hands on the yoke trying to take the plane in two different directions. Kindness and compassionate leadership but a servant is subordinate to the one they serve.
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@roses6564 More than a few kings had to remind an upstart or two they were king. The Spartan King Leonides in 300 is a good example of competitors big and small who had to be reminded.
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@tonybernard4444 Wisdom said well!
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@rayrwyr Yes. It took a few dates and I have found a truly amazing Ukrainian woman. Looking for the best opportunity to go over again.
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I respect Sean and have personally benefited from his material. Based on my personal life experiences, counseling couples for over 30 years and a wide array of public resources, the fact is many women divorce good, faithful men looking for their next "meal", ie next best man, that Disney movies, education, feminists and their female friends told them exists. They also told them not to be a victim of "toxic masculinity" and life is too short. Additionally, a "tidal wave" of "no fault" divorce laws swept through most states and most family courts ironically often find the man at "fault" in divorce cases. Read the popular women's magazines, like Vanity Fair, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, for the past 50 years, watch Hollywood movies & TV shows trashing all men. Listen to an ever increasing number of women sharing their regrets online for divorcing their good and faithful husband. Most women may not pursue divorce for "sport" but they do so for purely selfish reasons. Almost all women gladly allow their non-abusive and faithful husband to be ravaged by the family court system for their personal gain. Also, there is ample evidence of as many unfaithful wives as husbands and in some cases evidence of even higher rates of unfaithfulness among women and yet the unfaithful wife gets the same outsized benefits through the family courts as the abused wife.
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@OneWingedShark Certainly, a leader must care for those they lead. As you said, loyalty is a two way street. History is filled with plenty of examples of consistently loyal, servant leaders who are betrayed by those they led. Many real life examples of prodigal sons like the one in Jesus's parable. The prodigal son wished his father dead so he collect his inheritance to squander on himself. I'm curious, how does a General that cares for his men like a father come along side them and repeatedly send thousands to their deaths during a protracted war? I'm advocating that there must be a clear delineation between a leader and those he leads. Hence it is lonely at the top.
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You ignore 64 years of the counter-culture's war on authority and masculinity to ask why a man must remind a woman he is the man. Having to show you are better is reminding the woman you are the man. Every month, tens of thousands of women knowingly leave or divorce much better, wealthy, highly competent, strong leading men only to quickly regret it but rarely admit it. Millions of dysfunctional children raised in overwhelmingly single mother homes attest to how few women ever admit their man was a better leader in the home. After retiring with 29 1/2 years of military service I can confirm the counter culture's/ feminist's question all authority is radically transforming the greatest Army the world ever knew. The most junior enlisted Soldiers, especially females, consistently question and attempt to destroy extremely successful, competent leaders, especially heterosexual, white male leaders. Older veterans are shocked at how little of the military discipline and authority you describe remains in the US military. Proven, highly competent male leaders even at the highest ranks deal with the persistent threat of false sexual harassment, equal opportunity, hostile environment or other "toxic leadership" claims by junior soldiers. In the Army I joined, leaders rarely pulled rank because every Soldier fulfilled their oath to follow the lawful orders of their leaders unless the order was illegal, unethical or immoral. A man proving he is better to a woman is the equivalent of pulling rank-ie gold medal vs silver. This is why the majority of strong, competent and successful western men are checking out of dating all together or dating westernized women wherever they are found and seek more feminine, cooperative and submissive women from other cultures. While healthy men seek self-improvement, the average man doesn't get into a relationship with a woman for the same competition they face in the world. They look for rest and peace at home.
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One of the consequences of modern education that boasts about its level of sophistication, reasoning and diversity is the increasing number of graduates with none of these traits. Students are increasingly taught what to think instead how to think rationally. This is as much a reflection on the individual, parents and society as it is teachers. Much of modern American society lost the ability to have polite conversations especially among people with differing perspectives. Those exceptionally negative people exemplify of survival of the fittest and individualism detached from traditional values like courtesy.
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How does an intellectually honest individual determine whether a principle is true and worthy of practicing without reasonable judgement? This lack of judgement is why so many modern relationship practices rejecting many time proven traditional relationship principles led to so many miserable men and women in and out of relationships today. While money is important to a man, far more important to most healthy men is a mutually fulfilling, loving relationship with a respectful woman with a lifetime commitment.
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If you have practiced this I want the woman who thinks I'm the best she ever had approach for sometime, does that mean those women no longer think you're the best she could have since you're not in a committed relationship anymore?
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Because respect means different things to men and women, it takes a man to raise a boy to be a confident, attractive gentleman. For a few generations now, boys raised increasingly in single mother homes hearing consistently from the most influential woman in their life their abhorance, disgust and disrespect for the very traditional masculine traits, ie initiative, confident leadership, romance, women say they want in a man. Coming to my marriage a virgin and remaining faithful (31 years), I found respecting all women and myself ensured passionate and mutually fulfilling sexual intimacy in the safety of marital commitment.
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@playinglifeoneasy9226 Unfortunately, during the last years of 29 years in the US Army, I saw female "leaders" who could not load a dishwasher let alone face the challenges of battle.
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Because no westernized woman will ever admit a man is superior! Look at the number of women divorcing highly competent, successful and strong leading men destroying their families and children and often quickly regretting it and yet never admitting it.
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In fact, the vast majority of men who disciplined their bodies and remained virgins until marriage were celebrated and rewarded with virgin wives in most civilizations where the Judeo-Christian values were the predominant influence. It is only since the sexual revolution of the 1960's that promiscuity among men and women was celebrated as virtuous that virginity and faithfulness in a monogamous committed relationship are viewed as counterproductive. Even then, most males were virgins until marriage. After several decades of this shaking off virginity by males and females are more people embracing virginity until a committed marriage and increasing numbers of sexless males in western society.
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I dated several Ukrainian women during two trips to Ukraine. I met several ladies ready to spoil their man.
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Jesus had to say he was the King of Kings.
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