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  21. My friend is one of them. I met this Japanese guy on a language learning app. We became good friends. We traveled together. We hang out. It seems the days were always fun with him. He was a good normal, funny and and cool guy. We all had these good days together and we planned our trips. He does not drink. He looks young, fit and healthy in his early 30s. But he said, he did not have work. He quit because he wanted to try new things. I only found out his sad story when I got drunk and I asked him direct questions about his family, relationships etc. I asked about a big scar on his leg. Then he told me the story. His mom committed suicide when he was a teenager. His family had a bad life after. He had a violent fight with his dad and brother which ended up the three of them getting wounded. He kicked the glass window because of too much anger and a big shard of glass cut his leg. He stopped communicating with everyone and cut ties with his family and friends and moved to another prefecture. He said he just disappeared. He did this to start over. He worked in several factories and had different part time jobs to survive. He owns a very old phone. He does not use social media. His Line messenger does not have a profile picture. He did not share even his work email. We stopped hanging out when he said he had to go to Tokyo for job interviews. He suddenly stopped messaging. The good thing is, when I email him. He reads my messages by he does not reply. I am still waiting for his updates. haha
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  33. Nice video. I have three things to say: First, congratulations for leaving a job that deteriorates your mind. Wish you good luck for whatever you decide to do in the future. Second, I would like to point out that the situation is NOT that "you are not that important", "you are not as important as you think". The situation is that "comparing to the lost/inconvenience you may cause, your wellbeing/survival is more important/valuable". Hence, your colleagues' responses to your resignation is not telling you that "you are not important, you are not that important, your leave does not cause any problem to us" but telling you that "don't worry about us, although it's a loss for us to have you leave, we are strong enough to cope with this. Take good care of yourself." It's a positive vibe, not a negative one. And finally, "being yourself" and "not causing inconvenience to others" are not mutually exclusive. What really important here is to strike a balance between the two. Let me take the toilet example you used in the video as example: we keep the toilet clean not only because "dirty toilet would cause inconvenience to others", but also because "dirty toilet would cause inconvenience to ourselves". If everyone keeps the toilet clean, then everyone will have a clen toilet to use. What goes around, comes around. We care about something, not because others care about, but because we, ourselves, care about that thing. We are the subject, not others. Be nice to yourself. Don't value things/behaviors simply based on whether (in your perception) others care or not, but on YOU, yourself, care or not. Misjudging/misinterpreting others thoughts frequently lead to disasters and tragedies. The opposite of "important" is not "worthless". In most cases it means "even though not that important but still valuable". Cheers~
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